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It was definitely "different" and very much of the moment at that time in NYC - i met some nice guys there (where they were not in prison) and am super glad i spent time there insofar as it contributes to the whole of my experiences living in our world

I remember walking into Stella’s when I first moved to the city in the 90s. I was like wow I’m popular here…. Then I realized what it was and ran out lol. So young so naive. 
it’s not my scene but such memories of that time 

I prefer not to count the cash when the client is present. I also prefer that they don’t hand it to me, not because I’m worried about some kind of law enforcement ‘trap’ (because it’s not illegal here to be paid for sex) but because it just feels a bit ‘off’ to take the cash by hand. I try to play down the transactional aspect of the experience. It’s much better for me if they just leave the cash somewhere visible for me. I’ll count it after they leave. It’s only been short once (by quite a lot!) so I messaged the client and he came back and was very apologetic because he had miscounted. 
Somehow if they pay by card it doesn’t have the same ‘off’ feeling about the transaction. I don’t know why!! 

is that a CHICAGO reference? if so, aura points for you!!

Hey everyone,
 
I just wanted to drop in and say I am really sorry to anyone who felt their experience with me was not what they hoped for. A lot of the posts here are from back in 2022 when I was just getting started with massage. I was still learning, figuring out my style, and I made some mistakes along the way, including completely missing one appointment which I fully own.
 
If you take a look at my more recent reviews on RentMasseur, I think you will see the growth and care I have put into making sure every client leaves happy.
 
As for my rates, they are definitely on the higher side. It is not because I think I am better than anyone else, it is simply what I have found works for me and helps me connect with clients who are genuinely interested in booking and who value the same things I do, like good hygiene, professionalism, and no drug use.
 
For those curious about my Twitter, yes you will see women on there. I am straight but I am also extremely open minded and I make sure that never affects the quality of a session with me.
If any brave soul is interested in booking with me even after reading this thread, i would love to connect. I want you to be at ease and comfortable. If you are not satisfied with the session I will not charge you a dime.
Much love and respect to everyone here and I truly wish you all the best. Check My Rentmasseur reviews here:
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I prefer starting with RM messenger chat. I have my client page filled out completely with all my stats and what I'm looking to get into so saves me right off the bat from texting all that to a provider. I prefer messenger chat as well then to get a feel for the provider and can easily disengage if it's not going to work out.

Can I say I LOVE that you have your client page filled out completely??!  Thank you!  Such a good thing to do, not only to show you are serious, but to, you know, give insight and information into you, where, what, etc, etc... as you say, is it going to "work out".... It is so strange the, let's call it, attitude that some people can have in treating/dealing with other humans.  It's like, COME ON!  Information is useful to all involved!!

I have one regular who brings a friend or two along sometimes, and they're invariably fantastic, so I get exploration with less risk of disappointment along with the regularity. One of his friends, who's in my city, is now a regular too . . . and now he has a friend he wants to introduce. It's great. 

I tried to but he canceled on me last minute

In my 30+ years of hiring, have never asked an escort to wear a condom for oral: I hate the taste of rubber, and I feel that sucking a covered dick is not sexy at all. The very very few times that an escort requested me to wear one for a blowjob, I simply refused and, if he insisted, I cut the meeting short. BTW, I have never caught any infection. Have I been lucky?

Just want to second what you have written here...
My most consistent experience with provider who like to PNP is that they are susceptible to wild mood swings - one guy last week in Montreal went from a zero to 100 in terms of disposition when i declined to give him my building code prior to his arrival.
Going to be more careful going forward but glad i dodged a bullet on this one

this may all be academic at this point - this guy (Will) hasn't logged on in nearly a month and has ghosted me - looks like he just wanted high volume of clients during a short time and was not really in this for any reason other than the $$, which makes sense given my experience with him

No way on the pnp! It is bad energy from the get go. The guys are unreliable and when they do show up, you don't know what you are getting. It may feel great to do and make you feel like you are a sexy mighty man for a while, but you look a mess, girl. It also destroyed one of my long-term relationships many moons ago. 
Cannabis, poppers, and alcohol (within reason) are fine.

Thanks for the reply Sideways. Yeah I'm avoiding all PNP guys, just momentarily got distracted by the beauty. Story as old as time. 😀

No one ever turned out well after a relationship with PNP - so your words about consumption on a regular basis could not be more true

No one ever turned out well after a relationship with PNP - so your words about consumption on a regular basis could not be more true

No one ever turned out well after a relationship with PNP - so your words about consumption on a regular basis could not be more true

If you read closely to all the comments from providers and clients on this thread, that should help you make a wise and safe decision, before you hire someone, even with good reviews on CoM. Please DON’T hire any provider that lists PNP on their RM profile. You have been warned by all of the guys on this thread. Who are far more experienced and knowledgeable than I am. 

No one ever turned out well after a relationship with PNP - so your words about consumption on a regular basis could not be more true

Just want to second what you have written here...
My most consistent experience with provider who like to PNP is that they are susceptible to wild mood swings - one guy last week in Montreal went from a zero to 100 in terms of disposition when i declined to give him my building code prior to his arrival.
Going to be more careful going forward but glad i dodged a bullet on this one

Just want to second what you have written here...
My most consistent experience with provider who like to PNP is that they are susceptible to wild mood swings - one guy last week in Montreal went from a zero to 100 in terms of disposition when i declined to give him my building code prior to his arrival.
Going to be more careful going forward but glad i dodged a bullet on this one

Exactly!  I experienced that in spades with these guys!

Just want to second what you have written here...
My most consistent experience with provider who like to PNP is that they are susceptible to wild mood swings - one guy last week in Montreal went from a zero to 100 in terms of disposition when i declined to give him my building code prior to his arrival.
Going to be more careful going forward but glad i dodged a bullet on this one

Agreed. It's instinctive to attack people with vile words like "stupid", but sexual urges can cloud  proper judgement at times. Lets have some grace for the OP here- he's coming here for support and probably constructive advice.

Just want to second what you have written here...
My most consistent experience with provider who like to PNP is that they are susceptible to wild mood swings - one guy last week in Montreal went from a zero to 100 in terms of disposition when i declined to give him my building code prior to his arrival.
Going to be more careful going forward but glad i dodged a bullet on this one