Dicastri

Zelle feels too identifying for both myself and the provider at times. I prefer Venmo and Apple Cash.

Dawg may still be used without an intent to invoke stereotypical blackness- especially today among younger people.

I wouldn’t say Kai has a “bad reputation”, as his reviews here seem mostly good + RM reviews are stellar. Critical points here seem to be regarding his possible neurodivergence, which isn’t a bad thing. However, when an unknown individual seems to sign up and under 10 minutes later, posts a laudatory review of someone, it does raise eyebrows. I honestly think that if @MJBis not Kai, he’s doing Kai a disservice unfortunately. The novelty of your account will naturally arouse suspicion about whether you are Kai and trying to inflate your public image. The best way to engage in good PR (if you choose to engage at all, which may not necessarily be good) is to sign up as yourself and interact publicly with the members on here as Kai. Many providers have done that before/ dispelled negative rumors about themselves/etc.

I think you much too easily associated the name with stereotypical Blackness. Also, he may not be consciously trying to evoke “Blackness” by the name. “Dawg” may be used without this intent.

Hottie is now in SF

https://rent.men/trevortala

I agree. I’d say that if an hour was booked, he isn’t, in my mind, morally obligated to give more of his time for free. I had a lovely experience with him recently.

I doubt he is a provider doing OF collabs - most of the guys this client sees don’t have /show OF (and if they did, they are clearly not profitable enough to be shown). The pattern analysis by @crazyivan plus the fact that he has such specific taste as pointed out by @Venite leads me to think this is a real, super wealthy client, with the sex appetite of an everyday New York gay millennial hooking up as he pleases. Maybe he indeed is a trust fund baby lol

Isn’t it telling though? That these threads of unprovoked disparagement against providers can be found with such temporal frequency on this website?

I have to agree here. There are clearly bad actors who started with nastiness and cruelty .

With the continued incidence of repetitive/redundant 411 requests , I think it’s best to include something like this when starting a new post in the Deli “Is this a 411 post?” [Yes] [No] ⬇️ “Before pressing submit, search to see if it’s been discussed.”

Gross thread.

Has anyone topped him lol? He’s back in SF and I’m trying to set something up with him.

I I didn’t know he had a partner, and I don’t think I saw said person in addition to Lucas. I booked two separate individuals.

Any recent experiences with him?