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I  am in NYC,  Here is how I compensate my regulars:
Masseur 1 -  charges 180 for an incall massage,  Athletic, mediterranean look,  Hands down the best massages I have gotten so far.  The guy has superior technique.  He loves eating my ass which he excels at,  He either fucks me or fingers my hole.  I would see him more often than I do but he has a 9-5 job and travels a lot.  I give him 300 f for the hour and sometimes a small gift, like a bottle of scotch.
Masseur 2 - charges 180 for an incall massage.  He does have an ad on rentmen as well,  Muscular boy next door type,  I book him for 45 minutes massage and 45 minutes playtime.  His massage is very good and he lets me do whatever I want in bed.  He is not a clock watcher and never says time is up.  I usually  end up spending 2 hours with him, ending our fuck session naked in bed or on his couch with a drink.  He is a sweetheart kind of guy who likes keeping in touch via text to talk about work and life in general in between our sessions. I give him 400 which he seems very happy with,
Masseur 3 - charges 180 for incall massage.  He is not really my type but I find him cute  - sorta..  He spends 15 minutes grooming my pubic area, followed by 45 minutes therapeutic massage which is very thorough.  Although therapeutic, he is naked during the session and says often that 'more' is available.  I give him 240.
Masseur 4 - charges 160 for incall massage.  Cute white guy who conveniently lives in my area.  I have been seeing him for a very long time.  His massage skills are not the greatest, but he is sensual and has a great attitude.  He is always available to me and his just my convenient option  when I need a quickie,  We have never fucked, but he is good at hand jobs.  I give him 200-220.
There are others, but those are my main providers at the moment.  I feel fortunate working with these guys, all depending on my mood and time availability.  They seem happy with the compensation  and I have no problem scheduling repeat appointments.

I  am in NYC,  Here is how I compensate my regulars:
Masseur 1 -  charges 180 for an incall massage,  Athletic, mediterranean look,  Hands down the best massages I have gotten so far.  The guy has superior technique.  He loves eating my ass which he excels at,  He either fucks me or fingers my hole.  I would see him more often than I do but he has a 9-5 job and travels a lot.  I give him 300 f for the hour and sometimes a small gift, like a bottle of scotch.
Masseur 2 - charges 180 for an incall massage.  He does have an ad on rentmen as well,  Muscular boy next door type,  I book him for 45 minutes massage and 45 minutes playtime.  His massage is very good and he lets me do whatever I want in bed.  He is not a clock watcher and never says time is up.  I usually  end up spending 2 hours with him, ending our fuck session naked in bed or on his couch with a drink.  He is a sweetheart kind of guy who likes keeping in touch via text to talk about work and life in general in between our sessions. I give him 400 which he seems very happy with,
Masseur 3 - charges 180 for incall massage.  He is not really my type but I find him cute  - sorta..  He spends 15 minutes grooming my pubic area, followed by 45 minutes therapeutic massage which is very thorough.  Although therapeutic, he is naked during the session and says often that 'more' is available.  I give him 240.
Masseur 4 - charges 160 for incall massage.  Cute white guy who conveniently lives in my area.  I have been seeing him for a very long time.  His massage skills are not the greatest, but he is sensual and has a great attitude.  He is always available to me and his just my convenient option  when I need a quickie,  We have never fucked, but he is good at hand jobs.  I give him 200-220.
There are others, but those are my main providers at the moment.  I feel fortunate working with these guys, all depending on my mood and time availability.  They seem happy with the compensation  and I have no problem scheduling repeat appointments.

I  am in NYC,  Here is how I compensate my regulars:
Masseur 1 -  charges 180 for an incall massage,  Athletic, mediterranean look,  Hands down the best massages I have gotten so far.  The guy has superior technique.  He loves eating my ass which he excels at,  He either fucks me or fingers my hole.  I would see him more often than I do but he has a 9-5 job and travels a lot.  I give him 300 f for the hour and sometimes a small gift, like a bottle of scotch.
Masseur 2 - charges 180 for an incall massage.  He does have an ad on rentmen as well,  Muscular boy next door type,  I book him for 45 minutes massage and 45 minutes playtime.  His massage is very good and he lets me do whatever I want in bed.  He is not a clock watcher and never says time is up.  I usually  end up spending 2 hours with him, ending our fuck session naked in bed or on his couch with a drink.  He is a sweetheart kind of guy who likes keeping in touch via text to talk about work and life in general in between our sessions. I give him 400 which he seems very happy with,
Masseur 3 - charges 180 for incall massage.  He is not really my type but I find him cute  - sorta..  He spends 15 minutes grooming my pubic area, followed by 45 minutes therapeutic massage which is very thorough.  Although therapeutic, he is naked during the session and says often that 'more' is available.  I give him 240.
Masseur 4 - charges 160 for incall massage.  Cute white guy who conveniently lives in my area.  I have been seeing him for a very long time.  His massage skills are not the greatest, but he is sensual and has a great attitude.  He is always available to me and his just my convenient option  when I need a quickie,  We have never fucked, but he is good at hand jobs.  I give him 200-220.
There are others, but those are my main providers at the moment.  I feel fortunate working with these guys, all depending on my mood and time availability.  They seem happy with the compensation  and I have no problem scheduling repeat appointments.

