ShortCutie7

The thread about the stunningly handsome MONSIEUR_HUNG inspired me to wonder… who do you guys think are the most classically [facially] handsome providers who are based in or very frequently visit NYC?

No, I’m saying that his inability to connect with you is surprising because he seems to be OVERLY communicative.

I was just using the not-fully-out as an example, but I personally do not consider myself to be sexually active and do not want my doctors thinking I am or asking questions about my (barely existent) sex life. In America, once it’s in your medical records any medical professionals you see (at least in the same network of hospitals etc) would have access to a list of every prescription you have ever taken. Even though I have never actively pretended to be straight, people assume I am (or asexual lol) and I’m not comfortable with every doctor I see knowing otherwise, especially when it’s not their concern and has nothing to do with the reason I’m seeing them.

That’s so strange since I sent him one message (which he responded to immediately) and then he followed up the next day unprompted!

I’m a millennial and I knew EXACTLY what I wanted to do by the time I was 12 or so. My issue was that I chose the wrong college for what I wanted to do (I was considering transferring out my freshman year but thought it would get better after I got required courses and prerequisites out of the way… it did not). It wasn’t until I went to grad school (which I loved) that I truly realized how poor of an experience college was. I think more emphasis should be placed on finding the RIGHT college/program… I only chose the one I did because it was known to be a good school and I was ensured as such by administration at my high school (and was offered some financial aide). And it was and is a good school… just not for me or what I wanted to do.

Anyone have experience with SebasFit (in either deli or masseur capacity)? He seems nice via email.

I can think of several reasons not to use PrEP… guys who aren’t fully out, just don’t want to engage in bareback sex, are on several medications and don’t want to add another, etc. That has made me furious at hookups more than once…

Thank you! Trying to avoid taking PreP, antibiotics, etc, hence my inquiry lol

Nope, all of his links/profiles seem to have disappeared from the face of the earth.

Thanks!!!!

Thanks! Yes, I never even considered using a condom for oral sex until very recently. Never heard of a “tongue condom”; I’ll look into that!

Those lips! Yummmm (and I’m not even a “lip guy”…)

I’ve never used condoms for oral in the past, but as I’m looking into the possibility of playing with providers and am getting more STI conscious in general, I’m thinking of starting to use condoms for oral. Does anyone have any recommendations for kinds of condoms, tips for giving or receiving oral with a condom on, etc?

Anyone have any idea where this incredibly handsome man is and what he is up to? Chatting with him on a hookup app and googling him is how I found this site in the first place; before talking to him I never even considered hiring…

I’ve always wanted to go to this sort of event but would have a requirement… do most of the guys allow kissing (on the lips and body)?

Do we think he’s actually 5’5 or possibly shorter? I would love to play with a guy at eye level (5’3) 😈

Love chest hair on an otherwise twinkish guy

I was suggesting American escorts charge around $150-$200 for a 20-minute session, not $32 lol. For the activities I would want to do the first time meeting a hook-up of any kind, 20 minutes is more than enough, and I don’t think $150-$200 is “cheap”. And completely disregarding any financial aspect, not every potential client can even get away from their lives for a full hour. I personally have a very tight schedule and have even considered paying for a full hour but saying “I can only stay around 20 minutes”.

I totally get that, but 20 minutes can be more than it sounds like! Some of my most memorable hookups have been quickies that felt much longer! Ah, that makes sense! There would obviously have to be a different set of rules like incall only, no anal penetration, etc. But then again, like @56harrisond inferred, as someone with no experience I have no clue how much preparation/overhead goes into a session.

As someone looking to have his first experience with a provider, I’d love for there to be an option to do a 15-20 minute session as a test run of sorts, or just a quick way to release. Wouldn’t it make sense/be a good business model for providers to provide these services at a rate that is about half their hourly rate and would allow for more turnover between clients and more potential regulars? Why is this not a common offering (or offering at all)?

I’m aware that it’s very rare; my neurologist said the same thing! But it’s the only possible explanation when I started to get a prominent bald spot at 25yo a few months after starting the meds, while every man on both sides of my family has always had a full head of hair (my grandpa died at 91 with a full head of hair, my dad and all of my uncles in their late 60s have full heads of hair, etc). It’s my one good gene lol.

Wow, this guy looks gorgeous. One of the few guys I’ve seen on here who makes me think “yeah, I’d DEFINITELY have to pay for that” lol.

Found him! Cubanangel on RentMasseur RENTMASSEUR.COM View my profile on RentMasseur.com

Thank you, that is great advice!

If he’s not willing to use a condom for a client’s safety/sanity, he’s not worth your time or money.