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Anyone else enjoy this as a "main event"? Whether edging/milking a provider or mutual JO. Oftentimes that's all I really want but I don't see it discussed much here.

I love to edge a provider and see their body squirm just wanting to shoot that load.  Typically I'll finger them and give them a handjob at the same time.

I absolutely love, love, love to jerk off the provider while he jerks me off while we're facing each other and looking at each other. I find it so incredibly hot. I often will also put my legs over his so our dicks are close together. Getting each other to the tipping point like that is so hot to me. 

Anyone else enjoy this as a "main event"? Whether edging/milking a provider or mutual JO. Oftentimes that's all I really want but I don't see it discussed much here.

My gym locker room is full of guys taking posing selfies despite the signs prohibiting photography. So I don't blame anyone not wanting to get caught in their photos.

Welcome to the forum.

Welcome to the forum.

The biggest mistake people make in hitting the gym without experience is thinking that a YouTube video or a list of exercises is an adequate way to get fit. 
There are many minor adjustments to posture and technique that a trainer can spot that you will be oblivious to on your own.
I know a young very nice looking fellow in my neighborhood who started hitting the gym regularly without any training and now tells me about his visits to the chiropractor and constant pain he suffers. Absolutely START with a trainer. You will avoid injury and accomplish much more with someone who is skilled enough to show you the RIGHT way to do exercises. Eventually you will be able to do them on your own.
I have used multiple trainers over years even though I was trained in high school by my wrestling coach. Even somebody like me who's been athletic all his life can lose track of form and posture when I'm working out alone. 

There are ample examples of this among a few regular posters here, who frequently dehumanize providers.

He's real.  Pics are current. tho he looks better in person.  Only thing off is the height.  He's definitely at least 6'.  Very tight and muscular body.  Speaks proper English (UK) from living there.  Nice guy.  Easy to be with.  Highly recommend.  Would repeat.

Prosecutors are seeking 20 years in prison for the two counts of transportation to engage in prostitution that he was convicted of (10 years per count).
Hope y'all aren't Ubering providers from Jersey to Manhattan...
 

This is the same guy... 
Stealing pics from this guy https://www.instagram.com/pedrogllez/
 
Please report the ad... you can copy and paste the following:
This guy is impersonating Pedro Gonzalez from Spain. Here are the socials of the real person, who has no indication whatsoever of being a massage provider, nor of being in San Diego. https://www.instagram.com/pedrogllez/ Also, he posted a Rentmen ad before that no longer exists. https://rentmen.eu/Josephmax

"Findom" does it for me - there was a long discussion about a year ago about why that triggered me (and others).
"Shaved" is another. I prefer my guys furry, and while I've hired smooth guys, I really hate stubble.

I ask the provider for their 1-, 2-, and 3- hour rates. Sometimes (usually) their 2- and 3-hour rates are less than a one-hour rate times two or three. A couple of guys became snippy with me, including one who asked if I could do math. Needless to say, I didn't hire them. 

Recently had a provider text me as part of a group chat where I could see the phone numbers of his former clients (and they could see mine, obviously). Another reminder why using my real number is off the table. He clearly had no sense of discretion even before that.

I’m no doctor but this concerns me a little. If you’re not yet 40 that seems too young to be getting up 2-3 times a night to pee. Prior to 40 - hell, prior to 50 - I was still sleeping through the night without nocturnal bathroom visits. Sure, 8 hours dry became 7, which later became 6. Now at 61, 2 times to pee is normal, 3 if I had iced tea at dinner. “Edge and Vitality?” Pshaw. Fund your retirement, keep (or get) your credit card debt under control, get 6 months of expenses in reserve, make sure you have at least 1 good suit in your closet (don’t forget a white dress shirt, conservative tie and lace-up dress shoes) and f*ck (or at least cum) whenever you get the chance. But talk to your primary care physician about all those nighttime bathroom visits. At your age that doesn’t add up. 

I am fortunate enough to live in San Francisco, so no need to import boys from elsewhere. When I am in Honolulu I typically meet traveling boys from Los Angeles, who also travel to San Francisco on occasion. I always think about doing a reprise with them in S.F., but tend not to because my local squeese(s) keep(s) me busy. Ah, enjoying this plentitude of riches. 

List from AI:
 
