Nightowl

I was thinking the same thing. If you already have a good rapport and openly talk about your lives, you could just tactfully ask him: “When I first started seeing you, your massages were strictly therapeutic but now they’ve become more sensual. Can you share with me what changed?” He could be like a lot of us, myself included, who have wives or girlfriends but realize after a number of years/decades that being with a man is also something they want to explore.

I had the same experience. Didn’t detract from my experience with him but I did get the impression that JFF and social media are more important to him than massage.

Good point.

New rule: Don’t forward what you see on CoM to third parties.

You could try texting him to see if he’s open to scheduling that far out. I don’t know if he would though since he’s in high demand and is busy with creating content for JFF.

Are these guys posing naked? If not, suggest that management allow them to pose in front of the main gym mirrors. Some signs regarding photography in the locker room would probably also be in order. Concerns about being photographed and posted on social media are part of the reason you see guys wrapping a towel around their waists before removing their underwear.

Listen to and take care of your body, never stop exercising, keep mentally active, don’t succumb to “I’m too old for that” thinking, stay sexually active (even if it’s just you and your hand), watch your weight, get off the couch, welcome the gray hairs (I love mine, particularly the way the ones on my arms and chest catch the sunlight), keep trying new things, don’t wear skinny jeans….I’ve found that, when you start to feel old, you become old. I have refused to do that.

Great question. We’ll also get to find out who on this site has the really big bucks!

I started a beginner on Woodford Reserve double oaked. He loved it. Unfortunately, he won’t pay what it usually costs…

Or maybe just ask her to hold off until you find another bottle!

Every tenth of an inch counts.

Thanks for sharing your story and highlighting the issue. Do they know what causes it?

7.1 inches? That’s a little…precise.

The providers charge what they want to charge, I pay what I want to pay. If/when the two align, we have a great time together.

I get enough information to determine whether to hire based on what is available from a basic membership. Getting a glimpse of the dick I’m hiring is nice but not something I’m willing to jump through hoops or pay premium fees for. As for jacking off, there’s enough free porn out there to satisfy that purpose.

It does get harder. When I was young, friendships formed with people who were all in the same situation as I was. College, job, you name it. We bonded out of common interests and difficulties. Finding people with the same interests later in life has been more difficult. It’s compounded by my disinterest in bonding over “things”—sports, superhero movies, etc—and my desire to form connections over common feelings, attitudes, and, yes, emotions. Joining clubs related to hobbies won’t necessarily provide that. Mens groups geared toward inner thoughts and desires might help but those are hard to find. Sorry, I realize I’m just commiserating….

I had the same thought. The more conservative states in the U.S. may be requiring stricter controls.

I get a little bit of both. A couple of nude erection shots and a lot of blurred “premium only” pics. Makes no sense.

When the massage transitions from therapeutic to erotic, it’s eyes open. I love having our eyes locked as things heat up.

That’ll be me in a few decades.

For a mere $1000 he’ll let you suck him off in the aircraft hangar before he takes off for his next destination.

I’ve seen him about a dozen times. He’s a really nice guy, really hot, and has great hands. I always leave his studio eager to return. His schedule fills up quickly though so you have to plan about a month in advance if you want to see him.

Hey, it’s worth a try.

How would this differ from the Lounge?

Nice. Lying on my back with the masseur above me, his erection in my face, is one of my favorite “massage” positions.