LuckyLechon

Why are so many men xenophobic? 

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You are not being silly.   In my experience the massages offered on Grindr are fake accounts or scam artists.   The profiles are brand new and if you reach out to inquire you will usually get a Jpg of a price list.  They generally will ask you for a deposit.   If you check back a few days later the profile is deleted.   My assessment, don’t look for massages via Grindr, unless you see the provider is also has a RentMasseur or Masseurfinder profile

I have - it’s risky for sure but I’ve generally had decent experiences (barring a couple of exceptions) but lessons learnt are 1. No deposits ever and if they ask for money up front before providing services say you’ll pay 50% first and the rest upon completion. 2. Ask for verification (grindr has time stamped pics that can’t be messed with) and 3. Arrange to somewhere outside in a public place before (outside their place or yours) so you can do a once over and vet. I’ve found grindr providers to be more amateur but generally more value for money. 

Quoting myself, ended up booking in with him. Had a great time.  Let me know if you’re curious. 

When I grow up I wanna be like you. I’ve always wanted to do something like this. In fact, using my free will I think I WILL do something like this 

He quoted me for $650 for 90 min, does that seem insane to anyone else? 

Nice body.
Pity it's covered in graffiti.

Don’t make us work…..
https://rentmen.eu/Mario_Russo

I've seen Mike a handful of times and he is just great.  Introverts get their energy from within, not from other people. They will respond to other ppls energy, however.  This strikes as true with Mike...he waits to see what energy you bring and then responds to it, this may come across as shy or even lack of interest at first.  It doesn't take long for him to warm up tho' 🔥

I think just participating on the message boards along with a link to your ad helps you gain awareness from potential clients. I have fallen in lust with escorts who post here even if they’re not my exact preferred body type. I find it sexy to be a good communicator and especially to have a sense of humor. 

Speaking for myself I’ve tried both and find masseurs more reliable in that I get what I pay for. 

It's because it's what some/many masseurs offer in addition to their massage services. It's pretty simple.
It's more like eating at a restaurant that has breakfast, lunch, and dinner options and you get to pick what you want.
If RentMasseur was purely a therapeutic only massage site, they wouldn't bother to have providers be able to list HIV status as that's not relevant to purely therapeutic massage. It's there for a reason. And the "sensual" in sensual massage can mean whatever the client and provider agree for it to mean for a particular session.

Sorry that happened, it sucks to get blue balls. But at least you didn’t lose money.
I met him twice and never had any issues meeting him when he was visiting in hotels. I would definitely repeat given the chance. His body keeps getting more muscular and huge. His cock is huge, and so is his edible ass. He’s an expert alpha at dirty talk, and he even fed me his load too. 

the funny thing is that people use it to review providers as well. check their numbers, it's fun to read. reminds me of people leaving messages about people on bathroom walls lol

I saw him recently. He definitely tried to stick it in, to be fair I’m sure I was giving green flags by my reaction to how he was touching me there, but it was definitely unexpected. I went there not thinking that would happen, plus I’m more of a top.
A note about other’s comments about him having a type… I was a bit nervous going there because I’m definitely not that type. I feel like once I wasn’t down for getting f’ed he lost interest. I might have been down if I knew and had prepared.
A note about people mentioning him bringing up his social media. He definitely did that with me almost immediately but I will give him the benefit of the doubt and say he was interested in the marketing aspect of it. 🤔
He also ended things 10 minutes early (I booked 90 minutes) and wasn’t able to make me finish. My review is mixed. I definitely enjoyed a lot of elements of the massage but I felt like I was left hanging. A bit frustrating when he’s a good 45-60 min from DC. 
Overall it was just ok, I probably wouldn’t repeat. He is a really attractive guy though and has a nice tool but the vibes were off for me.
*disclaimer: I am writing this with major blue balls right now. But I believe I’m being fair*
 
 

Anyone book him before? Hes in DC. 
 
https://rentmasseur.com/Alejandronicehot

I have no dog in this race, but if he was he described in the first part of your comments, why on earth would you contact him to set up an overnight?!

Hi, a bit late to this post but I have. He’s a really nice guy, gives a great massage for sure. I was just hoping for more and didn’t get it. I guess I’m really spoiled by the guys I’ve booked with including a HE.  I will say as well that I found him very attractive in person, photos don’t do him justice at all. 
 
if you book, be prepared to leave with blue balls lol.

Hi, a bit late to this post but I have. He’s a really nice guy, gives a great massage for sure. I was just hoping for more and didn’t get it. I guess I’m really spoiled by the guys I’ve booked with including a HE.  I will say as well that I found him very attractive in person, photos don’t do him justice at all. 
 
if you book, be prepared to leave with blue balls lol.

i wasn't asking for more time. you can feel rushed and still have only the time you paid for, it's a vibe that i don't enjoy cause i can pick up on it: that they are mentally not in the moment. 

This is probably asking too much of a provider but is it selfish to ask to not be scheduled when he's at peak business? I don't wanna feel rushed.

i wasn't asking for more time. you can feel rushed and still have only the time you paid for, it's a vibe that i don't enjoy cause i can pick up on it: that they are mentally not in the moment. 

It’s so weird that I have been meticulous about picking someone then they end up not being a great match and then someone I see on a whim ends up surprising me. I wonder what that’s about? Expectations vs none?

Not at all.  He may actually like it because it allows him to see others that don't have the same concern.  Depending on what you're looking to do he may prefer to see you first or last or on a day of the week where he isn't as busy.  Could work out well for both of you.  Just talk to him.