One of the escorts I work with - he is hot and in his late 20s - actually prefers older clients.  He says they are less 'work', more appreciative and pay/tip better ... So there is that point of view
For disclosure - I am mid 60s, live in NYC and have been hiring escorts since I was 30.  For a long time, I would never hire anyone older than 30 but now I do see guys in their 30s or early 40s sometimes. The age difference has never been an issue.  As a client, if you are willing to show up on time, be clean, have a fun/respectful attitude and tip well, you will not have a problem getting appointments and repeat appointments.

One of the escorts I work with - he is hot and in his late 20s - actually prefers older clients.  He says they are less 'work', more appreciative and pay/tip better ... So there is that point of view
For disclosure - I am mid 60s, live in NYC and have been hiring escorts since I was 30.  For a long time, I would never hire anyone older than 30 but now I do see guys in their 30s or early 40s sometimes. The age difference has never been an issue.  As a client, if you are willing to show up on time, be clean, have a fun/respectful attitude and tip well, you will not have a problem getting appointments and repeat appointments.

One of the escorts I work with - he is hot and in his late 20s - actually prefers older clients.  He says they are less 'work', more appreciative and pay/tip better ... So there is that point of view
For disclosure - I am mid 60s, live in NYC and have been hiring escorts since I was 30.  For a long time, I would never hire anyone older than 30 but now I do see guys in their 30s or early 40s sometimes. The age difference has never been an issue.  As a client, if you are willing to show up on time, be clean, have a fun/respectful attitude and tip well, you will not have a problem getting appointments and repeat appointments.

One of the escorts I work with - he is hot and in his late 20s - actually prefers older clients.  He says they are less 'work', more appreciative and pay/tip better ... So there is that point of view
For disclosure - I am mid 60s, live in NYC and have been hiring escorts since I was 30.  For a long time, I would never hire anyone older than 30 but now I do see guys in their 30s or early 40s sometimes. The age difference has never been an issue.  As a client, if you are willing to show up on time, be clean, have a fun/respectful attitude and tip well, you will not have a problem getting appointments and repeat appointments.

I do middle of the day all the time.  There is a hotel 5 minutes from my office that offers Dayuse with a 10am to 4pm time block.  
After 5pm is a no way for me because of what the guy above said about wife and kids.  I can break away for 2 hours in the middle of the day.  None of my providers have had an issue with that.

What you are paying for, is an illusion. 
It is not a date.  It is not a job interview either.
Have a good time and don't sweat the small stuff,

If he is serious about this, he needs to post more than just one picture, roll up his sleeves and get to work.

What you are paying for, is an illusion. 
It is not a date.  It is not a job interview either.
Have a good time and don't sweat the small stuff,

What you are paying for, is an illusion. 
It is not a date.  It is not a job interview either.
Have a good time and don't sweat the small stuff,

What you are paying for, is an illusion. 
It is not a date.  It is not a job interview either.
Have a good time and don't sweat the small stuff,

You should absolutely tell them. Part of the whole idea behind hiring an independent masseur, either for an in call or an out call, is the sense of privacy as opposed to going to a spa with others around. As a client, I always go to the masseur's place. I've had a few times when the masseur had company. One time, it was the sister of the masseur and another was a guy who hid in the bathroom except I needed to use the bathroom before the session. Very awkward. Another time, the masseur informed me ahead of time that his landlord was in the house (he rented a bedroom) and he said he told the landlord that I was just a Grindr hook up, not a client. He didn't want him to know what he did for work. I never saw the first two masseurs again because the surprise was just too weird, and frankly, disrespectful. I should not have been put in that position. 
I can only imagine that the masseur in your situation felt similar. The surprise of finding another person there probably made him nervous. Was this a sting? Was he going to be robbed or beaten up? At least give them a heads up and let them make a decision for themself. 

