jackboy48

Whilst it may be reasonable to delete accounts that haven’t logged in for several years and which have never posted, personally I think it would be much better to keep any accounts that have posted at some point...
Having been a lurker on here since the time of hooboy there are several members (including at least one person I’ve met in person) that are no longer active but whose posts I’d like to be able to search for,  and there is always a possibility that one of them might return at some point. It could also become confusing if a username of a previous prolific poster was reused by someone new, and having posts belonging to inactive members deleted or reattributed to “guest” would make older threads more difficult to follow
If anything I’m more concerned about the birthday panel making it possible to work out someone’s date of birth than the fact it shows members who are no longer active. (Indeed seeing members pop up who are no longer active is a potential advantage of keeping the birthday list if it might occasionally trigger a memory of someone I haven’t thought of for a long time)
If having an accurate count of active members is thought to be important then as radiorob has already illustrated there are far less destructive ways for him to work this out
For me it was initially so that I could change the viewing preferences after daddy changed the default theme a few years ago..  creating an account also let me follow threads I’m interested in and keep track of new posts.when switching back and forth between an iPad and laptop

I'm very much on the "Leave it alone" side.  This is not a problem.

I feel like we can leave well enough, alone. A non-issue 🤷🏻‍♂️

This is a non issue. This is a problem only for someone who has nothing to do and is looking for problems. 

Looks like a symbol for cultural appropriation to me.
 
One group paving over another....sigh.

Be direct. I want you to piss on me. Really soak me.
 
There's nothing worse for most escorts than having to sexually read minds.
 
While, yes, there's an element of discovery to all meets that is exciting, when it comes to less traditional desires, those are things that need to be communicated up-front in a clear, concise manner.

And the world breathes a collective yawn. Entitled, wealthy white dude seeking attention and validation comes out. Wow. Groundbreaking.

I have just seen this topic. I still don't want to believe it...
 
It was 2009, San Francisco, and my first ever review was published on Daddysreviews by a long-standing member here. I had no idea what this site was so I went to check it out and shortly after my cell phone rang. A gentleman introduced himself as "Daddy" and told me that my review got published on his website. He asked me a few non-intrusive questions that were geared towards finding out whether the money I make through this means is being invested for my future. Again, and I must emphasize this, he did that in the most non-intrusive way as one possibly could have. I felt that he just genuinely wanted to ensure that I am on the right path to creating financial independence for myself in the long run. We covered a few other aspects of the industry and he offered me a helping hand in case I ever needed a piece of advice.
 
Soon after my first published review came the second, third --- 20th, and 30th, and my business has exploded and I was full of quality inquiries. Surely, providing a great service doesn't hurt but without the ability for people to research their next "date" on a platform like his, how would anyone know about my abilities?
 
But business (while obviously in our lives is key) was truly NOT what Daddy was all about. He was in it to help people. Genuinely.
 
I had the pleasure to meet him on numerous occasions at a variety of restaurants and many times at his apartment in Las Vegas. We even met during the pandemic (the chair was waiting for me at the entrance to sit on) while he distanced himself from me by being in front of his computer on the other side of the apartment and we were both wearing masks. The "HOW" never really mattered, but every meeting with him was always highly insightful and entertaining.... and very genuine. Many of you probably didn't get the chance to truly know who was behind this nickname/website and I am very grateful that I had the pleasure of conducting more than just superficial chit-chats with him.
 
For those of you who don't know, he was a computer whiz and had incredible talents at forensics and used to be retained as a forensic expert in multi-billion dollar lawsuit cases back in the day. This speaks volumes of the in-depth knowledge he had about certain fields in computers.
 
Talking about talent, he used to be an escort himself (waaaaaaaaaaay) back in the day. He wasn't always overweight and was rather hot. He told me so many funny stories about providing services in LA/Beverly Hills to some of the Hollywood elites. They were extremely entertaining stories.
 
He never cared about the money. He went as far as to flat-out decline highly lucrative promotional/marketing/advertising offers if he disagreed with how the company conducted its business in the gay world, whether we are talking about advertising practices, treatment of others, or the mission the company stood for. He was a principles guy, yet - needless to say - non-judgmental.
 
Every time we talked - without an exception - he had his "routine" questions:
- Are you happy?
- Do you put a certain percentage of your money aside and invest it?
- Do you take time out to have fun and enjoy life too?
 
This should tell you about the type of person Bill was.
 
(With names redacted), he showed me all kinds of escort inquiries where the guys offered him free sessions in exchange for promotion/bad review removal/self-review postings. He NEVER abused his position and always maintained his integrity.
 
He was a big fan of Latin guys with muscles and cute butts. Who can blame him, right?! Yet... never ran out of compliments for me when we met.
 
We talked about a few side projects of his too. Some of you may not know, but a few years back he was running a website that was teaching the transgender community about proper accessorizing / makeup / wigs and how to start out. He was also running it on his own dime and received no compensation for it.
 
On my last in-person visit during COVID, we actually started discussing either a joint business venture or a certain promotional opportunity about a website that would have served as an extension of DaddysReviews. We have never finalized the details and sadly, that will not happen anymore. It would have been great to work with him I am sure.
 
