Topseed

I vote smooth

Always thought he’s a stunner. I’d like to have him on all fours.

Carter Dane. Fuck. His butt makes me insane.

If he bottomed, I’m interested.

Visiting Santa Fe and living in Santa Fe are two very different things. I’ve done both. As to living in SF: remember it’s a small town. Roughly 75,000 people. The first thing newcomers are asked is: “Are you full time, or part time?”. A big chunk of wealthier Santa Fe are part-timers, notably Texans, who have second (or third) homes there. With that, it can be challenging to build friendships with the part-timers. The second newbies are asked is: “Where do you live?”. This is code for: Do you own or rent? Trust me: when a new resident is full time and a property owner, it’s fairly easy to meet people. My neighbors were generous in sharing their contacts in getting home projects done. (I heard this all the time: "I know a guy that.......". Happily, my neighbors shared their "guys".) Go to REI to sign up for outdoor stuff, go to the many cultural activities (post-Covid), and volunteer. There are tons of non-profits there, and all of them are looking for people. And as locals we knew where to go to dine and avoid the tourists and the hubbub of the summer festivals on the Plaza. (Local hint: when the Plaza was overrun with tourists, my neighbors and I decamped to the Four Seasons Rancho Encantado to do our drinking...I mean, socializing.) I lived in a gated community with mostly part-time residents. As our USPS mail carriers were always high on pot (I'm not making this up), I shifted all my essential bills to online, as I feared the combination of a pot-smoking mailman and the infrequent presence of some neighbors could combine to having my mail misdirected for months. Keep in mind that the weather is rough on houses: stucco, flat roofs, drip irrigation systems, pest control (yes) and ongoing maintenance are all challenges. My realtor gave me the best advice: Mañana does not mean tomorrow. It just means: not today. Truer words were never spoken. Getting any service person to show up, and much less close to on time, is damn near impossible. The plus of that: I learned skills and did things for myself that I didn’t think I could do. Health care is problematic. It’s a local truth that Santa Feans of means leave the state for even routine health issues, going to Mayo in Arizona or MD Anderson in Houston. A shortage of doctors in New Mexico, to be sure. The city itself is a snow globe. It openly resists contemporary architecture. There are many great artists who live there but do not exhibit in town. The Canyon Road galleries are mostly crap that looks terrible once you get it 50 miles out of town. Travel is rough. The Santa Fe airport is miniscule. Everyone drives to Albuquerque and flies from there. Even then, be prepared to transit via DFW (which truly is a dump, imho). Locals kid that the Santa Fe motto should be: “Land of Entrapment”. Night life? Don’t count on it. The sidewalks are rolled up by 8:30pm. It’s an early-to-bed town. Gay life? Ditto. The one gay bar closed when I lived there. Tons of gay and lesbian people. Most are partnered, so moving there as a single gay man was limiting to my dating/sex life. I did meet many people who became great friends. It is a way of life that very much lets you do your own thing. I found it contemplative. It’s all very eco; the respect for nature is abundant there. Glad to return and know my way around town. Glad too to no longer live there.

Rick Hammersmith. No one else even close.

Agree. Hope he's real.

Texted him. Came across to me with a hustler vibe....searching for a mark. I could be wrong, but my instinct told me to pass.

Suggest you act fast bringing Chigoodboy to California. On Monday people entering Chicago who've been in California face a self-imposed 14 day quarantine. This morning I cancelled an imminent LA trip so that I'm playing by our rules here. Chicago is doing much better than the rest of country. Let's keep it that way.

I think he's been around a long time. Consider asking for current pics or a FaceTime.

He fails the "discrete/discreet" grammar test.

Bonanza.

I'm 6'3". While guys my height are fine, I do enjoy those muscled fireplug escorts. So much fun to toss them around.

jawjateck: Congrats. I agree. No debt for decades. I tell people that living a debt-free life (when at all possible, and I understand that) increases one's "Fuck You!" potential.

https://rentmen.eu/Bobby_Bottom/ Any info?

He’s hot af.

For some reason I can only use their IM feature on Rent.men. I haven't had success using it on Rentmen.eu

Rick Hammersmith. Fuck.

These decisions are individual ones. No playbook to guide you, nor should there be one. Live in the truth. Be in sync with your personal moral compass. Like the person you see in the mirror. Challenge that person to be better.

Hot af. The surfer vibe, the long hair a huge turn on. Smooth body. Great ass. Bottoms in his vids. Perfect.

Jarrod, good luck in St. Louis. Glad you're not signing a lease, as the place redefines "dull".

Comes across as a douche.

Peter Wilder. What a butt on that guy. Damn.

Hard no.

I've been receiving Hello Fresh for the past 8 weeks. Decent food selection, and I'd say the portion sizes are generally fine, though I usually augment the meal with my own salad. I've learned to ignore most of their directions to "add salt". I do scrutinize their recipes for sodium content, which does take some time. I get 3 meals/week of 2 servings each; I eat the leftovers the next day. Cost is $62/week, or a bit more than $10/serving; more than groceries, but a lot less than restaurant meals. Pre-COVID, I dined out at least 5 nights/week, so the cost savings is significant. And, anything that reduces my time in the grocery store is a plus. I started out as a Saturday delivery, but HF couldn't usually make that happen. I switched to Tuesday, and the box reguarly arrives mid-afternoon.