1. **Mutual masturbation** - Stimulating each other’s genitals by hand.
2. **Oral sex (fellatio)** - One partner performing oral stimulation on the other’s penis.
3. **Deep kissing** - Passionate, prolonged kissing on the lips.
4. **Body worship** - Kissing, licking, or caressing areas like the chest, abs, or thighs.
5. **Nipple play** - Touching, licking, or sucking on each other’s nipples.
6. **Handjobs** - Using hands to stimulate the partner’s penis to orgasm.
7. **Frottage** - Rubbing genitals or bodies together, clothed or unclothed.
8. **Intercrural sex** - Rubbing one partner’s penis between the other’s thighs.
9. **Erotic massage** - Sensual massage focusing on erogenous zones.
10. **Dry humping** - Grinding against each other while clothed.
11. **Mutual nipple stimulation** - Simultaneously stimulating each other’s nipples.
12. **Testicle play** - Gently caressing, licking, or sucking on a partner’s testicles.
13. **Perineum massage** - Stimulating the area between the scrotum and anus.
14. **Foot fetish play** - Kissing, massaging, or licking a partner’s feet.
15. **Role-playing** - Acting out consensual erotic fantasies or scenarios.
16. **Edging** - Bringing each other close to orgasm and pausing to prolong pleasure.
17. **Shower play** - Mutual touching or washing in the shower or bath.
18. **Body painting** - Using body-safe paint to create art on each other’s skin.
19. **Sensual tickling** - Lightly tickling sensitive areas for arousal.
20. **Erotic wrestling** - Playful, intimate physical grappling.
21. **Clothed stimulation** - Rubbing or touching genitals through clothing.
22. **Ice play** - Using ice cubes on sensitive areas like the neck or inner thighs.
23. **Blindfold play** - One partner blindfolded while the other stimulates them.
24. **Mutual stripping** - Slowly undressing each other as foreplay.
25. **Erotic storytelling** - Sharing or acting out sexual fantasies verbally.
26. **Body-to-body massage** - Rubbing bodies together with oil or lotion.
27. **Mutual spanking** - Light, consensual spanking on the buttocks.
28. **Earlobe play** - Kissing, nibbling, or licking a partner’s earlobes.
29. **Mutual teasing** - Light touching or kissing to build anticipation.
30. **Tantric touch** - Slow, mindful touching for emotional and physical connection.
31. **Sensual feeding** - Feeding each other fruits or sweets erotically.
32. **Mirror play** - Watching each other in a mirror while touching or posing.
33. **Temperature play** - Using warm or cool objects (e.g., warmed oil or chilled toys).
34. **Light bondage** - Using soft restraints like scarves for playful restriction.
35. **Sensory deprivation** - Using earplugs or headphones to heighten touch sensations.
36. **Hair play** - Running fingers through or gently pulling a partner’s hair.
37. **Mutual grooming** - Shaving or trimming each other’s body hair sensually.
38. **Candle wax play** - Dripping body-safe warm wax on skin for stimulation.
39. **Feather play** - Using feathers to tickle or tease sensitive areas.
40. **Mutual body licking** - Licking non-genital areas like the neck, back, or arms.
41. **Erotic dancing** - Dancing closely or performing a striptease for each other.
42. **Scent play** - Using scented oils or cologne to enhance sensory arousal.
43. **Mutual bathing** - Washing each other’s bodies in a bath or hot tub.
44. **Pressure point stimulation** - Applying gentle pressure to erogenous zones like wrists.
45. **Clothed frottage** - Rubbing against each other in tight clothing for friction.
46. **Mutual toy play** - Using non-penetrative sex toys (e.g., vibrators) on each other.
47. **Erotic photography** - Taking consensual, intimate photos of each other.
48. **Body mapping** - Exploring each other’s bodies to find new sensitive spots.
49. **Vocal play** - Moaning, whispering, or talking seductively to enhance arousal.
50. **Mutual stretching** - Helping each other stretch in intimate, close-contact positions.

In my experience with men of this ilk (of all sexualities), the younger paramour is a hedge against their own aging. It’s a kind of arrested development. They don’t want someone to age with as a peer. 
I also consider it bad form to have a younger man with you for 10-15 years and then toss him out with no resources. I dated a wealthy man 12 years my senior when I was 21. He was gorgeous - like a refined Harry Connick Jr, great lover, generous, and quite chivalrous. But when he talked about his college boyfriend, he was horrified that his ex had aged. I saw a photo of them in college (when the ex was a dead ringer for me - slim, twinky ginger with wavy hair and green eyes) and a current photo which showed a man in his 30s who was handsome and fit with a receding hairline.
 
Though we saw each for a few more months, I knew in that moment  that my value to him had an expiration date. I had no interest in becoming dependent or even used to a life that would inevitably be taken from me. 
He’s in his 60s now and seems to have never married.🤷🏻
 

Saw him a couple of weeks ago.   Body is exactly as pictured.   Probably older than stated age.   Would not repeat but not a bad experience.   Tried to change prices on me after I arrived but I held firm and he agreed to proceed at the price quoted me.

Ambient music only.  Anything with words is distracting and anything with a noticeable beat will, like someone else said, get me fucking to the music.  Not always a good thing.

Photos are from IG @oxjmodel, currently in Rio de Janeiro, not San Francisco.

Reported, and RM deleted.

I've stuck with .eu because it seems to provide more profile information on a single page without having to keep clicking for more info.

I've stuck with .eu because it seems to provide more profile information on a single page without having to keep clicking for more info.

They don’t care. I must admit I don’t stay at a hotel and meet multiple clients. It’s usually me visiting a client at their hotel, and I’ve taken my table in to many of them (although often the client opts for massage on the bed rather than the table). I’ve never been challenged taking in the table, even at high end hotels. At most hotels the client comes to meet me in the lobby because a key is needed to access the lifts (elevator 😉). Hotel staff are not bothered as long as you are discreet and look professional.
I also book hotels to do filming in. I have the massage table and lights / equipment for filming. Obviously I’m very discreet about it, and I ask the guys who I’m filming with to arrive discreetly etc. There’s never been a problem. Just leave the room nice and tidy and don’t make too much noise. Hotel staff have seen everything, they’re cool about sex work as long as it’s discreet and quiet. No drugs, no loud music, no drama.