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    aiseeya got a reaction from Becket in Do Little Lies Matter When Dealing with a Provider?   
    IMO, all of providers and we as clients (and yes i am generalising here) lie. Some are of insignificant matters some are not. To the extent said lie is without malice, cause no harms and simply to not disclose certain personal aspect, i see no issues.
    Whilst the act of sex is inately intimate, one not necessarily comfortable to be all open, close and personal. 
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    aiseeya got a reaction from Fridolf in Does a Good BFE Mean the Provider Is Just A Good Actor?   
    Whilst chemistry plays some part in elevating the experience and make job easier for the provider, its business transaction at its core. Like any other profession, a pro provider has a 'business persona' that he sells to his client. You might get a glimpse of his true self overtime but his business persona will be at the front. That is not absolute tho. Have regulars that turn into friends, our intimacy level swifts in and outside of bedroom (ie in or outside of business hours). He often see me for lunch/ dinner free of charge - during these occasions, he trully behave like a friend, no bfe hints just mates hanging out talking bout life and whatnot. But whenever he is on the clock, he swifts and play the bfe part well. Its the small things that changes, that intimate acts that one would normally show only to their partner.
    Other things that many pro providers excel at is off-hour marketing/ customer service eg checking in on you day(s) after play, using pet names, throwing in a freebie here and there in multiple days/ week long hire etc. Tho just like any non-hiring relationship, my believe that one is likely be geniune if they remember (substansial/ personal) things you said even weeks after. 
    There is no reasons why you should care whether he is acting or not. Would he be seeing you (and act they way he did being intimate etc) if monies is off the table - not taking into account those off-hours marketing freebies.  This hopefully would help one grounded in partaking in this hobby.
    That said, whether its an act or not, do not overthink it. Just enjoy the moment. But always always guard your heart - falling for provider is (far) too easy. 
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    aiseeya got a reaction from VandT11 in Does a Good BFE Mean the Provider Is Just A Good Actor?   
    Whilst chemistry plays some part in elevating the experience and make job easier for the provider, its business transaction at its core. Like any other profession, a pro provider has a 'business persona' that he sells to his client. You might get a glimpse of his true self overtime but his business persona will be at the front. That is not absolute tho. Have regulars that turn into friends, our intimacy level swifts in and outside of bedroom (ie in or outside of business hours). He often see me for lunch/ dinner free of charge - during these occasions, he trully behave like a friend, no bfe hints just mates hanging out talking bout life and whatnot. But whenever he is on the clock, he swifts and play the bfe part well. Its the small things that changes, that intimate acts that one would normally show only to their partner.
    Other things that many pro providers excel at is off-hour marketing/ customer service eg checking in on you day(s) after play, using pet names, throwing in a freebie here and there in multiple days/ week long hire etc. Tho just like any non-hiring relationship, my believe that one is likely be geniune if they remember (substansial/ personal) things you said even weeks after. 
    There is no reasons why you should care whether he is acting or not. Would he be seeing you (and act they way he did being intimate etc) if monies is off the table - not taking into account those off-hours marketing freebies.  This hopefully would help one grounded in partaking in this hobby.
    That said, whether its an act or not, do not overthink it. Just enjoy the moment. But always always guard your heart - falling for provider is (far) too easy. 
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    aiseeya got a reaction from Whoisyourdaddy in Is LOTS of reviews a red flag?   
    I personally avoid giving less than 5stars review. If experience was less than, i wont post review. So yeah there is that.
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    aiseeya got a reaction from + APPLE1 in Does a Good BFE Mean the Provider Is Just A Good Actor?   
    Whilst chemistry plays some part in elevating the experience and make job easier for the provider, its business transaction at its core. Like any other profession, a pro provider has a 'business persona' that he sells to his client. You might get a glimpse of his true self overtime but his business persona will be at the front. That is not absolute tho. Have regulars that turn into friends, our intimacy level swifts in and outside of bedroom (ie in or outside of business hours). He often see me for lunch/ dinner free of charge - during these occasions, he trully behave like a friend, no bfe hints just mates hanging out talking bout life and whatnot. But whenever he is on the clock, he swifts and play the bfe part well. Its the small things that changes, that intimate acts that one would normally show only to their partner.
    Other things that many pro providers excel at is off-hour marketing/ customer service eg checking in on you day(s) after play, using pet names, throwing in a freebie here and there in multiple days/ week long hire etc. Tho just like any non-hiring relationship, my believe that one is likely be geniune if they remember (substansial/ personal) things you said even weeks after. 
    There is no reasons why you should care whether he is acting or not. Would he be seeing you (and act they way he did being intimate etc) if monies is off the table - not taking into account those off-hours marketing freebies.  This hopefully would help one grounded in partaking in this hobby.
    That said, whether its an act or not, do not overthink it. Just enjoy the moment. But always always guard your heart - falling for provider is (far) too easy. 
  6. Agree
    aiseeya got a reaction from TennisPro35 in Does a Good BFE Mean the Provider Is Just A Good Actor?   
