msclwrsper

Based on my experience with him, he's very versatile.
But that's another story for another time.

Mine too.

Not a single ounce of surly on him, he was such a sweetheart!!!

Thanks for the "recent" info on the Lucky Horseshoe! It's been a while since I've been to Chicago but every time I went, I enjoyed some time at the Shoe! What was the dancer pool like?

Agreed. I did the VIP area once and that was enough to know it’s not for me. A lot of guys love it back there but I prefer my trysts to be in private rather than a three walled ‘room’. I try to get a table near the stage and that’s where I stay for the night. Get drunk with friends, tip the good performers and have a provider at my hotel the next day. SR has a lot of hot dancers so they won’t all be in the back at the same time. Enjoy what’s available at the moment.

Don't get so concerned about the other patrons when you're out in a club - you're there to have a great time and that will always be evident to the dancers. If there's a New York lawyer spending his quarterly bonus on the same night you happen to stop in, he'll get attention, sure. But, you money is the same green color, and, surprise, some performers will enjoy being around a respectful, happy, and fun client. A night out is what you make of it, enjoy yourself!

Thanks for the info. I wondered why dancers I had an eye on would disappear for the entire night into a VIP room. I now see that compared to $5K+ a night in a VIP room, my measlly little budget of $500 per night night (about $100 per dancer, multiple dancers), is chump change. Don't get me wrong, I still am remembered and greeted fondly when I walk in the door of the establishment each night, it's just now I know about a whole 'nother level of spending.

I’m astonished. Do some men truly spend that in a night getting lap dances in a strip club?

Yer talkin' two different experiences here- you really should try both, if at all possible! Boxers is more of a "hillbilly holiday", while Richard's is a showcase of beefy and gay-for-pay eye candy, both worth a visit in my opinion. Atlanta's plus is that you can run over to Cheshire Bridge and check out the guys at BJ Roosters (not nude, but cute in their own way)

They did the last time I was there.  Mondays are never a busy night, but they've traditionally always had dancers after 9pm if they were open....  even if it was only 3-5 dancers.  (Meaning only one up on the bar at a time with a small time with no dancer at all.)
Unless things have changed during covid.  I've only been to ATL a few times post COVID.  But I've not heard of a change from friends that worked there.  

What is SW?

Have you tried @Bobby Biceps? He’s a member here in the forum. 
 
https://www.thebestflex.com/profile/Bobby-Biceps
 
I highly recommend him. 
 

I do indeed travel for sessions! I love an adventure and love traveling. It’s a huge hobby of mine and because of the regimen involved to staying in top shape it’s something i don’t do nearly enough of  but to answer your question yes. I would definitely travel if it worked for everyone involved  

Good to see regulars here give praise to a newbie in the biz. Congrats!

I've met with Bobby a few times and he is the real deal!!
Very professional and friendly open to all muscle worship scenarios and his a real honest to goodness Bodybuilder!!!!
I definitely highly recommend him if you like a 6ft 227lbs muscle man flexing for you in person!!!!!💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽

Hi All!!
Posting here as a way to introduce myself to the community and to just say "hi" 😃. Im looking to really continue to get my name out there in the NYC/NJ/CT area. Everyone I've met so far has been extremely pleased with the service they have received and I figured why not start advertising a little! From what I've heard, there are tons of flakes, trial and error, and no-showing when it comes to meetups. I can say honestly I'm as "legit" as they come. I pride myself on showing up as advertised, on time, and always in a professional manner.
https://www.thebestflex.com/profile/Bobby-Biceps
Looking for sponsorships in the NYC/NJ/CT area but love flying to destinations as well
61e03512540c162fc5f8cea3d9c43f6b007c997b.png.webp

Hello Bobby.  It has been a pleasure to correspond with you in a couple different ways.  I hope you are doing well.  I am no expert - having only done 5 muscle worship hires in my life.  But I would suggest RentMen and this message forum.  Those are the places I look, along with BestFlex.  This forum must be one of the biggest around for muscle service, but other folks may know of more options.  If you can post here from time to time and develop a following, that will be a major step.  RentMen is great, but it does not allow providers and clients to interact like this forum does.  Aside from the business connections which can be built, it's also a chance to have public and private conversations with some really fine and interesting people (like you) and I'm sure that can lead to bookings.  Sure, you will run into some flakes jerks, but they can be found at your local CVS or Safeway, right?  You already have some fans on this forum and I think you can "grow" that base.  Count me as someone who would love a muscle worship meet-up at some point.... and also the opportunity to get to know you.  (Unless, of course, you are secretly an axe murderer or something like that.  LOL.)  Again, I hope all is well and that 2022 will be a top-notch year for you.  Thanks for posting here.

