sam.fitzpatrick

I saw Oscar earlier this year in Columbus.  Massage was on a bed, and it was decent and at times good.  But for the most part, I felt like he was going through a checklist of what his massage routine was.  HE was included.  
As I drove away, I thought, "I might book another session on one of his future visits to town" rather than "I can't wait for him to visit again" but not "I won't ever book him again."  

This is one of many reasons why I am building my own website. Linking to it from my ad removes all the barriers, paywalls, and bs so I can share with clients the information and photos I want to share. It’s exhausting being beholden to RM.

I have a regular masseur that will turn his ad off one weekend every month when he is spending time with his family.  He tells me that he doesn't get requests for appointments (except from a regular like me who doesn't look at his ad anymore) so he's not getting complaints about not responding the same day.  It seems to work for him.

I see Chris when I visit family in Indianapolis and have been seeing him for nearly four years, most recently last weekend. 
He is a sweatheart and provides a nice massage.  I had a several knots in my upper back when I saw him last week and he spent plenty of time trying to work them out.  I had one knot that was just cooperating and he would work on another area and come back to it.  I'm not sure who was most relieved when it finally loosened up.
Yes, his photos are dated.  He isn't in the same shape he was when I first started seeing him, but it hasn't impacted my enjoyment of our appointments.  He enjoys being nude and my appointments have included MT and HE.  

I remember discussing at intermission, “Do some of Jesse’s other contracts prevent him going full frontal in this production, since nearly everyone else has (other than the other Jesse, of course, who I thought fully earned his Tony win in the show)?” And then shortly after intermission we realized, “Oh, no, they simply saved the best for last!”
A couple hours later, while waiting for the restroom at a nearby bar, I was checking out a very hot guy at a nearby table - and then realized it was the same stud I’d just seen naked on stage!

Early this year I hired an escort and had a good time. Not great, but good. Shortly thereafter I injured my knee and was laid up for several weeks. During that time my apartment was pretty neglected because I couldn't put weight on one leg. After recovering, I was faced with a monumental housecleaning task. 
Enter the escort. He routinely checked in on me and more than once offered help cooking and grocery shopping. So I asked if he could help me clean. He immediately replied "yes" and asked if I wanted him naked or wearing a jockstrap. Turns out, he likes doing routine household tasks naked. 
I hired him for 90 minutes and he was here for three hours and did a fantastic job. I'm asking him to come back soon, as it's time for fall cleaning and it will go faster if he helps me. He insisted on doing it naked this time and who am I to stop him? Will post an update after the deep cleaning is done. 

I've had this happen once.  I thought the escort simply needed a breather; he had stopped the action and started chatting while still inside me.  This was not the first time he had done that with me.  However, after about 30 seconds to me he asked, "do you realize I'm pissing in you right now?"  
Hasn't happened since, but it is an interesting to drop that in a game of "Never Have I Ever" and get the reactions.

I saw Sam while in NYC at the end of June.  This was my third massage with him, but the first one since the pandemic and first time he hosted me at his current location in Chelsea.  The set up is good for the massage and he had the atmosphere just right to relax after a hectic travel day.  
The massage itself was great.  In fact, per my request, he focused some time on a spot in my shoulder that was bothering me.  Any time I mentioned that something felt good, he spent extra time working that area.  I walked back to my hotel, climbed in bed, and had the best sleep I had had in several weeks.  
I will try to schedule an appointment with him on my next visit to the city.

I will use MF sometimes to get a better sense of a provider’s location, as many default on RM to the Loop in Chicago. I know not everyone is the same 5.47 miles away from me as indicated by RM.

I finally ended my MF membership last month. I’m sick and tired of all the strict policies, exorbitant fees, and low return on investment. I have been on the fence about leaving for a long time.
To make the decision, I conducted a test. I ran generous specials for two weeks, something equivalent to 50% off, just to see if that would attract a lot more inquiries. I expected many, but only got a few hits, mostly from visitors.
The visitors business doesn’t really help because the idea is to bring in new potential repeat business, not someone who would likely see me only once. I appreciate the bookings, but tbh these people would have booked me at full price anyway.
The other hits were from clients who also viewed my RentMasseur ad and were asking for the discount. One of them booked me through RentMasseur and then a day later viewed my MF profile and asked after the fact if he could get the MF special I was running. That was the last straw. I canceled his appointment, telling him that I could no longer give him 100% of my effort. I would rather not have the appointment than deliver subpar service knowing this client is willing to pay full price but now isn’t because I was running the deep discount test.
I canceled MF right then and there. No regrets. I get plenty of business from RentMasseur. If anything, I am using the savings to double down boosting my RM ads with paid extra advertising features. So far it’s working nicely.
So basically I have been paying MF a steep premium for the privilege of having to discount to get new business…when all the while most clients are viewing my RentMasseur ad anyways. And many of them are willing to book me at my normal rates. The value is just not there, at least not for me.
MF works best for therapeutic only providers.

