Luv2play

I just checked my old agenda and Pride Weekend last year ended with the parade on August 18th, not the 11th. So they must have shifted it back a week this year, for all that matters with no parade. My weekend fun was on the 16 and 17th.

That’s a sad outcome to a life lived in the public view. For some reason, I am reminded of Marilyn Monroe who lived at a much higher level but ended up the same at about the same age, give or take a couple of years.

This is Pride Week in Montreal but from what I know the city cancelled this year’s parade. I ws at last year’s event on this weekend and had a wonderful time over the weekend, and I didn’t even see the parade. The whole Gay Village was alive day and night and I was staying at Le Gouverneur Hotel right in the middle of it. I had two escorts booked for the weekend so for me the fireworks were mostly going off in my suite:).

This is bad news for the stripper clubs in Montreal. Americans are their best customers, particularly in the warmer weather during the summer. Given the exchange rate where the US$ goes much farther that the Canadian$, the free wheeling spending is severely curtailed. I imagine many strippers were able to take advantage of the government supports although have no way of knowing that personally. A basic $2000 plus extra $1000 eligible earnings (reportable) mean that at least the rent and car payments are met. Many strippers have girlfriends who, if unemployed as a result of the pandemic, are also collecting $2000 per month. Of course, all of this government largess is coming to an end soon so things may change. Where the bars lose out though is in fewer clients buying drinks and supporting the wait staff. If I get down to Montreal soon, I will definitely check out Stock and Campus.

I think in these situations, where the unexpected happens before the anticipated arrival of the escort, one has to make every effort to try to retrieve the situation. In some cases this may be possible but in others it clearly doesn’t work out. For me as a client, if the changes that happen beyond either of our control, such as a car breakdown or a train that gets cancelled, one looks to whether the escort is willing to work out a solution that meets the essential wants of the client. If there has been good communication beforehand, so the escort knows what is expected out of the date, he should try to come up with an idea that solves the problem. In some cases, this may involve offering to come back at a date in the near future that would meet the expectations of the client, such as a date involving a dinner, a performance at a theatre or other event, or something that is time sensitive and can’t be accommodated by a delay of several hours in an evening and overnight session. In the final result, the client is paying not just for time but for an experience. Simply moving a 12 hour period by several hours may skew the whole evening and not be satisfactory to the client. The escort may only see it as 12 hours of time, like punching in a clock to work. But that is not the way most clients see it, unless they are just looking for 12 hours of non-stop sex!! And what escort would be happy with that? After all, in an overnight, the escort should be able to expect to get some sleep in and as a client, I also love the prospect of cuddling up and going to sleep with my partner after a great dinner, some relaxing talk and a great toss in the sheets.

Well as I said I am practising social distancing with all strangers I meet and even those I know and interact with on a daily basis by keeping 6 feet and wearing a mask any time I am indoors in public places. I don’t have any symptoms like coughing or temperatures so my risk of spreading is low under these circumstances. The particular town I live in has had no known cases of the illness or any deaths. The larger surrounding area of three counties has had no cases in over 4 weeks now. Previously most cases were in long term care homes and medical workers attached to them. I am fortunate not to live in a larger urban centre where cases are higher. Also I am here in Canada, and while our governments at all levels were slow to react initially, they then went all out to contain the virus by closing most work places and paying workers to stay home. This is starting to relax now. I have been going to my gym for 6 weeks now only using the pool, which is restricted to 4 people at a time. If I were to cut myself off from seeing escorts, and I did for the first 3 months of the shutdown, life would become pretty miserable and not good for my mental health. Even the schools here are reopening in 5 weeks mainly because of the mental health aspects of what isolation is doing to kids. You are entitled to your approach and it may be suitable in your area of the world but it doesn’t apply across the board.

To fully understand my motivations, you should also know that from my previous date with him, he throws a mean fuck and I mean that in the nicest sense of the term. So I would like to see him again at some point.

After more than 6 months of the pandemic, how many people do you personally know who have contracted the disease? Of course it will depend on where you live to some extent but I don’t know any and when I ask my family and friends who live elsewhere in the country they don’t know anyone either. I’m not saying it isn’t serious but one has to keep a certain perspective on the numbers and what they mean In reality to one’s own life. Certainly I have changed my behaviours when out in public spaces and washing my hands, wearing a mask when inside stores and other public places etc. IMO it’s going to be a long time until a vaccine is perfected and even then the virus will be around.Look at the flu vaccine, which I take every year. It doesn’t guarantee I won’t get the flu but if I did the symptoms may be milder. We don’t know how a future vaccine for Covid19 will operate. Meanwhile life must go on.

