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Tyson is not closing the plant. We ALL are closing the plant as our preferences and purchases change

😂😂. Some…but when in trouble, they’re priceless.

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Unless they were some other triggering event. For instance, let’s say the escort is underaged, trafficked, or that something happened that lacked consent - rape, robbery, etc Paying a lot for someone’s time isn’t a crime - otherwise my attorney and accountant would be advising me from jail on visiting day. I think that the devil is in the details of what the exchange of compensation is tied to. Unless there’s more to this than you’ve described, I don’t think that law enforcement is concerned with past consensual activities because misdemeanor offenses typically have short statutes of limitation - say 1-2 years. But, I’m not a lawyer…

Hahahaha…I am fit…but fortunately c1 Corvettes had ignitions. Of course, with 9,000 miles on it, I’ve been driven longer and harder than the car 😅

My first watch was about the same age and in the early 70's...I took it apart...so I guess it won't be on Antiques Roadshow. I collect cars...I was so happy to actually buy an ANTIQUE car last year that was actually OLDER THAN ME!

Fossil - the brand of watches? 😜 I love your posts - always good hearted and often hilarious like this. I bet you were popular with the students when you were their teacher!

I was horrified when my dad gave me his Rolex - opting instead to wear a $12 timex. Why did he do that? The Rolex is a self winding watch. Wearing the Rolex 24/7 he didn’t move enough to keep it wound. It was quite sad. I couldn’t wear it while he was alive…it felt wrong…and now, I don’t wear watches and it’s in a safe.

Stupid adults

What you’re describing is more of a traditional BFE with mutuality that starts way in advance of the encounter with communication and building of anticipation. Repeating what @GLEEasked, but also setting expectation that this is not a commodity - either for the type of provider or the experience - and may be a more costly endeavor.

@jusmeinbr...interestingly, I had my own encounter with him. I'm not surprised since we clearly like similar profiles and I was certain he'd be on your radar too. Provided cell # by PM, his first text to me was "hey" like I was a sniffies hookup - that left me a bit concerned that he didn't have the communicative insight to know how to differentiate from spam. We did try to set up a time but the logistics just weren't going to work getting to my coastal wasteland. That's not his fault, he tried, but as I backed off, the price seemed to jump all over the place. I felt as though he'd not really priced an overnight before, but my sense was that he expected his hourly rate times x hours but that tended to soften within a few minutes. In the end, I feared planning something would not go off smoothly and I cut bait. Based on your experience, I'm glad I did. I kinda felt like I'd have been disappointed just based on communication style and logistics. I can't really say anything bad except that it just felt "off" and that maybe I contributed to that as well. Maybe all would have been perfect in a different place and time.

Are you saying that the RM profile is Billy Quinn or that he stole pics for the profile? You’ve heard that some of us like twinks, right?

@jmkblnd1, unless you have a reason to doubt what he says, I think your heart will tell you whether you can accept his words at face value or not. There’s hook up, there’s sex, there’s connection, and then there’s commitment. I come back to who he comes home to at night. But, this might be a good time to be thinking about a pre-nup in case your heart leads you the wrong way. If he doesn’t want to be supported, there’s not a good objection. But the trade off is that he gets to choose how he makes money.

…Lewinsky

See ya in a couple weeks 😉

So was my mother until I became proficient in arithmetic

I know what it means... and I do tell them "no papi" and all this time, I thought you were 21 Jamie

Am I the only older guy who doesn't like to be called "Daddy?" I know most gay men don't have kids or grandkids. I do. I have very few rules with guys I get with - no drugs, keep it vanilla, etc - but my #1 Rule is "Don't call me Daddy" For me, that's a moniker reserved for my adult kids. And the thought of being in a fit of passion with someone who calls me "daddy" makes me cringe at the association. Am I alone in this because of my personal family composition or are there others who feel this way?

I’m a service provider - consulting. I’m paid for travel time. My accountant is paid for travel time. My attorney is too. My issue is not that the guy wants travel comp. It’s that he sprung at the last minute rather than disclosing up front

Monica? Is that you?? 🤣

I think the hardest part here may not actually be what he does, but that you were misled about it. That kind of breach of trust can feel more destabilizing than the work itself. There’s still a lot of nuance worth sitting with before you decide what this means for you. Did he avoid telling you because he was afraid of losing you, or because he didn’t want to deal with the consequences? When he finally told you, did it feel like honesty and vulnerability, or more like “this is who I am, take it or leave it”? Is he truly trying to change his circumstances, or simply hoping you’ll adapt to them? You’re clearly very invested emotionally. What does he do, in concrete ways, to show that your commitment is matched? And practically speaking, does this situation place more emotional or financial strain on you than on him? None of these questions are accusations. They’re about understanding balance, safety, and trust. Love can coexist with complexity, but only if both people are carrying their share of the weight. It may help to remember that the person who feels they have less to lose often has more leverage, even unintentionally. Moving forward may mean naming any imbalance honestly and deciding together what would restore a sense of stability and mutual respect for you — not just keeping things intact. Personslly, I think this is salvageable if you are both equally invested

So you’ve tried scat? Or are you sure you wouldn’t like it ??

Since I usually host, it's more likely that I'd have valuables locked up in the safe on a first time visit - fortunately, I didn't feel the need to do that a couple weeks ago with @Braziliancutee in New Orleans. 😇 But, there's no telling what happened with his wallet when HE was in the shower 😄

I’m sorry if you missed the point on what is a response to a serious matter for the OP

Here’s the downside…once it’s popular and growing, it either becomes a tool or a target of law enforcement. Too many - including here - are not careful about what they say.