sam.fitzpatrick

I will use MF sometimes to get a better sense of a provider’s location, as many default on RM to the Loop in Chicago. I know not everyone is the same 5.47 miles away from me as indicated by RM.

I finally ended my MF membership last month. I’m sick and tired of all the strict policies, exorbitant fees, and low return on investment. I have been on the fence about leaving for a long time.
To make the decision, I conducted a test. I ran generous specials for two weeks, something equivalent to 50% off, just to see if that would attract a lot more inquiries. I expected many, but only got a few hits, mostly from visitors.
The visitors business doesn’t really help because the idea is to bring in new potential repeat business, not someone who would likely see me only once. I appreciate the bookings, but tbh these people would have booked me at full price anyway.
The other hits were from clients who also viewed my RentMasseur ad and were asking for the discount. One of them booked me through RentMasseur and then a day later viewed my MF profile and asked after the fact if he could get the MF special I was running. That was the last straw. I canceled his appointment, telling him that I could no longer give him 100% of my effort. I would rather not have the appointment than deliver subpar service knowing this client is willing to pay full price but now isn’t because I was running the deep discount test.
I canceled MF right then and there. No regrets. I get plenty of business from RentMasseur. If anything, I am using the savings to double down boosting my RM ads with paid extra advertising features. So far it’s working nicely.
So basically I have been paying MF a steep premium for the privilege of having to discount to get new business…when all the while most clients are viewing my RentMasseur ad anyways. And many of them are willing to book me at my normal rates. The value is just not there, at least not for me.
MF works best for therapeutic only providers.

I've had this happen once.  I thought the escort simply needed a breather; he had stopped the action and started chatting while still inside me.  This was not the first time he had done that with me.  However, after about 30 seconds to me he asked, "do you realize I'm pissing in you right now?"  
Hasn't happened since, but it is an interesting to drop that in a game of "Never Have I Ever" and get the reactions.

What happens when we're at 69%?   😉

@RadioRob
Since the letter is not addressed to you or to Company of Men, even if it had been written by an attorney it would not have been a valid cease and desist order.   I would have returned it to the post office marked "Addressee Unknown."

@RadioRob
Since the letter is not addressed to you or to Company of Men, even if it had been written by an attorney it would not have been a valid cease and desist order.   I would have returned it to the post office marked "Addressee Unknown."

Finally got around to watching this yesterday.  Residing in Columbus, much of the allegations where not surprising to me; however, seeing it all together in one story rather than 2-minute stories on the local news is quite impactful.  The individuals that shared their personal stories shared more detail in the documentary than in anything I recall from local coverage.
And yes, Jim Jordan does not come out well in this documentary.  It will be interesting to see if an opponent pulls this out on the campaign trail next year.

One must assume that "Safe Only" means just that and if you want to engage in bareback sex, don't solicit that individual's services. 
However, when I reach out to that advertises as "Safe Only", I confirm the assumption of safe sex and state, "I assume you will be brining your own condoms for our playtime."  Then if there is any hesitation on his part, we have a further conversation.

I've had this happen once.  I thought the escort simply needed a breather; he had stopped the action and started chatting while still inside me.  This was not the first time he had done that with me.  However, after about 30 seconds to me he asked, "do you realize I'm pissing in you right now?"  
Hasn't happened since, but it is an interesting to drop that in a game of "Never Have I Ever" and get the reactions.

I've had this happen once.  I thought the escort simply needed a breather; he had stopped the action and started chatting while still inside me.  This was not the first time he had done that with me.  However, after about 30 seconds to me he asked, "do you realize I'm pissing in you right now?"  
Hasn't happened since, but it is an interesting to drop that in a game of "Never Have I Ever" and get the reactions.

One must assume that "Safe Only" means just that and if you want to engage in bareback sex, don't solicit that individual's services. 
However, when I reach out to that advertises as "Safe Only", I confirm the assumption of safe sex and state, "I assume you will be brining your own condoms for our playtime."  Then if there is any hesitation on his part, we have a further conversation.

I hired a provider and he came to my hotel.  His profile said "No" to smoking.  After he walked in he proceeded to pull out his vape pen and take a long hit.  I told him very pointedly to not do that as I don't like it and there is charge for anyone caught smoking or vaping in a room.  
Well.
He went on a rant about how I did not understand the science of vaping, how it is 180 degrees different from smoking, that whatever I see exhaled is ONLY water vapor - absolutely nothing more - and that he had the right to vape whenever and wherever he pleased.  He proceeded to then pull out his vape pen again and blow it in my face and say "see only water vapor".    My response was very straightforward "See, there is the door, leave."
 