I actually ended up thinking there was no real way for him to compensate for the unfortunate change in the timing of his arrival, which was no fault of his. I briefly considered asking him to reduce his fee, which was quite generous, but then thought the three hour delay in getting started would throw everything off by too much. By the time we got through a leisurely dinner and relaxing after, we would not get to bed before midnight and I would be too exhausted to enjoy it very much. I do enjoy playtime in the morning before breakfast, which is a key feature for me in an overnight date, but the added time after breakfast of one hour did not appeal to me much since going straight back to bed again was something I couldn’t get my head around. I’ve paid cancellation fees before when I thought it appropriate and did so this time un begrudgingly. I’m still on good terms with this escort and I am sure we will get together in the future.

He had already bought the new tickets, which had no refund feature, before advising me of the change. The original train was cancelled. I know this to be the case as it didn’t show up in town later. I have been with the escort before and he is a nice guy. He would have been out of pocket for the tickets he ended up not using which cost him $200. So I covered the cost. We both ended up losing.

Coral Gables. My mistake.

Just checked his image. Wasn’t’t him but another who performed in Coral Sands at that time.

This would have been about 2002

I think I was paying about. $150 then for some top notch escorts in NYC And Miami. But memories dim.

I haven’t heard the lube scenario before this. Quite disturbing. I always offer mine but accept the escort’s too if he prefers his.

Am I right in thinking Bobby had a PA in his cock? I seem to remember sucking it very carefully so I wouldn’t break a tooth. I remember him as being very sweet too.

I was supposed to have an o/n tonight but it fell through at 3pm, 2 hours before he was supposed to show up. There were problems with the train he was to take but in the end it meant we would lose 3 hours of playtime in the evening which he offered to make up with one extra hour in the morning. I declined as sex after breakfast does not really do it for me. He didn’t offer a fee reduction but I paid him a $200 cancellation fee. Such goes life.

This is good news. May be a time to visit Montreal again. It’s been a long time.

I also bottomed for the famous Claude, a Belgian in Miami during the 1990’s. His cock was the thickest of any man I have ever taken, at least 8 inches around, except for Jay Dymel, who was maybe a bit thicker.

Years ago I was with a black escort in Miami and he had a 12 inch cock. I think his name was Masters but it was over 20 years ago. He used to dance at the sauna in Coral Sands. At that time I also met Bobby Blake and a couple of other black dancers who escorted on the side. I was younger then and could take a cock that size but today I’ve scaled back a couple of inches.

Oh yes, and I floss every day.

Oh I truly feel for you. This is one issue I could not overlook in a physical relationship with another person. Oral hygiene is as important as any other aspect of one’s physical health. Since I am a very passionate kisser, I could not bring myself to kiss someone as you described. I’m 73 and have perfect teeth, but I go to a dentist 4 times a year and also have an excellent diet. Still have all my teeth except for the molars which were taken out when I was 25. I know its expensive to keep up with one’s teeth and I am fortunate in that my parents started me at an early age to have regular checkups. I think I can still remember every dentist visit I have ever made and the names of all my dentists down through the years. I was in touch with my dentist this week to start resuming visits and was shocked that I will have to wait 3 months to see him. I put myself on his cancellation list in case someone has to cancel.

This is a great idea right now. It will be a year this Sept. since I was in NYC and saw a couple of escorts. One is now in Spain the last I heard a couple of months ago and the other I wouldn’t recommend, altho he is highly rated on RM. I left an only slightly critical review of him on RM and took off one star because of his outdated photos and he went berserk and had RM Take off the review. Other than that there are some escorts in NY I would love to see, based on their reviews and profiles on RM.

Thanks for your explanation. I hadn’t realized cock and dick had that different connotation. I use both interchangeably and have never had a black escort or any other Black I have had sex with over the years bring it up. The last black escort I saw was 3 weeks ago so I try to keep up with the times. If he doesn’t want his dick fetishized perhaps a bit less emphasis should be placed in the pics in his RM ad where virtually all emphasis the phenomenal size of his (ahem) member.

I read in the NYTimes the other day that many restaurants will be shuttering their places in the near term in Manhattan including some popular chains which intend to keep their places open in Florida and other states. They simply don’t see a way forward in paying the kind of rents in NY for locations where they will have to reduce seating. Presumably a vaccine would change this equation but when is that likely to be available. Once the eatries (and bars) go, the tourist draw and business trips, conventions, etc are going to be impacted. If the virus impact lasts into 2021, there could be a seismic shift in population movements, which will inevitably affect rents and property values in high priced cities.