I've had this happen once.  I thought the escort simply needed a breather; he had stopped the action and started chatting while still inside me.  This was not the first time he had done that with me.  However, after about 30 seconds to me he asked, "do you realize I'm pissing in you right now?"  
Hasn't happened since, but it is an interesting to drop that in a game of "Never Have I Ever" and get the reactions.

What happens when we're at 69%?   😉

@RadioRob
Since the letter is not addressed to you or to Company of Men, even if it had been written by an attorney it would not have been a valid cease and desist order.   I would have returned it to the post office marked "Addressee Unknown."

@RadioRob
Since the letter is not addressed to you or to Company of Men, even if it had been written by an attorney it would not have been a valid cease and desist order.   I would have returned it to the post office marked "Addressee Unknown."

Finally got around to watching this yesterday.  Residing in Columbus, much of the allegations where not surprising to me; however, seeing it all together in one story rather than 2-minute stories on the local news is quite impactful.  The individuals that shared their personal stories shared more detail in the documentary than in anything I recall from local coverage.
And yes, Jim Jordan does not come out well in this documentary.  It will be interesting to see if an opponent pulls this out on the campaign trail next year.

One must assume that "Safe Only" means just that and if you want to engage in bareback sex, don't solicit that individual's services. 
However, when I reach out to that advertises as "Safe Only", I confirm the assumption of safe sex and state, "I assume you will be brining your own condoms for our playtime."  Then if there is any hesitation on his part, we have a further conversation.

I've had this happen once.  I thought the escort simply needed a breather; he had stopped the action and started chatting while still inside me.  This was not the first time he had done that with me.  However, after about 30 seconds to me he asked, "do you realize I'm pissing in you right now?"  
Hasn't happened since, but it is an interesting to drop that in a game of "Never Have I Ever" and get the reactions.

I've had this happen once.  I thought the escort simply needed a breather; he had stopped the action and started chatting while still inside me.  This was not the first time he had done that with me.  However, after about 30 seconds to me he asked, "do you realize I'm pissing in you right now?"  
Hasn't happened since, but it is an interesting to drop that in a game of "Never Have I Ever" and get the reactions.

One must assume that "Safe Only" means just that and if you want to engage in bareback sex, don't solicit that individual's services. 
However, when I reach out to that advertises as "Safe Only", I confirm the assumption of safe sex and state, "I assume you will be brining your own condoms for our playtime."  Then if there is any hesitation on his part, we have a further conversation.

I was there a few years ago during Pride.  I wasn't focused on the timing of the weekend when I scheduled it, it was simply a weekend that worked best for the friends that wanted to gather in NYC during June, so had no Pride expectations for the weekend.  I enjoyed the parade, but it was tight to move around once there.  If you are going to the parade, bring your own water to stay hydrated.
On both Friday and Saturday nights I attended bars with dancers and lap dance spaces.  Because it was Pride, there were several out-of-town dancers visiting to take advantage of it being Pride, so the quality and quantity of dancers was pretty good.  And I'm sure some of the musicals will be catering to the gay community - in particular Death Becomes Her features the For the Gaze number that really is 'for the gays.'  (I'll stop there to protect the spoilers other than to say the recorded versions of The Tonight Show and Tony Awards performances were truncated for television.)
 

One must assume that "Safe Only" means just that and if you want to engage in bareback sex, don't solicit that individual's services. 
However, when I reach out to that advertises as "Safe Only", I confirm the assumption of safe sex and state, "I assume you will be brining your own condoms for our playtime."  Then if there is any hesitation on his part, we have a further conversation.

One must assume that "Safe Only" means just that and if you want to engage in bareback sex, don't solicit that individual's services. 
However, when I reach out to that advertises as "Safe Only", I confirm the assumption of safe sex and state, "I assume you will be brining your own condoms for our playtime."  Then if there is any hesitation on his part, we have a further conversation.

One must assume that "Safe Only" means just that and if you want to engage in bareback sex, don't solicit that individual's services. 
However, when I reach out to that advertises as "Safe Only", I confirm the assumption of safe sex and state, "I assume you will be brining your own condoms for our playtime."  Then if there is any hesitation on his part, we have a further conversation.

I've had this happen once.  I thought the escort simply needed a breather; he had stopped the action and started chatting while still inside me.  This was not the first time he had done that with me.  However, after about 30 seconds to me he asked, "do you realize I'm pissing in you right now?"  
Hasn't happened since, but it is an interesting to drop that in a game of "Never Have I Ever" and get the reactions.