Nightowl

Good luck! If he turns out to be a disaster, make sure to warn us here on the site.

I’d hire Lawson James. I’m very surprised that he appears to be predominantly a bottom.

I’ve seen several masseurs in their 50’s and 60’s and have had great massages and a great time. I recommend it.

Reminds me of a song from the 70’s: “It’s not the meat, it’s the motion.”

The thing that usually gets me aroused is when I’m face down and his hands start working my upper inner thighs. If his hands slide through my thighs up toward my abdomen, I’m usually at attention.

Good analogy.

Had the surgery on both eyes and after the first eye was done I spent my time marveling at the different ways I saw colors in each eye. Worth every penny.

If you wear the clear plastic eye cover they give you after surgery you can have all the facials you want.

I have the opposite problem. How to tell the provider I want to be dominant. Whether I’m the top or the bottom, most of them insist on sitting on my dick or entering me while they’re on top. I’m sure it’s a trust and control issue. I wrestle with how to find a way to tell them “I want to fuck you in the ass. Bend over or lie face down.” I’m just too fucking polite.

Musical 🎵 They call him Flipper, Flipper, faster than lightning…. 🎶

By blocking you despite your profuse apologies, he made the situation awkward for both of you. You could try reaching out and apologizing again but if he ignores or rebuffs you, you’re going to feel even worse. I personally would move on to someone else.

The more sessions I have with someone, the greater the trust and intimacy, both emotional and physical, for both of us. With only one guy have I found myself thinking “I wish he would still let me do X like we used to” but he has also shared more about his personal life that I know he doesn’t share with everyone. So I guess I’d have to say the sessions are usually better but different.

His silence could be any number of things. Health issues, a death in the family, or something else serious might have forced him to put focusing on massage clients and related correspondence on the back burner. If the hair loss, weight gain, and reduced hardness happened in the last year, he probably wouldn’t yet be aware of them anyway, would he? You could always reach out again just to ask him if everything’s okay, without trying to set anything up. If he ignores you, all you can do is move on and find someone else.

I just discovered him. Yowza!

If you’re trying to set a record for over 15 hours, do you have to be thrusting or just hard for the duration?

I never ask about rates but I wonder if they’re looking for an a response that gives prices for extras that the provider/masseur can’t/won’t put in his ad.

If I’ve seen someone a dozen times, I hope he considers me to be a regular, even if those dozen times were spread out over several years.

Red meat and butter are now the most healthy foods.

I like a well-groomed beard on a provider, especially if he rubs it against me during our session.

Probably a Coke can with a tennis ball attached to the end.

You’ve probably seen comments here like ”Your mileage may vary.”. There’s a lot of truth in that. Different people often have different experiences with the same provider. Those clients aren’t necessarily lying if they write glowing comments about someone that you weren’t impressed by.

I always book far in advance, even from local providers. In fact, I just booked a session with a favorite local provider for late February. No one has ever given me the impression that advance bookings are unwelcome.

The thought of this makes we weak in the knees.

The only time I find draping exciting is when the masseur slides the covering down my ass while at the same time running his hands between my thighs and up around my junk. If the uncovering isn’t erotic, he can skip it.

I was going to say the same thing but you beat me to it! 😂