    Whilst chemistry plays some part in elevating the experience and make job easier for the provider, its business transaction at its core. Like any other profession, a pro provider has a 'business persona' that he sells to his client. You might get a glimpse of his true self overtime but his business persona will be at the front. That is not absolute tho. Have regulars that turn into friends, our intimacy level swifts in and outside of bedroom (ie in or outside of business hours). He often see me for lunch/ dinner free of charge - during these occasions, he trully behave like a friend, no bfe hints just mates hanging out talking bout life and whatnot. But whenever he is on the clock, he swifts and play the bfe part well. Its the small things that changes, that intimate acts that one would normally show only to their partner.
    Other things that many pro providers excel at is off-hour marketing/ customer service eg checking in on you day(s) after play, using pet names, throwing in a freebie here and there in multiple days/ week long hire etc. Tho just like any non-hiring relationship, my believe that one is likely be geniune if they remember (substansial/ personal) things you said even weeks after. 
    There is no reasons why you should care whether he is acting or not. Would he be seeing you (and act they way he did being intimate etc) if monies is off the table - not taking into account those off-hours marketing freebies.  This hopefully would help one grounded in partaking in this hobby.
    That said, whether its an act or not, do not overthink it. Just enjoy the moment. But always always guard your heart - falling for provider is (far) too easy. 
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    aiseeya reacted to Lohengrin1979 in Unwritten "roommate" rule?   
    If I went to someone’s home, expecting to be alone with the person and see that other people are in the house without being told, I too would leave. It would not feel safe. It’s weird that you wouldn’t tell the therapist that you had a roommate or think that you should’ve. Would you have appreciated walking in to the masseur’s studio and encountering a roommate or spouse he failed to mention? 
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    aiseeya reacted to BuffaloKyle in Unwritten "roommate" rule?   
    Yes you should have told him your roommate was there. Reverse the situation. Would you be comfortable if you were going to his place and unexpectedly found his roommate there?
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    aiseeya reacted to + KensingtonHomo in Is LOTS of reviews a red flag?   
    I would add that I look at the reviewers to see if they have left reviews for other providers. They seem to me to be the most trustworthy. 
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    aiseeya got a reaction from BonVivant in age difference   
    Late 30 is not even old.....
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    aiseeya got a reaction from BonVivant in 411 on SpanishHector   
    Any recent exp please, thanks.
    https://rent.men/SpanishHector
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    aiseeya reacted to Your Man in Arlington in age difference   
    They're not going for you, they're going for the job. That isn't to say they won't enjoy activities with you, there are some guys who just love sex and/or get off on being paid. But, you shouldn't be worried about whether they're "into" you. If they're a good provider, they will be into you for as long as long as your appointment lasts.
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    aiseeya got a reaction from Johnrom in age difference   
    Late 30 is not even old.....
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    aiseeya got a reaction from + Charlie in age difference   
    Late 30 is not even old.....
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    aiseeya got a reaction from thomas in age difference   
    Late 30 is not even old.....
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    aiseeya got a reaction from Your Man in Arlington in age difference   
    Late 30 is not even old.....
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    aiseeya got a reaction from NJF in age difference   
    Late 30 is not even old.....
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    aiseeya got a reaction from MikeBiDude in age difference   
    Late 30 is not even old.....
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    aiseeya got a reaction from + Vegas_Millennial in 411 BrunoTortilho   
    Personally, wont repeat.
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    aiseeya got a reaction from TBD in Sharing pictures/stats with providers as a courtesy   
    I have picture on my whatsapp app, so rarely been asked to provide more. Nevertheless, would provide so if asked.
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    aiseeya reacted to OceanTraveller in 411 on Gabrielmuller   
    AKA Gabriel Reis ...info on here under that moniker 
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    aiseeya got a reaction from Your Man in Arlington in Vetting   
    Agree that photo-reverse search is amazing tool. Plus ask for reference from my regular escort (granted i trust he always gv honest opinion, albeit might be with some agenda - competition and whatnot but he has never lead me astray).
    Cross checking his other socials (OF in particular) is also recc'd - might give you insight on his skills and (actual) sex preference. 
    Trust your gut!
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    aiseeya got a reaction from + DrownedBoy in Vetting   
    Agree that photo-reverse search is amazing tool. Plus ask for reference from my regular escort (granted i trust he always gv honest opinion, albeit might be with some agenda - competition and whatnot but he has never lead me astray).
    Cross checking his other socials (OF in particular) is also recc'd - might give you insight on his skills and (actual) sex preference. 
    Trust your gut!
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    aiseeya got a reaction from San Angelo in Holiday sessions   
    Big fan of long weekend hiring esp for couple days trip out of city or state. Good for the soul, not so much for bank account lol
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    aiseeya reacted to Passionproject in 411 on Gabrielmuller   
    Been with him. Dm me. Happy to give some thoughts. Cliff notes. Pricing structuring is annoying. Flat fee for 90 minutes but lasts 45 at best. He’s aggressive, pure top, and knows how to pound you out. Doesn’t kiss really. Looks like his pics. Nice enough guy and definitely satisfies his bottoms that are looking for what he dishes out. 
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