@Bobby Biceps
yes, rentmen is the best other option.....and periodic posting in this forum.....as @crushme99 says.....
be clear ahead of time with any limits you have during a meet.....be honest and professional.....trust your first instincts.....there will be freaks, time-wasters, and bullshitters, unfortunately (you probably already realize that)......I'd also add a "signature" to your profile here in this forum that is your bestflex page link.....and add the rentmen one later if you set that up.....
the readers of this forum are mostly very good people, but are a small, small amount compared to the number of rentmen readers.....if you get an inquiry from a member of this forum, it probably has a lot more validity than a rentmen inquiry
as I said, continue posting here in the "Deli" forum and consider a rentmen profile....rentmen has a somewhat stiff monthly fee, but will result in many new inquiries compared to the relatively unknown bestflex site....be ready to wade thru dozens of contacts daily and learn how to tell who is serious and who isn't......lots to figure out
https://www.thebestflex.com/profile/Bobby-Biceps
for forum members interested, an earlier thread....
https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/129810-bobby-biceps-nynjct-muscle-worship-a/
 

I only hire off of rent.men and rentmasseur.com.  Other than the obvious type qualifiers, a few things I look at when I'm making a decision include:
Is the profile completely self-absorbed, or does the provider talk about how he takes care of others? Did he invest some effort into his description.  I may be the only reader on Rent.Men, but I love a good, flirtatious description. Is he into the same things I am? (Don't list everything, but check the things you enjoy) Is he a good match in terms of position? (Don't say Ask Me) Is there any discussion about him on this forum? If you are friendly, have thick skin and are well-reviewed, I think participating here can be a plus. Does he smile or at least look content? (I'm surprised by the number of middle fingers and angry looking people I find) Does he have a face?  (It's OK if the face is only in the private photos, but providers should have a face) Do the photos appear to be consistent?  (Some guys have 12 different looks spanning 8 years.  Don't do that) Side Note, I would prefer 10-20 great photos over 100+ mediocre, dated photos. Videos are also a plus, even if they are not erotic.  Somehow it is easier to get a feel for someone's image and personality from a video. Does he have good reviews? How long has he been listed? Providers rarely check all my boxes, so I am a realist, but this is how I look at a profile.
On the one hand, the last two are the hardest.  On the other hand, I frequently see providers with 10+ reviews after only a couple of months.  If someone is listed for 5 years with 3 reviews, that is a red flag.  Likewise, if someone has 20 reviews in 6 months, that is a good sign.
After I make contact, I am looking for more than a one word answer and a rate that makes sense in the current market.  Rates that are too high or too low are indicative or no experience or a huge ego which is a turnoff for me personally.
Finally, I don't know why more providers don't create a simple website.  This is a great and inexpensive way to share a little more detail.  Here's an example of one I like:  https://www.meetmattanthony.com/
Perhaps this is TMI, but I hope it helps.

hey all,
so I will jump right into this slight issue I am having. long story short... business has been slowing. I still have my regulars (which I am very happy about!) but as far as new inquiries are concerned, things have really dried up. I'm sure Covid has alot to do with that but I was looking to begin advertising on more sites anyways so this may just be the push I need. My question is..... I am only advertising as of now on thebestflex. I am not super familiar with other websites at this point in time. If you were me looking to get new clients and the most eyeballs seeing your ad what would be your next place to start advertising? where do you look for guys yourself ? rentmen?
P.S Everyone i've met with has really liked the service they have received so it's not me as cocky as that may sound ha. If I had to guess id say 50% have done at the minimum 1 repeat. I really do enjoy what I do, the people I meet, and do a good job for everyone I meet with. always discreet, on time, and hygienic of course. Any help would be greatly appreciated. Thank you!
Bobby

I really never spend time in the Stage area at Johnson's I will do a few pass-throughs just to see the action that's going on. I prefer to sit at the Penny Bar. The dancers I want to interact with stop by (I "train" them and make it worth their while) and I usually do my worship thing right at the bar. If a dancer I've seen in the Stage area doesn't come through the Penny Bar, I'll seek them out, tip them in that area and then if I really want to see them more, I ask them to find me in the Penny Bar. Towards the end of the night, I may take some back into a room to be completely muscle worshipping but I have no problem tipping and caressing a dancer while we talk in the brightly lit Penny Bar! I find the Stage area too crowded on the weekends and I don't like the low chairs. I like the bodybuilder to be standing while I'm feeling their muscles and their more likely to get into posing if they're actually standing.

So I met this guy while I was in FTL for New Year's.
https://rent.men/Franko_Domenec
The guy has been one of my favorite international bodybuilders that I've followed for a while. He's gorgeous! I mean stunning good looks! And super nice - just really not flashy, not full of himself. I was surprised that he was so "regular" for a hot model like himself.
Consider getting yourself some!

So I met this guy while I was in FTL for New Year's.
https://rent.men/Franko_Domenec
The guy has been one of my favorite international bodybuilders that I've followed for a while. He's gorgeous! I mean stunning good looks! And super nice - just really not flashy, not full of himself. I was surprised that he was so "regular" for a hot model like himself.
Consider getting yourself some!

Wait what is the point of this thread? The guy pictured is a reality show star and IG influencer, which anyone with Google can find out. Including his IG page. To my knowledge he’s never advertised being an escort or been rumored to be one. Why is he in the forum where we discuss specific escorts? And why now has this devolved into a general chat about blond guys? Not the right forum. 

and that kitchen ain't bad, neither!  😀
https://www.instagram.com/nathankwebb/?hl=en
https://hollywoodlife.com/feature/who-is-nathan-webb-too-hot-to-handle-4433358/
https://unrulyagency.com/nathanwebb/