JamesB

Name change: https://rent.men/Turbook

First off, congrats on losing 40 lbs! That’s a huge achievement. It’s not easy to stay disciplined with both training and nutrition. I get that it’s frustrating when the social response isn’t what you expected, but don’t let that take away from how far you’ve come. The "skinny fat" phase is super common when dropping weight, and it just means you're at a transition point. If your goal is to look more toned or muscular, that will come with time. Progress in fitness isn’t instant, but it’s worth it. As for the attention shift, try focusing on how you feel rather than external validation. Keep putting in the work, build muscle, and most importantly, embrace the version of yourself you're working toward. The right people will notice.

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A typical room key card contains: Room number or unique access code. Access permissions (e.g., floor number, gym, pool, or other areas of the building). Check-in and check-out dates/times to restrict access after your stay ends. Some cards can even have temporary access windows, like: only between 9 am and 5 pm. A code linked to your reservation profile (stored in the hotel system, not on the card itself). No personal information like your name, address, or credit card details is stored on the key for security reasons. Room key cards use encryption to prevent unauthorized copying or tampering.

I use whichever hotel checkout method is quickest and most convenient for me, such as using the hotel's app, dropping the key at a designated spot, accessing the TV interface, or calling the front desk. Occasionally, I like to make a special evening out of it. I might arrange for an erotic massage in the afternoon, then another provider for after dinner fun, spend the night and enjoy a nice breakfast before checking out. It feels like a mini sex-vacation.

Thank you!! I thought I was the only one shaking my head at this thread.

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For reference the new RMas profile: https://rentmasseur.com/JeepPro

Of course, I prefer providers who have their own place, but having a roommate isn’t necessarily a dealbreaker. The key is giving me a heads-up if the roommate will be around. Unexpected surprises like someone else being there without prior notice don’t sit well with me.

When someone talks about penile enhancement, the first thing that pops in my mind is this provider: https://rent.men/PrinceCharmingLA It's not my thing, but if you choose to go for it, I'd recommend avoiding silicone.

I guess his husband could be 68, 6’4”, blond and Caucasian with 20 year experience.

There’s no way he’s 68, and he definitely doesn’t look 6’4”. https://rent.men/JeepPro

I would not do it. The likelihood of any upside is slim to none, while the risk of losing what you currently have with him is significantly high.

If I stopped working every time I faced a crisis, I’d probably end up broke, and being broke certainly wouldn’t help me deal with any crisis.

Give it a try!! You never know. 😁

He now has a second one star review dated 01/20/2025 which states: “HE IS NOT THE SAME GUY AS THE PICTURE, Fake fake fake, the one I saw inside the room was more than 35 years old”

I’m sorry you’re going through this. My advice is to avoid engaging with him altogether, he’ll likely lose interest and leave you alone in a few days. If he continues to persist, it’s important to consult a lawyer for guidance, especially if involving law enforcement becomes necessary.

Reaching out to reviewers is not a new feature, I’ve been doing it for a long time. What’s changed, however, is that you can no longer see when a reviewer’s profile was created. To me, this was a crucial detail, as it greatly influenced how much credibility I assigned to their opinions.

The short answer is yes, there are service providers on Grindr that don’t have RM accounts or list masseurfinder. There are also quite a few scammers as well.

Only once so far.

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You might receive a message like: "Could you stop and pick up a PS5/Nintendo gift card so my son can get a new game? That way, we can be sure he won’t interrupt our date. I’ll pay you back when you arrive."