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The International Day to End Violence Against Sexworkers is coming up on December 17th. I was wondering what we as clients on this forum could do to recognize this here. Specifically recognizing and honoring the sexworkers we have in this forum and the danger this job can bring to them.

Actually Keenan is offering that I saw. https://x.com/keenan_smithxxx/status/1993706867319788021?s=20

I love to edge a provider and see their body squirm just wanting to shoot that load. Typically I'll finger them and give them a handjob at the same time.

1)Gay or Bi preferably. If "straight" then they are willing to engage with what I want. 2)Willing to go bare 3)Tight hole 4)A bottom preferably or vers. 5)Some good reviews 6)Kinky, willing to get tied up or at least be submissive 7)Fit to Average range 8)Age 20-50, maybe even older as long as they can perform 9)Clean shaven 10)Good personality, even more important than looks. 11)Willing to be photographed or filmed 12)Potentially available for overnights or longer.

Counting there are 21 boys in Baltimore not including those that travel. I've seen one of them Keenan. He is great, not what I would call a twink, more of the guy next door but a great guy that makes sure he focuses on the client. I would say at his rate a great regular since he is afforable. He is verse but primarily bottoms and will bottom bare for those looking. With that said does anyone have reviews on the other boys in Baltimore. If not maybe we can get them together (including Keenan) for those in the area with the promise of reviewing them. Maybe setup a private show where we can watch the boys play with each other and then they play with us. Keenan_Smith - Male Escort, Gay massage - Baltimore | Rent.Men RENT.MEN Keenan_Smith Gay Escort in Baltimore, Maryland, available for Gay Escorting,Modeling,Erotic Massage. | Find all the best Male Escorts at Rent.Men

I asked a provider this once and the response I got was that while he works in the industry and films he doesn't watch. He said he felt by watching he is helping support the industry which he didn't want to do. He is in porn as an actor for the money but doesn't support the behind the scene practices of the studios. He said for a lot of the younger performers even those that apply online the studios rely on the naivety about the reality of performing in porn.

I feel if escorts didn't allow bareback as a bottom they would be limiting what they can make. Whether or not they are on prep is their choice but the job of the escort is to offer the client a "fantasy". For many clients that might mean an escort that is willing to bareback as part of the experience. I also feel that escorts should set their rate and shouldn't charge extra. Is there a risk the escort faces barebacking? Yes, but they have it in their control to help minimize the risk.

I'd suggest Keenan Smith, while he isn't located in NY he does travel there so you could work something out with him that way. Keenan Smith

Exactly, as a client we are paying the escort (service provider) to serve us. Being an escort definitely isn't for everyone so these service providers should consider before advertising if this is something for them. Beyond having the ability to service anyone who hires you (some that might not be as attractive as you'd like), they also need to be comfortable being a basically being a sex object.

Agreed here, does an accountant, waiter/waitress or barber get to see a picture of their potential clients or pick and choose who they see? They are getting paid so they work with their clientele. Money changes the dynamic. In personal life an escort can pick and choose who they want to see if they aren't getting paid but money changes the dynamic. If they want to make money they should be non-judgemental and see whoever wants to hire them. If they can't handle that then they should find something different.

Hiring an escort definitely isn't the same as going to a barber or even getting a massage. We are hiring them to "act" out a fantasy for us, meaning most times we want or expect them to get undressed and sexually engage with us in one way or another. While I understand that some want to get a sense of the person they'll be meeting we are hiring them. If they are getting into this industry they need to understand the territory that comes with it including being able to service anyone who hires them if they want the money. If they aren't interested in that then they should find a different industry in my opinion.

Here is my take. The escort is the one we are hiring. We need to see what the product looks like. Many of us though hire wanting anonymity so having our photo out there defeats the purpose. If an escort were to ask me for photos I'd pass. They need to be willing to see whoever is willing to hire them.

I like to keep chatting with the escort to a minimum. I see the chatting for before the appointment or if after the appointment, off the clock. When the escort arrives I get them undressed as soon as I can. The escort is there to provide a service in my opininion and I want to make sure I get the service I am paying for. Any chatting cuts into that time.

I always pay after. Additionally I require that the escort is the first to be nude. When they arrive we may talk a little and then I start helping undress them. First I want to make sure they are what I hired and second once they are undressed and their clothing is to the side it's harder for them to leave at that point. It's also nice to have a nude boy sucking me while I stand there almost fully dressed and to be able to play with their body. I want the escort to know if they are going to be paid they need to provide me with what I want.

By "We" I mean clients, we can't control what each other do. When I hire an escort they trust that I'm not going to do anything to harm them. Other clients can't control what I may or may not do.