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I know from other threads here that I'm not the only gringo besotted with Allen King. I have been drooling over his videos for years.
I'm headed to Madrid in a couple of months and was shocked and delighted to find his ad on RM. Apparently new, as he has no reviews yet.
Has anyone spent time with this incredibly sexy Spaniard?
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I know from other threads here that I'm not the only gringo besotted with Allen King. I have been drooling over his videos for years.
I'm headed to Madrid in a couple of months and was shocked and delighted to find his ad on RM. Apparently new, as he has no reviews yet.
Has anyone spent time with this incredibly sexy Spaniard?
Allenkingxxx - Pornstar Performer, Rentboy, Gay Massage in Madrid, Spain | RentMen
RENTMEN.EU Pornstar Performer & Rentboy in Madrid, Spain - Allenkingxxx: SPANISH PORN STAR  

Run, do not walk, to book this guy. Hottest, most intense, most connected sex I've ever had. Blindingly handsome as well. And seriously well-equipped.
 

I absolutely second the recommendation of Danny..
Would add to the list my all-time favorite ... the one with whom I was tempted try to move from BFE to BFD (boyfriend delusion). He is stunning, incredibly skilled (in several ways), and (ahem) well-equipped:
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The motto of my wedding is "Vivir en el Momento!" (Live in the moment!) 
Just keep doing that. Our time on this rock is finite. Use your money to bring you joy -- sexually and emotionally. Then leave it to whomever is deserving, even if that is an escort. Always be genuine and respectful in everything you do and you will live out your remaining years with incredible sex and friends and comfort. 
You're lucky.  

I had originally created the @Statham anonymous account to unlink the topic here from my posting history. But seeing as I fucked that up accessing Companyofmen from my phone that had a stored login for this account, that went tits up. So here we are. 
We have a date in 2024. He just took me home to Cartagena, Colombia to meet his family two weeks ago, which was a lot with my new conversational only Spanish. I'll be fluent in a few months, no sweat. You can read "Our Story" here along with "Moments" for a ton of pictures here:
www.vivirenelmomento.com  (Live In The Moment)
As part of the "Our Story" we mentioned meeting through a common friend on Instagram. That is only half the story, we aren't ready to share the entire thing just yet. Truth is the 'common friend' was an escort here in Boston that I met with a bunch of times who is his ex-boyfriend of four years. They were broken up but I did follow him on Instagram and I did see a picture of him at dinner here in Boston, and I did text the escort friend who posted it and asked who he was. Jose (my other half) came over that night and never left. lol. 
I'm also not worried about giving that site out here and disclosing the location/date. Given what I do in the real world for work, I have security on lock for the events of that day. Nobody is getting near the wedding. 😎
He still does escorting on the side. It's amazing extra money and he also has a full time job.  He uses it mostly to send money back to his family in Cartagena for random things like a new refrigerator which they recently needed.  I don't mind it, in fact he's really good. Also many clients hire for non-sexual reasons like companionship, dinner, movies, talk, whatever. Not having to do it full time because he has other work, he can afford to be selective with the clients and "jobs" he takes -- e.g., not doing anything he truly doesn't want or isn't of interest.  That will probably change when we have kids in a year or two but it works for now. 
He is 9 months older than me. He's 46 and I am 45, although it doesn't look that way. We fight over who's the actual daddy in the relationship. He thinks he is because he's older. I know I am able because of the gray hair. 
I've also worked through all the questions on the site. Many parts of the story can be read on the wedding site above. I've figured out the answers to all my questions with his help. It works. 

Thanks for these two excellent reminders @MscleLovr. 
Interesting point about spending my disposable income while I can. I have begun to do that when it comes to travel (business class!) and philanthropy (setting up a foundation), but somehow hadn't really included our hobby in that calculus. Really good point. Friends of mine are already surprised/impressed that I can, ahem, rise to the occasion for these protracted (and repeated) sessions at my age. I really don't know how much longer I'll be "up" to that delightful challenge before I'll have enough to handle with "more ordinary" sex.
I just need to keep my big head engaged in setting emotional boundaries while my little head is enjoying the ride.
 

Thanks for these two excellent reminders @MscleLovr. 
Interesting point about spending my disposable income while I can. I have begun to do that when it comes to travel (business class!) and philanthropy (setting up a foundation), but somehow hadn't really included our hobby in that calculus. Really good point. Friends of mine are already surprised/impressed that I can, ahem, rise to the occasion for these protracted (and repeated) sessions at my age. I really don't know how much longer I'll be "up" to that delightful challenge before I'll have enough to handle with "more ordinary" sex.
I just need to keep my big head engaged in setting emotional boundaries while my little head is enjoying the ride.
 

Thanks - seriously - for the wake-up slap in the face. I needed that.

Many of the fakers (at least the ones I've been hit by) also have women's names!
 
 

Many of the fakers (at least the ones I've been hit by) also have women's names!
 
 

Ah yes ... Brazilian men! What do they put in the water down there? Or does every guy get lessons in the art of love as part their education?

