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The reality is that some people suffer from rampant internalized ageism and homophobia. @pubic_assistance relentlessly makes disparaging and even hateful statements not only about providers who fall outside of his incredibly narrow view of whom we should all "naturally" be attracted to, but he also - as he does here - treats those of us who hire escorts who are over 25 with more than 5% body fat as if we're insane. He does not recognize that sexual attraction is highly variable and subjective. And, of course, if someone hires an older escort or a bear type of guy, then it can only be because you are so grotesquely ugly that you can't even get undesirables to fuck you for free. 
I do not understand why @CoM Moderators continue to allow him to spew anti-fat, anti-femme, agist, and ableist crap on here. I can't imagine that the providers enjoy his constant yapping about how hideous they are. 
Worse, though he has zero relationship with the queer community, he opines on how we should live and who we should want to fuck. Maybe if he went to P-town or Fire Island or got on Scruff with his actual age, he'd see how easy it is for a conventionally attractive middle-aged man to attract younger ones. My husband and I have to bat twinks off like flies when we're out. 

Tell me you're a narcissist without telling me... 
 

i gave up - but if you have more patience and better luck, let me/us know, ok?

I find this offensive. Whether you were allegedly joking (which potentially makes it worse, sarcasm or not), this is remarkably transphobic. As a repeatedly self-proclaimed bisexual this is incredibly insensitive.  Stop dehumanizing someone by calling them “it.”

If you pretend to be an idiot in your responses…won’t that result in more people talking down to you as if you are an idiot?  You know what you need to do to stop the vicious circle of cause and effect…a little authenticity may go a long way.  Food for thought.

 
How about we return to the topic at hand… what Michael actually look like.

Not sure if you are trying to be funny or just pretending to be ignorant. 

There was nothing bitchy about my statement. I’m merely observing what you yourself have said many times before. 
 
Since you called me bitchy, does that mean I get to call you shallow and myopic? 
 
Cherry pick all you want. Your way is not the way, not even the best way so maybe kick off your self-righteous “shoes” and stop commenting every time someone brings up appearance. We’re all WELL aware of where you stand.

@pubic_assistance I didn't want to bring this up again, but based on past posts, you have no place in the gay community, and definitely no right to speak about it. Right now, your actions (if not substance) are pretty much the same as a closeted gay guy whose only contact with the community is when you commit adultery on your wife.
I don't know of many gays who feel "owed" by young people...except by not being treated badly. I don't ask for any recognition, but I do ask not to be insulted by young gays simply for walking into a room while being old.
And I don't know how you raised your kids, but as a financially-secure adult with elderly parents, I gladly perform my filial duties, whether it's visiting them, helping them out, or just being there for them. I'm capable of gratitude.

This is a terrible analogy. First, lots of queer men from every generation have raised children. Several of my friends (Gen Xers) have children, biological, step and adopted. Second, younger people in a marginalized community should be grateful to their forbearers. Should African Americans take MLK for granted? 
Third, me and most of my friends are very grateful to our parents for what they did for us. Sure, we had bratty moments as teenagers but as an adult - whether you're a parent or not - you realize how much your parent(s) provided you with love, security, mentoring, etc. 
Lastly. as a non-parent, I see a lot of parents in my generation doing an absolutely shit job and raising little entitled narcissists. That's not "natural." That's just bad parenting. 

And there are times like today, where I had a great experience in the sleep room with 3 other guys... 
For me the key has been to go to enjoy the spa, get my sweat and cold plunge on, anything else is bonus. I've been going for more than 2 years, and there has been plenty of bonus. 😈

tried to set something up with him - a 4-handed - he lives in NJ now and there seems to be a really big language barrier - if I am successful, I will let you all know!

i had a masseur/escort also south asian now retired that was massive and massively talented - we remain in contact and still play - anyone remember CharlesRod?
https://mrgay.tube/video/10196353/charles-rod-and-hart-caldwell-in-and-dh1-p5/?campaign=10146

The question from the OP is straightforward enough, other than not being specific to a particular regional preference. But any chance this can be answered without resorting to racist stereotypes? Jeesh...
Magic Mike Hung is indeed quite hung. One of the most impressive dicks I've ever seen.

i had a masseur/escort also south asian now retired that was massive and massively talented - we remain in contact and still play - anyone remember CharlesRod?
https://mrgay.tube/video/10196353/charles-rod-and-hart-caldwell-in-and-dh1-p5/?campaign=10146

In previous versions of his ads I got a very YMMV vibe. I think what you get is strongly correlated with how attractive you are. I have not seen him though.

And...CCBC has the audacity to charge a "resort fee" in addition to their bathhouse...er, "hotel" nightly rates.

thanks so much a- not gonna lie, i do not know that place but i am looking at their web site.
as for comfort level, all i need is the chance to rely on a good night's sleep which for me is pretty easy. and reliable hot water. and a decent a/c. quite honestly, those are my "creature comfort" requirements. an alternate interpretation of what i am comfortable with is pretty much an "anything goes" attitude.
clear?

Spent few days at Canyon Club in Palm Springs.
Here is my review on Tripadvisor.
 
Decent outdoor area, totally unexpected huge 'yard' recreation place, like, a small beautiful park with maze, fountains, tiny pond etc.
Extremely shabby rooms, old,  broken equipment, furniture falling apart, cockroaches, vending machine broken, 'play room' just pathetic.
Place manager 'Jeff' - total, complete a..hole in a bad meaning of the word. Asked for assistance with internet (their wifi works ONLY with Apple device, have no clue how they achieved that) - he started giving me mocking, humiliating and overly polite useless responses, showing he does not give a f<>.
I cancelled my stay and moved to Motel 6 - incomparably better, cleaner and friendlier. And cheaper, two.
 

I saw JasonTH. Never thought I'd use the word "artist" to describe a guy who gives erotic massages, but gotta hand it to him: The way he skillfully combines multiple modalities into a seamlessly effective therapeutic and exhilarating experience is incredibly creative. Super nice guy too. He'll send you a description of his service if you reach out to him directly, and he delivers on everything he promises and then some.

If I had a dollar for every time I wished young folks to go spend gay pride in Gaza or the West Bank.       I hope some will do it and enjoy the view from a tall building. 

It's amazing to me how many guys leave questions unanswered. I ask three specific questions, nothing to do with sex, and often, I'll get a reply back with only one answer. I don't get it. If you can't (or won't) tell me what kind of massage cream you use, then I move on. I stopped repeating my unanswered questions long ago. It gets too tiring. I move on fairly quickly. Too many not-serious people out there.

Thanks for the clarification, and here's my clarification: from the picture on the site and the one he sent directly I was expecting a leaner thinner guy - he was adorable and not the kind of slim toned body that i had expected - hence, a little "softer" to the touch

it was..... OK.... nicest guy ever, hosted in a chinatown commercial building, not a spa, but spa-like setting
the provider himself was a bit "twinkier" than i had anticipated and worked really hard to ensure my comfort. his english is minimal.... if you like his type you will be happy.

it was..... OK.... nicest guy ever, hosted in a chinatown commercial building, not a spa, but spa-like setting
the provider himself was a bit "twinkier" than i had anticipated and worked really hard to ensure my comfort. his english is minimal.... if you like his type you will be happy.

it was..... OK.... nicest guy ever, hosted in a chinatown commercial building, not a spa, but spa-like setting
the provider himself was a bit "twinkier" than i had anticipated and worked really hard to ensure my comfort. his english is minimal.... if you like his type you will be happy.