MakeMeCowboy

While everything was really good... I wouldn't repeat.

The guy/(she/her) is looking for her life partner on Mintboys? Where do start??

aaaaah, yes... the perineum.

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I couldn't care less...

I'm beginning to understand why there is so much texting required

Exactly! I like when providers offer detail about themselves.... what they like and/or if they have specialties. It makes it easier to communicate without tripping on a boundary.

When does a provider find 'detail' offensive? Where is the line?

The only consistent thing about this virus is that nothing is conclusive. The antibodies do offer protection for some. I'm sticking to my hiatus too. I was curious if it made a difference to some.

Some providers are advertising that they've tested positive for antibodies... does that influence anyone's decision to hire?

@Trundelav, your instincts were right. Waste of air.

Sounds like a HS slam book...

He doesn't show up in any searches.... info/link? Thanks.

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Ugg... not my experience.

When a provider fills out their RM profile and indicate ‘I am into’ ‘smoking;’ are you letting potential clients know that you are a cigarette smoker? Do clients often inquire if you're a cigarette smoker?

'Fell for' may be a little strong but I've dated two providers in the past... both were driven by personal chemistries.

When COVID hit, didn't we all become, collectively, just people? Not a client, not a provider, on and on. I'm not a wealthy man but luckier than many. The thought of maintaining a scorecard, particularly one that includes sexual compensation... ugg. I continue to subsidize a couple of people in my life due to trouble caused by COVID. For those who feel 'burned...' call the recipient of your financial assistance and genuinely forgive the debt then write back and let us know how if feels.

When COVID hit, I had a provider who I'd seen several times and like, he hit me up for a loan. I told him that I needed to think about it. The next day, I told him that I'd give him the money... not as a loan or expectations of future services. I made up my mind, years ago, never to loan money that I couldn't afford to give. Subsequently, I've prepaid his RM ad, anonymously, a couple of times.

Stay away.

We all learned a little something. And wishing the OP the very best.

I keep a healthy stable of professional providers who deliver on their promises and advertisement. I've also had my fair share of those who try to pull the Tuna Hustle. Regardless, I always pay. People are never robots. I need to do certain things to maintain my level of work performance or risk getting fired. I eat well, exercise, get sufficient rest, etc. and drink coffee when I need a lift. We expect the same from you. Preparation drives performance... if you're not doing the preparation to perform then you're less than a professional and probably in the wrong profession.

I think that I've located the disconnect... too many providers allow their alter egos to write their ninja-fueled RM profiles then, as a mere mortal, they go on the appointment with their good intentions, time spent and hand out. As a potential example, are you Keroscenefire or just Bob?

I couldn't agree more...

For those of you who can't hear and feel the purity of this young man's experience, please raise your hands and let the rest of us know who you are so we can avoid choosing you in the future.