Smoking and vaping are two of the key reasons that I pretty much never kiss a provider....just bad oral hygiene is the other.  Its also why I keep altoids near me at all times and a unopened toothbrush....if your breath can peel the paint off a wall, you need to down the entire tin and/or go brush very well.

I was there a few years ago during Pride.  I wasn't focused on the timing of the weekend when I scheduled it, it was simply a weekend that worked best for the friends that wanted to gather in NYC during June, so had no Pride expectations for the weekend.  I enjoyed the parade, but it was tight to move around once there.  If you are going to the parade, bring your own water to stay hydrated.
On both Friday and Saturday nights I attended bars with dancers and lap dance spaces.  Because it was Pride, there were several out-of-town dancers visiting to take advantage of it being Pride, so the quality and quantity of dancers was pretty good.  And I'm sure some of the musicals will be catering to the gay community - in particular Death Becomes Her features the For the Gaze number that really is 'for the gays.'  (I'll stop there to protect the spoilers other than to say the recorded versions of The Tonight Show and Tony Awards performances were truncated for television.)
 

One must assume that "Safe Only" means just that and if you want to engage in bareback sex, don't solicit that individual's services. 
However, when I reach out to that advertises as "Safe Only", I confirm the assumption of safe sex and state, "I assume you will be brining your own condoms for our playtime."  Then if there is any hesitation on his part, we have a further conversation.

One must assume that "Safe Only" means just that and if you want to engage in bareback sex, don't solicit that individual's services. 
However, when I reach out to that advertises as "Safe Only", I confirm the assumption of safe sex and state, "I assume you will be brining your own condoms for our playtime."  Then if there is any hesitation on his part, we have a further conversation.

One must assume that "Safe Only" means just that and if you want to engage in bareback sex, don't solicit that individual's services. 
However, when I reach out to that advertises as "Safe Only", I confirm the assumption of safe sex and state, "I assume you will be brining your own condoms for our playtime."  Then if there is any hesitation on his part, we have a further conversation.

I've had this happen once.  I thought the escort simply needed a breather; he had stopped the action and started chatting while still inside me.  This was not the first time he had done that with me.  However, after about 30 seconds to me he asked, "do you realize I'm pissing in you right now?"  
Hasn't happened since, but it is an interesting to drop that in a game of "Never Have I Ever" and get the reactions.

I just spent a couple of hours with @nate_sf yesterday and I give him a definite thumbs up. First of all he is a really nice guy. We met for a drink to start things off and I felt like the conversation went very well. It was engaging and relaxing at the same time. He put me at ease and hopefully I did the same in return. Secondly, he listened to my needs/desires/interests/requests and delivered accordingly. Third, his pictures are accurate and he is a very sexy guy. I think you would be very pleased with him.

Unfortunately, I need to be out of town that weekend.  In past years, I have enjoyed being around the convention center and nearby restaurants just to watch the comings and goings of attendees.  It is really quite the sight.

I find that I have different friends for different activities.   
I play in three different poker groups and I am the youngest player in each by at least five years and as much as having individuals 30 years older than me.   I tend to go to the theater and travel with friends that are my age.   And when I go out to the gay bars, it is usually with guys younger than me by 10-20 years.

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I find that I have different friends for different activities.   
I play in three different poker groups and I am the youngest player in each by at least five years and as much as having individuals 30 years older than me.   I tend to go to the theater and travel with friends that are my age.   And when I go out to the gay bars, it is usually with guys younger than me by 10-20 years.

I find that I have different friends for different activities.   
I play in three different poker groups and I am the youngest player in each by at least five years and as much as having individuals 30 years older than me.   I tend to go to the theater and travel with friends that are my age.   And when I go out to the gay bars, it is usually with guys younger than me by 10-20 years.

I find that I have different friends for different activities.   
I play in three different poker groups and I am the youngest player in each by at least five years and as much as having individuals 30 years older than me.   I tend to go to the theater and travel with friends that are my age.   And when I go out to the gay bars, it is usually with guys younger than me by 10-20 years.

I find that I have different friends for different activities.   
I play in three different poker groups and I am the youngest player in each by at least five years and as much as having individuals 30 years older than me.   I tend to go to the theater and travel with friends that are my age.   And when I go out to the gay bars, it is usually with guys younger than me by 10-20 years.