Decatur Guy

Probably an unusual subject - but I rarely bottom so looking for some tops more on the gentle or average side. Or at least not going to go at it like a jackhammer. 🫠
Any recommendations? 

Well, his ad says he has a scruffy beard and he lists PNP in his likes. Is that your definition of clean cut? 

I wouldnt define him as clean cut either imho

I have numerous "types," but one of them is the "boy-next-door" / "man-next-door" who is rather clean cut. By clean cut, I mean neat beard and a few tattoos at most. No PNP/extreme alternative vibe. There seem to be fewer and fewer of those kinds of guys out there these days. Do you have any suggestions of tops or verse tops of any race/ethnicity or age range (24 or older) who might be worth checking out?

I'll add Cooper to the list of guys I regret not hiring while they were based in ATL or coming here a lot.

I'm more of a basketball guy, but that's a pretty hot scenario. I have no idea how often something like that could happen -- I'm sure it's not common for a spring training guy to do a side hustle like that, but probably has happened. Let us know if you get a home run. 

Hey buds,
I'm hitting spring training this spring in the Phoenix area and Florida and was wondering if anyone had luck with meeting up with any of the players, particularly the minor league guys (and college players too). I figure some of them may want to make some extra money given how challenging the life is of a minor league player. Tips, suggestions, stories, all are appreciated (DM me if you prefer). I also don't know how to advertise given the death of Craiglist and the cost to post an ad on DoubleList. 
BTW, if any of you are going to spring training and want a buddy to hang with, to check out the hot cupped players  and to have some beers, let me know. I'm always looking for fellow baseball jock fans. 
Anthony

This topic has come up several times. My policy is that no matter how vague or clear the ad is, I always ask, and I always ask because some of those ads that are "clear" are also inaccurate and false. Specificity does not mean truthful. Since I always ask, I ge the information I need and have expectations. The Rentmasseur website has the option for providers to specify if they provide erotic massages, but they themselves decide what that means or how far they go.
Also, some providers have basic information, but in the communication via text or call, they have also added that they offer additional services for additional charges. In addition, that communication has been provided in the session when/if things heat up a little. Finally, another way of getting a clue of how far a masseur could go is by checking if the provider also has an ad in rentmen or similar sites.
At first look might be confusing, as it was to me when I first started, but then I realize that some providers are more discrete in how they offer their services. There's never going to be a clear cut, very specific description of what's going to happen in a given session.

Yes, I definitely go through periods of low to no interest. Sometimes, it's simply lack of desire, fatigue. Other times, I'm busy and don't really have time or I just want to do something else. And other times, I'm interested but like others noted, prices are way up but I'm not sure the quality is.
 

Yes, I definitely go through periods of low to no interest. Sometimes, it's simply lack of desire, fatigue. Other times, I'm busy and don't really have time or I just want to do something else. And other times, I'm interested but like others noted, prices are way up but I'm not sure the quality is.
 

Yes, I definitely go through periods of low to no interest. Sometimes, it's simply lack of desire, fatigue. Other times, I'm busy and don't really have time or I just want to do something else. And other times, I'm interested but like others noted, prices are way up but I'm not sure the quality is.
 

Yes, I definitely go through periods of low to no interest. Sometimes, it's simply lack of desire, fatigue. Other times, I'm busy and don't really have time or I just want to do something else. And other times, I'm interested but like others noted, prices are way up but I'm not sure the quality is.
 

Yes, I definitely go through periods of low to no interest. Sometimes, it's simply lack of desire, fatigue. Other times, I'm busy and don't really have time or I just want to do something else. And other times, I'm interested but like others noted, prices are way up but I'm not sure the quality is.
 

Yes, I definitely go through periods of low to no interest. Sometimes, it's simply lack of desire, fatigue. Other times, I'm busy and don't really have time or I just want to do something else. And other times, I'm interested but like others noted, prices are way up but I'm not sure the quality is.
 

Are other prospective clients finding it harder and harder to discern from a RM ad if someone is offering:

A) Just a massage?
B) Just escorting services?
C) A combo?

Sometimes, it's clear. But other times, I can't tell if I'm supposed to be reading between the lines or not. But in the past year, I'm having more situations where I'm wanting escorting services, not a massage. The ad gives me no indication at all that a massage (erotic or not) is on the table, yet when I reach out, I get quoted massage rates and the person is only offering massage. Now to be clear, some providers do indeed make that clear. Others don't, I'm finding. 

I realize providers more and more have to be careful about what they post in an ad, especially outside big blue liberal cities on the West Coast and the Northeast. But still, I'm stumbling on more and more situations where I can't discern at all from the ad what's really on the table, so to speak. I kind of wish massage-only providers wouldn't use RM as putting an ad on there just by itself starts to create confusion -- unless the ad is super clear it's just massage. For instance, don't tell me you're a top and show dick pics and in your into's put "spanking" and "oral" and other stuff and then turns out you don't do any of that.

Are other prospective clients find the same thing? More and more situations where you can't really tell what the ad is about or you find out after reaching out the services ain't what was listed or you are led to believe? I've just run into two different providers who indicate in their ads they do the full range, but when you contact them, it's just massage.

as is the video explosion

Well, he's scheduled to visit Atlanta at the end of February. I might find out how terrific "HorribleMan" is. His tool is mouthwatering ... 

I do as well, I find him very sexy indeed

So many of the providers don't lead with their face, so to speak, for privacy/safety reasons. So it's hard to judge. I found these guys to be very handsome in the face:


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Outside of NYC, I've always found Scott DeMarco to be very handsome (and I've been with him once with a big thumbs up):
 
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It's crazy all the workarounds we have to do. And it actually is getting worse. Things were more straightforward in 2010. Also, I had a typo in my item above. I should have typed "withOUT" a VPN ...

Hey, a big thank you to providers and others who responded. This makes more sense now. Based on the replies, the biggest culprit in this not working more efficiently is the RM push notification system. More than ever, I'll keep in mind to use this as advanced notice only. If I am truly cranked up for a day-of appointment and it's a provider I've never met, I'll just go to the phone text.

Maybe I should get a second phone dedicated just for things like this. ... 

It's too bad we can't see rates in the US with a VPN workaround and see more explicit details. In many cases on a good ad, that also would circumvent the need to use RM messenger at all.

It sounds like the RM notification feature to providers is the real culprit in all of this based on reading your great response and the others. And I had no idea it was that bad. But like you said in there, I use RM for general introduction and advance situations. If I am really super jazzed up for a day-of appointment, I will go ahead and directly text or call a potential provider I've never met before despite my misgivings about that. Precisely because of the number of times I have not heard back or heard back way too late.