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In my experiences, some would 'top'/'bottom' only for certain client or, in a 3s or more setting, for other provider. Best ask.

I think you might be convolating 2 different matters. Being responsive is expected in any industry - no one is going to argue otherwise. Schedule compatability, on the other hand, is a separate issue. Client/ provider may set up his scheduling system however he wishes. Free market and all. That said, every businessmen ought to prepare and frankly expect that not everyone will abide by your system. And the business has the sole discretion whther or not to do the deal. If you work in service industry, you ought to understand that not every enquiry equal to a deal. Some proceed on mutually agreed terms, some fell through for whatsoever reason. And I totally agree that dealing with multiple 'fee proposals' on daily basis is simply exhausting. But hey thats the cost of running a business. The only way to avoid it is either close down shop or never expand your client base.

Some of y'all need to touch grass. Hiring is a tertier needs at best. Completely out of touch and live in your distopian bubble. Trashing 'hookup culture' as if 'hiring culture' is any better 🤦‍♂️

I feel like there is an easy solution to this issue. Perhaps just say 'no' and move on. Its a democracy, client/ provider is free to engage anyone who is a match schedule wise. If you were otherwise engaged just refuse the job offer, surely you arent coerced to take such offer. If for whatsoever reason you decided to take such offer and consequently needing to cancel your other engagement, well thats on you really. You make that decision all by yourself. No gun on your head.

Rebook him for whatever hours you are prepared and willing to pay. If he commits to his offer then great, if not you would have the funds to pay him anyhow. Its a good way to judge his character. Win win for you.

As if hiring is ever based on mutual requirements on equal standing.

A provider calling sex-for-free as 'trashy' is just beyond.....

Def would recomend.

Met him, he is the photographer....

I only hire long time trusted provider for a multiple days session. That said for big amount, for safety reasons, I prefer transfer over cash.

So ICE has his US clients contacts 👀

Is he straight? If so presumably has a lot of restrictions eg kissing, rimming, oral, cuddle etc?

As he was deported, I wonder if his phone (including his soc med, WA, texts etc) was inspected by ICE 👀

I always try my best to respond generically. Any question that I think touch on privacy or personal matters would simply be ignored.

If someone were to ask your take on a restaurant/ cafe/ doctor/ accountant/ lawyer....is that also gossip? Or simply your commentary on your experience 👀

I prefer non-professional photos for RM. I tend to question the accuracy of photos taken professionally.

You should have offer cancellation fee for his inconvenience. That said, time to move on. He block you, so dont be acting creepy.

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I can see why provider's rate is getting higher and higher 😂

No provider will remove his tattoos solely for a client 😂 unless that client is prepared to pay 💰💰💰

With provider's rate (in US metro cities) closing to 450/500 per hour - and without 'broker cut' + uber paid by client for outcall. I would only tip for exceptional service. I havent encounter provider (who is charging premium rate) asking for tips (neither implied nor expressly). They mainly focus on securing longer session/ overnight/ multi-days hire by offering interesting fees package.

This here. Sharing real personal information is a legit milestone.

Hard truth is his feeling for you is in an entirely different category than yours to him. As a baseline, his 'feeling' is that of an obligation to deliver service for which he is being compensated for. And as is any business, he is understanbly looking for a repeat customer. Taking further steps, if he deems you as a good customer and you were keen to repeat order, his 'feeling' is that of a preference to work with you (who is a good and a repeat customer) than to work with other customers who might not be as a pleasant. That doesnt meant he has romantic feeling for you but rather you are simply a 'preferred customer'. From his pov, whoever the client is he would be compensated nonetheless - so might as well work with someone who is more pleasant, just like any business out there. When you firmly become his regular (thus generating stable income), he might provide 'above and beyond' services or acts eg off-clock activities or bit lax on cut-off time or jigging his schedule to match yours - his 'feeling' is that of maintaing/ servicing client relationship for his 'preferred client'. As many business would do for their big clients. A hiring relationship can only, against all odds, become a real romantic relationship if and only if there is absolutely no monies involved.

As a professional, my hourly rate is flat notwithstanding the occasion. So I will gladly adopt the same approach ie pay whatever rate the provider quoted. If the provider quoted different rate for sex/ non-sex activities, thats 100% his discretion. What I can decide is whether I have the necessary financial means to pay. If not, keep browsing. On the topic of off-clock activities, thats entirely up to the provider, he is the decision maker. If not discussed upfront, best assume its 'on-clock'. One of my regular would pick/drop me from/to airport free of charge whenever I visit his city - he offered and made it clear that it would be 'off-clock'.

When I am traveling or plan to visit a city, I often browse through RM multiple times (including checking ads) way in advance (3/4 weeks) to make a short list of potential hire. I would then closer to the travel date (3/4 days) revisit the ads in that short list to make my final decision, amd only then would reach out to the chosen provider.