I just want you gentlemen to understand how this person sacrificed most of his life to help our community. He never asked for anything in return and I know exactly how much of his life he sacrificed for others. He changed my life, and probably many of your lives I am certain or the very bottom line, his work made your life a little easier in this crazy world.
 
I hope that he is in a good place now, his contributions, his helping hand, his guidance, and the amount of care and love he put out for all of us will be remembered (at least by me) for a LIFETIME.
 
When @Cooper reached out to me, I was shocked to hear that I was probably the only person who knew his address. He was so loving, welcoming and open that I thought he kept company often times at his home. I also would like to take this opportunity to thank Cooper for taking immediate actions and for keeping everyone posted. I am so truly sorry it ended this way. :-(
 
THANK YOU BILL/DADDY/GUY FAWKES WITH ALL MY HEART! ❤

Daddy is already starting a message forum in heaven.
 
Cary Grant is helping.

How did this thread get hijacked to discuss anyone else's health status except for Guy Fawkes/daddy?
 
Can we please keep this thread on point "Expressing a concern for Guy Fawkes/daddy."
 
If you'd like to talk about your own personal health, the laws and ethics around health care directives, etc., please create a new separate thread!

I regret not being able to say “I love you...” so easily and effortlessly to friends and relatives. If I’m in a relationship I can say it no problem. But I’d like to say it more often to others....

Oh my poor ass.

I think you really do have a kinky fetish, and it's called "voyeurism!"

I grew up playing "Cowboys and Indians." We'd break into teams and chase each other all over the neighborhood. I loved being captured and getting a "pink belly." My current porno fetish is watching cowboys getting a spankin' in the barn, for failing to do their chores. These days, I prefer "punishment" over getting "tortured," but being loosely bound always adds to the occasion.

Definitely giving. I actually don’t like receiving head at all, probably because I’m a submissive sexually. Though I like to jack off and cum. But I get ultimate gratification by sucking.

Of course - who would object to "my nephew" stopping by for a visit? Family is important!
 
 

Yesterday, I went to my first local FetLife "Munch," and sat in-between two very "big" men, both easily 6'4" and solid (all of us older and retired). They wore red name tags (Dominant/Top) and I wore a blue one (Submissive/Bottom). Both were divorced and we were all in the process of relocating to a Florida beach town, for our retirement (The Munch had been promoted to newcomers in the area). They were expressing their joy of finally getting to do things they'd never done before, when somehow each man started nudging me with his knee (we were all wearing shorts and sandals). I started to explode, but had the presence of mind to start asking about where they were living (before I had an orgasm). Turned out that I was the only one who had my own place, and they both had adult children who had "moved back in." I made a joke about how that was my greatest "asset," and they both started smiling. As we progressed through the Munch, the conversation covered various topics, lovely how being gay in 2019 seems like no big deal to so many straights (especially the kinky ones). In the parking lot, one guy kept chatting me up, making it clear that we shared the same fetish (spanking), while the other guy pulled up in his Corvette (older, recently retired men, have some great toys). I suggested that continue our conversation at my place, over some beers. That's when it started...the one "Dom" guy wanted to see my paddles, and the other one started talking about how he'd always wanted to use one, but didn't know how...so the two of us with the spanking fetish decided to give a demo (with our clothes on). I got bent over a leather chair and the "straight/divorced" top started whacking me with one of my favorite paddles. He definitely knew what he was doing and I started shifting about and moaning as he went to pick up another of my old favorites. That's when the 2nd "straight/divorced" guy who had no actual BDSM history, asked if he could try using the paddle. I stood and turned around, explaining that I enjoyed being used as a teaching instrument, but I'd have to be rewarded. They immediately got the right idea and almost popped out of their shorts. I bent back over the chair, and the 2nd guy had his chance to use the paddle. I was prepared for the worst, but apparently he was a devotee of kinky porn and had seen plenty of spanking videos. At his point I had to get my shorts off, along with everything else. The first guy had gotten ready for me, while he was coaching the 2nd guy, and had a great big cock hanging elephant style, over his shorts. I quickly pulled those shorts off, so I could get a serious mouthful. It took him a minute or two to become fully engaged, but he went right into that wonderful hip action that we all enjoy. The 2nd guy dropped his shorts to show off his cock, and I was in heaven. One cut, one uncut! I was going to invite them to the bedroom, but they just dropped down on the sofa, two grinning schoolboys who couldn't believe their luck. I was going to swallow the first load, but he knew what he wanted and pulled himself away from my throat, to give me a cum facial. The 2nd guy, uncut, wanted the same attention, but was almost too excited. It took a few near completion eruptions before I got him to swell just right. This time I got to swallow the full load. They were both polite, and one was actually chuckling, but it was almost a contest to see who could get dressed first. I felt like I was running a brothel, handing out washcloths and hand towels, but they each took a turn at giving me a full bear hug, and off they went. Today my inbox on FetLife has been alerting non-stop. I seem to have made two new friends, and at least one wants a return visit, but only with the other guy, and I think this time, he wants to get the spanking...