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Everyday we meet people who are doing their jobs - store associates, waitstaff, baristas, flight attendants, etc. But somehow, with some of them, their innate kindness shines through.  The same goes for the providers we hire, from their first text response to the sweet hug or a peck on the cheek just before you leave their place.

Since when does kindness require friendship?   I have hired about 8 of the men listed above.  While kindness is not the first adjective I would use, they all have a gentle demeanor, open heart and a respectful nature.  Others I have hired did not.  
Actually, your demeanor on the board does seem unkind.  As a result, if you were an escort, I would not be tempted.  By the way, while all escorts are not your friend is a fact, the statement an escort is not a friend is an opinion and would only need one exception to not be a fact.  As I had a friend who I later found out was an escort, when I hired him unseen from a agency years ago, I believe your assertion should be reconsidered or at least not quite so dogmatic.   

Gentlemen,
We are here for the same reason: to gather intelligence on providers so we can make reasonable decisions on which escorts to choose. We all have our own preferences. Par example, some of us may desire an ardent kisser, others may not really care about that aspect. So let us share what we know without making comments about each other that we may come to regret. I have not always done so  but will strive to do so. Cheers!
 
 

That poster is always very negative about providers. I blocked him a while ago because he just makes the board miserable. 

That is sad to me on a number of levels.  We clearly have very different perspectives.

"I suggest you put your verboseness as you boast to the actual test."  
I don't really understand what you are saying here.
 
"Kindness is just basic civility and respect and attention, and that's it."
I would say that this more accurately describes 'politeness', and I have found there is a significant difference between being polite and being kind - though the two are not mutually exclusive.
 
"An escort is just a loose acquaintance, and not a friend or family member."
To me, kindness is something we should try to show everyone we encounter, whether or not that person is a friend or family member.  And it is nice when that same kindness is also returned - though it is never guaranteed even from friends and family members - lol.
 
Our conversation here seems to reinforce the fact that everyone has their own priorities when it comes to relationships - even those relationships that may be more transactional in nature.  It's always good to hear others' points of view, in my opinion.
 
 

Sad to hear, him being addicted or on drugs doesn’t take back the time he was kind to you.
I think we are not stupid here, guys are nice because we pay them. But not all are nice and kind. And you can feel when a guy is giving you more than his time. Are they kind because they want to get hired again? Maybe but who cares because what matter is the time we spend with them and if they are kind, we’re having a good time. 
 

Peter Hung 

he isn’t a porn star but I think this guy looks like Sean Ford:
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Ignore the RM messenger rate and confirm all the details through texting.  Unless you are concerned with up-charging, don't try to sort it out and just have him commit to the rate and any other details via texting.

I'm mad I missed out on Troye Jacobs. His ass is amazing. He escorted for a very short period of time.
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Ignore the RM messenger rate and confirm all the details through texting.  Unless you are concerned with up-charging, don't try to sort it out and just have him commit to the rate and any other details via texting.

I sincerely hope that the venom that was contained in the Political forum will not spill into other parts of the forum. Without its regular outlets, the danger of a spillover is real.

I didn't often post in the political forums but I'm sad to see them retired. It'll be weird when something major happens in the world but we won't be able to discuss it on here. I would have rather seen repeat violators given permanent bans from posting in that section and disabling new members from accessing the political section for a certain amount of time to dissuade someone from just making a new profile. But I know how burned out the mods must be so I'm fine with the decision.

5 Stars in my book from first hand experience.  Doesn't get around to my area very often but am always hopeful he makes a return visit as I'd love to see him again.  

5 Stars in my book from first hand experience.  Doesn't get around to my area very often but am always hopeful he makes a return visit as I'd love to see him again.  

I remember watching just because of Willie Aames   He was one of my first TV celeb crushes.
RIP Adam...and as others have said, way way too young.

I remember watching just because of Willie Aames   He was one of my first TV celeb crushes.
RIP Adam...and as others have said, way way too young.

I remember watching just because of Willie Aames   He was one of my first TV celeb crushes.
RIP Adam...and as others have said, way way too young.

Me too!