I don't feel right being called a "daddy", but a "papi!" at right time could make me melt.

Well, it ended well. Or ended in my end? Whatever.
As I had begun to suspect during a long text foreplay, this guy is real, he's hot, and he has reason not to use pics that would disclose his identity. So the owner of the insta from which a couple of pics were borrowed (with owner's consent, they know each other) happens to have very much the same type of muscular body as this guy, so he used those pics as a fair representation of his own physique. Take my word for it. He's built. And handsome. I don't want to wander into review territory here, so let's just say I'll be seeing him again.

Hi all!  In an entirely non-sex, non-escort/masseur, non-crypto experience, I had to spend nearly an hour in my bank this week, setting up a wire transfer from my account to an account in my name at the firm that handles my taxes and investments. They not only wanted to double-check all the numbers, they had a questionnaire I needed to fill out with a dozen questions: did I know the recipient personally? etc.  Then they wanted the recipient's phone # and of course, around noontime, the two investment advisors whose numbers I gave them were out at lunch, so the call went to VM.
About half an hour into the hour process, I asked what was going on. Their response was that wire fraud has increased 600% (yes, six hundred percent) since the pandemic, and that all bank personnel had mandatory training sessions on all these new safeguards.

Hi all!  In an entirely non-sex, non-escort/masseur, non-crypto experience, I had to spend nearly an hour in my bank this week, setting up a wire transfer from my account to an account in my name at the firm that handles my taxes and investments. They not only wanted to double-check all the numbers, they had a questionnaire I needed to fill out with a dozen questions: did I know the recipient personally? etc.  Then they wanted the recipient's phone # and of course, around noontime, the two investment advisors whose numbers I gave them were out at lunch, so the call went to VM.
About half an hour into the hour process, I asked what was going on. Their response was that wire fraud has increased 600% (yes, six hundred percent) since the pandemic, and that all bank personnel had mandatory training sessions on all these new safeguards.

And if I might add, these men have brought great joy, pleasure, kindness, succor and wonderful experiences to my life.  To a person who (mostly) experienced rejection in the sexual space by the mainstream gay culture, they were and are angels 👼🏻 while others my very own devils 😈!! I am so very grateful that they are here for me. 

Yes indeed. His pics are astonishing. If he offers more than massage I'd be ready to fly down there just for a session with him.!
 

I'm dating myself, and not being very PC, but back in my youth (decades ago) we used to say that "bisexual" meant that someone liked both men and boys.

Having just finished an extraordinary session with an outstanding masseur-turned-escort couple, a thought occurred to me.
Have any other members (not necessarily as old as I am) discovered one or two providers who are SO special that you chose to hire no one else?
After heaven only knows how many years of hiring - including many perfectly enjoyable experiences, thanks largely to this board - I have FINALLY stumbled onto what, for me, is a couple of providers who fit my needs/desires so perfectly, that it makes no sense (right now) for me to even think of hiring anyone else. (Not that I won't keep window-shopping, mind you.)
One of these is the Brazilian guy I mentioned in another thread. He and I have what for me is unprecedented levels and intensities of connection. I have been throwing around the word "love." I mean, as others have pointed out, he is VERY good at his job ... IMHO, to the level of an Oscar-winning performance. Thanks to the wise words of other forum members, I am continuing to use my discretionary income to provide for the needs of my little head here ... without allowing that little head to overrule the big head when it comes to emotions and commitments..
The other is a couple, one Brazilian (see a pattern here?) one European-American. These two guys are truly extraordinary, individually, and as a matched pair. Several times during a 2 hour + session, they somehow managed to give me the feeling that I was genuinely a member of a throuple! Really, really amazing. and their sexual skills, combined with the fact that both have some massage training, make time spent with them truly transcendent. And they are both really, really nice young men.
I feel phenomenally lucky to have found these guys. In both situations, the services I receive are at premium prices, which allows them to stick largely with a relatively small number of regulars. Both providers are also smart; each is in the process of working and studying for advanced degrees. It seems to me that keeping the circle on the small side, though certainly not risk-free, reduces epidemiological exposure, when compared to working ones way down the list on RM.
My only problem now is deciding on my pleasure budget.
Anyone else have experience with this kind of situation?

This guy is great! (Alone and/or with his BF, who is also hot and fun).

Been there, done that (several times) ... and was thrilled (each time). They are a very fun pair and work well together. If by chance you get them on an off day, try again! It will be worth it.

Thanks - seriously - for the wake-up slap in the face. I needed that.

Thanks for these two excellent reminders @MscleLovr. 
Interesting point about spending my disposable income while I can. I have begun to do that when it comes to travel (business class!) and philanthropy (setting up a foundation), but somehow hadn't really included our hobby in that calculus. Really good point. Friends of mine are already surprised/impressed that I can, ahem, rise to the occasion for these protracted (and repeated) sessions at my age. I really don't know how much longer I'll be "up" to that delightful challenge before I'll have enough to handle with "more ordinary" sex.
I just need to keep my big head engaged in setting emotional boundaries while my little head is enjoying the ride.