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    cany10011 got a reaction from pubic_assistance in seeking arrangements website?   
    My regular SB is on it. He is good looking, but that’s about it. He told me it was a long vetting process as well and offered to recommend me. I declined. Lots of well known guys on it. 
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    cany10011 reacted to Walt in EastVillageTwunk - NYC   
    I've always considered "twunk" to be a developmental stage, as opposed to a size. Similar to how horses are named at each stage of development there are ones that are above or below average in size.
    Age Range Term Foal (birth to 1 year) Foal Yearling (1 to 2 years) Yearling Two-year-old Two-year-old Three-year-old Three-year-old Mature (4-5 years and older) Horse   The exciting part about the "Gay Development Cycle" (TM) or GDC is that after Twink it branches out in multiple different branches: Bear, Drag Queen, Otter, Zaddy, Power Bottom, Chaser, Circuit Queen, Average Unattractive Person, etc.
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    cany10011 got a reaction from MikeBiDude in seeking arrangements website?   
    My regular SB is on it. He is good looking, but that’s about it. He told me it was a long vetting process as well and offered to recommend me. I declined. Lots of well known guys on it. 
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    cany10011 got a reaction from 56harrisond in seeking arrangements website?   
    My regular SB is on it. He is good looking, but that’s about it. He told me it was a long vetting process as well and offered to recommend me. I declined. Lots of well known guys on it. 
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    cany10011 reacted to + BOZO T CLOWN in EastVillageTwunk - NYC   
    Bozo has never had the pleasure of being with him... He's only been on Rentmen 3 days.
    Isn't 6'2" 200 lbs. awfully large to be considered a twunk?
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    cany10011 reacted to robberbaron4u in EAGER TO PLEASE DOESN'T BEGIN TO TELL THE TAIL. . .   
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    cany10011 reacted to maninsoma in RM guy stole my deposit -- any recourse?   
    A "friends and family" transfer of money is not protected by PayPal's fraud protection program.  Just accept that you made a mistake and lost whatever money you sent this guy.  You can notify PayPal that you got scammed, but I assume that someone who is using that platform to scam people like this will just create a different account if they get reported so I'm not sure it's worth the effort.  Also, do you want to be in a position of having to explain how a "friend or family member" stole money from you when it really was a stranger whom you were hoping to have sex with?  I wouldn't.  As to warning people here, that's helpful to others in the short term, but it's so easy for scammers to change identities online that it's not worth a lot in the long run.
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    cany10011 reacted to + ThroatCummer in My Pretty Woman Story: Hiring and falling in love   
    I'm going to write you guys a story here that's very applicable to these forums that I have refrained from telling.  Mostly because you don't want to give everyone hope and my situation is probably pretty unique and rare. 
    Backstory: 
    I'm a 47 year old gay guy who had never hired before or considered it up until about four years ago. I am very masculine and cool and comfortable. For reference, a bigger guy (5'11, 255#) but carry it well. Handsome face and usually attracted both women and men. I'm not fucking paying for sex is what I always thought. Spent my life in IT and rode the crypto wave a decade ago. I founded my own company and built it with my then partner at the time. It was crazy successful but tore us apart emotionally. We separated and I moved out. When the company was crashing down and almost bankrupt, I was drinking every single day and didn't leave my house for a week. Didn't shower and shave. I was a mess. 
    For many reasons, I lost all my friends. I had lawsuits against me and couldn't go hang out at the bars. My lawyers said I couldn't talk about everything and my entire social world was with my partner. If I walked into a bar, people would be like "how's work? how's your partner?" and I just had nothing. So I stayed home.  
    After a month or so of this, I wanted a person. Someone to just hold me and tell me life would be okay and to just have raw sex with and unload everything in my balls as much as possible, because at least that would feel good for the moment, right? 
    Escort: 
    So I jump on Rent Men. $300 per hour. Had a guy come over. It was decent, I got off, and he went away. Not great not bad. Tried it a second time, same thing. At least I had someone with a pulse. 
    Third time, I was in New York city which is amazing for escorts and I decided okay, let's do this the right way. I have a list of 20 requirements I want.  Handsome as fuck, masculine, square jaw, deep voice, a body like you just walked off a stage. Just raw dripping testosterone... and that's a little hard to find right. But that's when Trevor walked into my life. 
    Paid for an hour. We met up and guess what? Didn't even have sex or get off. Just talked and I was too nervous and shy because I had never been around someone like him before. A day after we met up, he texts me and says "You know I do overnights, right?" and so I paid $2,400 for an overnight and it kind of changed my life. I had been a top my entire life and never got fucked, but this dude railed my lights out and I LOVED it. I didn't understand why or how guys bottom until him.  
