MakeMeCowboy

Not too long ago I scheduled a provider at my home. Knock, knock, he comes in and I ask 'May I get you something to drink?' He lands on red wine... I invite him to take a seat while I opened the wine. My reds run $50+ a bottle. A discussion of the wine and reds, in general, ensued. This transition took 20 minutes. We had our time together which took the hour or so... at checkout time, the fee was calculated from the knock, knock. I chuckled to myself as he poured a bit more wine 'for the road,' paid him and off he went. Was I penalized for hospitality? How do most clients handle the transition from the knock, knock to the bedroom? Do you anticipate hospitality? P.S. I liked the guy, he delivered in full but the precision of the clock-watching was a bit disappointing.

The world is in transition and my small business is taking its share of a financial hit. When I start hiring again, I'll no longer ask for the provider's rate. I'll communicate that my paying rate is $250 and willing to tip up to $300. I have no problem paying the $300 when the provider lives up to his advertisement that enticed me to contact him. I will also confirm that payment will be made after the service has been rendered. In the past, when I've paid the premium asked by some providers ($500 was the highest,) the majority of it was for ego... not skill and/or overall experience. Those days are over.

For those providers who want payment upfront... state it in your ad.

Reece Rothmeier. - he was a cross between JFK Jr. and Tom of Finland.

Sent...

My advice is to live your life and get the dog. The fact that you're concerned about 'the possibilities' speaks to your character. God forbid anything happens to your health, but I suspect your kindness will be returned from someone equally as thoughtful. I can think of a dozen friends/ acquaintances with dogs that in an emergency... I'd be there to extend assistance. I doubt that I'm on THEIR radar. Support often comes from the least expected. Trust it. Go for it.

A couple of octogenarians who’d been friends for over 50 years were having a relaxing conversation on a veranda, just passing time while in their rocking chairs, suddenly Clara asked her friend “Marge, do you still get horny?” A bit irritated with the question Marge replied “of course!” A few seconds later Clara continued “well, what do you do about it?!” Still irritated, Marge replies “I suck a lifesaver.” Puzzled…, Clara asks “who drives you to the beach?”

I made one... I play with a straight guy with it.

I love the natural scent of a man... so, are there any nyc top types that can deliver a scent fantasy scene?

I’m looking for a NYC based provider that’s good/skilled at deepthroating. Any recommendations?

For me, the kicker was asking for the fee once I was disrobed. Having an athletic build, I certainly didn't think the issue was my appearance.

I too was very skeptical of his 94 near perfect reviews but I took the plunge anyhow. I'm his 95th perfect review on RM.

Is compensation for time being required up front? make sure to ask

Other than a gym membership, I can't think of another purchase where a 50/50 value proposition is tolerable. Sure, using affordability as justification is arrogant, but not despicable. Despicable would be if the gym owner used manipulative tactics to win his new members. The latter, of course, is independent of affordability. Affordability doesn't justify the means. I've had to point this out before.

Dear xxx, and to the rest of the providers, who require payment up front, I say two things… One, have the guts to put that information in your profile. I guarantee that it will generate an honest discussion regarding your talents and the client’s expectations. Second, to those (xxx,) who wait until the client is disrobed to request payment, I say (metaphorically speaking,) “eat shit and die.” And finally, to those who get a bee in their bonnet for me having voiced this opinion, spare me some tragic story about how you’ve been burned.

I saw him about 6 weeks ago. He's a very nice guy... looks exactly like his photos. Gives a legit massage. Hung. And the extras were fun.

I received a very nice massage from this guy... and the extras were fun.

I can verify that he looks as pictured. Hot as hell... skipped the massage.

Kenzo - you're a very nice guy and class-act. Best of luck.

I found Kenzo to be amazingly kind and he gave a good massage. However, I also found his photos misleading enough to make comment here.

Can't confirm but it sounds like they either want to trim demand or fish for a higher roller.

If so, why bother commenting? It's my opinion, my choice, paid in full AND I was there.

I saw him about 6 weeks ago. The massage was fine, I declined the extras.

The photos are 5-7 years old and he's 15-20 lbs. heavier. The boyish charms captured in the photos are, for me, gone.

The photos are not recent.