Name a person you hate as your executor. It’s a shitty job.
Seriously, I arranged to have the firm where my financial assets reside be my executor. They will sell my home and my stuff. Yes, there’s a fee. So what?
I then named a close friend as my Trust Protector. My friend has the legal standing to ensure that my firm (as executor) fulfills my wishes. My friend has legal standing, but is spared the time needed to distribute my assets and do all the horrible paperwork.