Nightowl

Glad you’re back. Thanks for your hard work in keeping this valuable forum alive!

My feeling is that, if most of what is currently happening in the world and being reporting in the news is not affecting your outlook for the future, peace of mind, and mental health, you are either enjoying your privilege or happy with what is going on.

I think I need a trip to London!

It can get you going from zero to sixty really fast! I got it from someone who is nowhere near Detroit and I no longer recommend him anyway….

I’ll be interested in the providers’ views on whether this is a hint. The clearer signal might be when you raise your hips when his hands start exploring your upper, inner thighs.

It depends. If the masseur has me immediately undress and lie on the table, I’ll point it down between my legs for easy access when he gets to that area. If the masseur has an erotic undressing ritual—and some do—I’ll be too aroused to bend my dick and will have to lie on it until it softens. Then I adjust it downward.

I’ve been surprised at the number of younger guys who are into daddies too. Maybe there’s hope for me in the profession after all. Perhaps I can sign on as an apprentice to one of my local providers…

That’s it ! You’ve cracked the code!

This captures my feeling exactly. Once trust and rapport with a provider is established it becomes easy to let my guard down and be my true self. That openness and intimacy, and the associated memories, can keeps me energized and smiling long after the session is over. If I were younger I would have seriously considered giving other men that same feeling by becoming a provider. Unfortunately, when I was younger I didn’t even know there were men who did this kind of thing as a profession.

The use of superlatives to describe oneself drives me crazy. If I hire you, I’ll be the judge of just how wonderful you are. If you describe yourself as “high class” I’ll automatically assume you aren’t.

Woodford Reserve Double Oaked is one of my favorites.

You’re the second person to recommend the 101. Will definitely have to find it. None of my business why you stopped imbibing but it was undoubtedly a smart decision. I should do the same.

Haven’t tried either one yet. Thanks for the recommendation!

Could also be due to boycotts of American products by Canada, Europe, and elsewhere.

Could mean a number of things. Best to ask.

Just wondering if there are any bourbon aficionados out there who would like to share their favorites. I’m always on the lookout for delicious new options.

Too bad he doesn’t do massage.

The only time this happened to me, I shut it down with a text that said “Thanks. I’ll let you know when I’m ready.” I noticed that his RMass ad disappeared a few months later so I suspect it was a desperate attempt to get business that led him to push for another appointment.

You and I have very similar situations except, in my case, there is very little touch or physical affection at home. If I am with an escort I know well and click with, I welcome the chance to spend time after sex, chatting while continuing to hold and touch one another. If I’m with a new provider or one with whom I have no chemistry, I’m outta there fairly quickly.

interesting that you brought this up. I was with someone recently with whom I’ve been many times and it struck me that half of his penis seemed narrower than the rest. The base half was narrower than the tip half, which seemed much thicker. I’d never noticed it before but this most recent time I noticed it both with my hand and my mouth. I don’t remember lumpiness though. I’ll never get any confirmation of injections but now I’m wondering…

I do it all intuitively and from memory. I use Quicken to log money movement but have developed an internal ability to know where my money is going, what my balances are, and where I need to be for the future. I’m now in a situation where I have more than enough to keep me going each month, and a healthy balance that should serve me for the remainder of my days. I’m not disciplined enough to create and follow a rigid budget; fortunately, my intuition does it for me.

Just remember that you’re selling a fantasy. You may want to monetize your sex life, which is fine, but your clients want to feel that you’re also there for them. The best providers I’ve been to are client-focused first, self-focused second. If you plan to advertise on RMass and MF, you’ll also need some training on how to give a massage. Clients who hire from there have a right to expect a decent massage if that’s what you claim to provide.

I’d change the profile picture—the one in your original post above—to something clearer. It’s blurry and to looks rushed. I personally would use the one in the bathing suit. That’s the one that would draw me in. If I were still in LA I would definitely hire you.

I like the anticipation. If I’ve asked for a sensual treatment, the masseur is almost certainly going to touch parts of my body that are not usually addressed during a therapeutic massage. Whether it’s a casual caress of those parts or something more focused varies by masseur. When I go in with a plan to enjoy whatever is offered, the anticipation of what will happen next is itself enjoyable.

Probably should have grabbed something from someone’s clothesline after you escaped from prison.