    So I go back to NYC and we do it again. Then again. After a few meetings, he basically looks at me and is like "What are you doing with your life?" -- I think he could see the depression and me not taking care of myself. My gut reaction was "I'm not paying you to question me like this!" but it sat with me. I kept thinking about the question. 
    I wound up hiring him for a trip out of the USA as a 4th person for a group of three of us.  It was a lot of money but worth it. Fast forward a year and he actually made me a better person. I woke up in the morning and thought "What would Trev do?" so I hauled myself out of bed and showered and shaved and hit the gym. Then did it again. I realized that I am not just paying Trev for sex, but the value is flowing both ways. I'm getting more out of this then I am paying. 
    Jose: 
    So I am back in Boston and lonely. But I am doing better. I have more energy, I look better, and I see the sun and the good things and natural energy takes over in all my interactions during the day. I don't want or need a boyfriend or a relationship and that's why I was hiring, because  they go home afterwards. 
    But I am horny and bored on a Friday night. There's a new escort in town I haven't seen so I get him over for an hour for $300. 
    He leaves but there was a real connection. I text him after and ask if he has plans the following night, and he said he can come back. I offer $2000 for the night. 
    .... and he doesn't leave. We sit on the beach watching the sun come up together. He lives in Miami and says "Come to Miami and stay with me."  Well wouldn't you know I had a conference in Miami that Wednesday, already had an Airbnb booked with work people, and flights planned. I say what the hell and take him up on the offer. I walk in the door to his apartment and it's clean, and comfortable, and feels like home. We spend the next week together each night. No payment. Nothing. 
    Passionate sex. But more than that, an actual connection.  I go home and tell him to come back to Boston and go to Ptown with me in two weeks. 
    One year later, I asked him how many people he invited to his house before. He said nobody. His house is his temple and he doesn't bring clients back.
    Fast forward almost two years and I am now living in Miami at his place. My company went bankrupt and I lost everything, and he's here paying the bills supporting us. He said "I don't care how much money you have, I would be happy eating a sandwich with you in the room with nothing"
    We are getting married soon.
    Lesson: 
    I'm writing this to show people that escorts are also humans. Will this happen to others? Probably not. But beyond the business transaction, they are also people with their own problems, their own life, and their own desires. I happened to find someone who was single, available, open, and fell in love with me (although I didn't know it at the time). But at the end of the day, what really matters is will they be there for you when you have nothing and the money runs out?  In my case, yes.  He was there to pay some of the bills and give me a place to live. That's how you know it's genuine and authentic. 
    As far as Trevor goes -- those types of escorts are just magic. You can pay for sex, sure. But sometimes you can get so much more if you open yourself up and let it in. It isn't always about sex. He and I still keep in touch. He doesn't escort anymore and is back in Canada living his fulfilling live off of Rent.men. He will be back at some point and if you have the chance to hire him (he is easily searchable on here), don't walk, but run at the chance. He's fucking awesome. 
    So that's my story. It feels good writing it. Not looking for any validation, just something to share. 
    Be good guys.


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    cany10011 got a reaction from + Pensant in NEIGHBOURS SON !!   
    Would love to wake up to that!!
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    cany10011 reacted to DznNYC in Escort to help organize and host a small group in NYC   
    I have partnered with other escorts on occasion, enough to be able to arrange something. 
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    cany10011 reacted to Gilfson in Clients and drug use   
    I mean he was the client I was the provider and I was sober lol I wouldn’t say I’m an ugly goon
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    cany10011 reacted to Gilfson in Clients and drug use   
    Which is exactly why I refuse to do drugs or drink in excess when I’m with clients. It’s not safe for me. And it doesnt turn me on
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    cany10011 reacted to mike carey in When is Food Too Old to Use?   
    I put this here rather than in one of the grocery threads over in the Lounge because the article offers comments on storage and cooking as the ingredients age. The article from the New York Times is old and I've read it before, but I still pick up minor points every time I read it again.
    nytimes.com
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    cany10011 reacted to NipLuvr212 in Montréal trip report (and first post)   
    I am sitting outside on Ste. Catherine right now and the streets are being looked over by a group of police cadets on bicycles... the nicest and most handsome guys I have encountered here!
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    cany10011 reacted to MikeThomas in Vito Vitale - Montreal   
    Met with Vito this afternoon and I highly recommend.  Super nice guy.  Very hot, handsome and hung.  Very accommodating.  We did everything we discussed and more.
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