I'm puzzled why you're uncertain about this. Yes, you should have informed the provider that your roommate would be home.

Yes you should have told him your roommate was there. Reverse the situation. Would you be comfortable if you were going to his place and unexpectedly found his roommate there?

Via rentmasseur email - has arrived in NYC.  He will be here until Sunday morning.  Has given me a Whatsapp number.

Via rentmasseur email - has arrived in NYC.  He will be here until Sunday morning.  Has given me a Whatsapp number.

It is an interesting point.  I have visited several masseurs/escorts hosting at very high end rental apartments on West 42 and in the Hudson Yards area.  All of these buildings have doormen who call up the tenant and then unlock the elevator to get you in.  How many times per day or week do they call up and say, Eric your guest is here?  For the most part, gentlemen visiting for 60 or 90 minutes, on average.  Of course they know what is going on.  And so does everyone else who works in that building.
On the opposite side of this, there is a masseur I visit frequently at his West Harlem apartment.  One day, one of the tenants, an elderly lady, said - there is only one reason men like you visit this building and he lives on the 4th floor.
 
 
 

It is an interesting point.  I have visited several masseurs/escorts hosting at very high end rental apartments on West 42 and in the Hudson Yards area.  All of these buildings have doormen who call up the tenant and then unlock the elevator to get you in.  How many times per day or week do they call up and say, Eric your guest is here?  For the most part, gentlemen visiting for 60 or 90 minutes, on average.  Of course they know what is going on.  And so does everyone else who works in that building.
On the opposite side of this, there is a masseur I visit frequently at his West Harlem apartment.  One day, one of the tenants, an elderly lady, said - there is only one reason men like you visit this building and he lives on the 4th floor.
 
 
 

Brilliant. I might hire that West Harlem masseur just to have a chance to meet that lady! 🤣

It is an interesting point.  I have visited several masseurs/escorts hosting at very high end rental apartments on West 42 and in the Hudson Yards area.  All of these buildings have doormen who call up the tenant and then unlock the elevator to get you in.  How many times per day or week do they call up and say, Eric your guest is here?  For the most part, gentlemen visiting for 60 or 90 minutes, on average.  Of course they know what is going on.  And so does everyone else who works in that building.
On the opposite side of this, there is a masseur I visit frequently at his West Harlem apartment.  One day, one of the tenants, an elderly lady, said - there is only one reason men like you visit this building and he lives on the 4th floor.
 
 
 

It is an interesting point.  I have visited several masseurs/escorts hosting at very high end rental apartments on West 42 and in the Hudson Yards area.  All of these buildings have doormen who call up the tenant and then unlock the elevator to get you in.  How many times per day or week do they call up and say, Eric your guest is here?  For the most part, gentlemen visiting for 60 or 90 minutes, on average.  Of course they know what is going on.  And so does everyone else who works in that building.
On the opposite side of this, there is a masseur I visit frequently at his West Harlem apartment.  One day, one of the tenants, an elderly lady, said - there is only one reason men like you visit this building and he lives on the 4th floor.
 
 
 

It is an interesting point.  I have visited several masseurs/escorts hosting at very high end rental apartments on West 42 and in the Hudson Yards area.  All of these buildings have doormen who call up the tenant and then unlock the elevator to get you in.  How many times per day or week do they call up and say, Eric your guest is here?  For the most part, gentlemen visiting for 60 or 90 minutes, on average.  Of course they know what is going on.  And so does everyone else who works in that building.
On the opposite side of this, there is a masseur I visit frequently at his West Harlem apartment.  One day, one of the tenants, an elderly lady, said - there is only one reason men like you visit this building and he lives on the 4th floor.
 
 
 

It is an interesting point.  I have visited several masseurs/escorts hosting at very high end rental apartments on West 42 and in the Hudson Yards area.  All of these buildings have doormen who call up the tenant and then unlock the elevator to get you in.  How many times per day or week do they call up and say, Eric your guest is here?  For the most part, gentlemen visiting for 60 or 90 minutes, on average.  Of course they know what is going on.  And so does everyone else who works in that building.
On the opposite side of this, there is a masseur I visit frequently at his West Harlem apartment.  One day, one of the tenants, an elderly lady, said - there is only one reason men like you visit this building and he lives on the 4th floor.