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Bokomaru

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  1. Good luck if you want to hire Raphael. Many on here have tried unsuccessfully. I think he makes a mint from OF and doesn’t really need escorting income.
  2. I’m not sure that’s fair. It’s possible to find dubbed voice acting enjoyable… convincing and somewhat in sync with the characters speaking. Hack-job dubbing is bad at both of those. The only reason to compare would be to see if the translation holds up well? But if you speak the language, you wouldn’t be watching a dubbed show to begin with. I saw The Boy and the Heron and an Italian flick recently, dubbed. Both were good. And I say that as someone who hates dubbing (but needed to placate another person). Thanks to those who have given feedback on the show.
  3. It’s such a complex topic. I believe polyamory implies that feeling love for more than one person is a person’s relationship preference. There may or may not be a primary partner (multiple partners might have equal emotional standing). Open relationships are much simpler to define: non-monogamous (usually sexually). And there’s always a primary partner and a secondary. I have a lot of experience in this area and can say that the key for my success is a feeling of security and trust with my husband. Unfortunately, that feeling comes naturally (for us) and is quite hard to develop, in my opinion. Know your boundaries. Express them in a non-confrontational way BEFORE big issues occur. And by all means, let everyone give love, as much as they want, to whomever they want, as long as it doesn’t violate your boundaries. Personally I’ve dated and fallen in love outside of my marriage. My husband never felt threatened because he knew I never stopped thinking of him as #1. It CAN be done, and done well.
  4. Louis is working out of his own place now. It’s in the same building as the old Hush location on 47th street, but upstairs, not ground level. He’s calling it L’s Wellness Studio. Sounds like he’s still in business with Shawn but wanted a better space to work in. He told me that the booking website isn’t ready yet. Since he’s just moved I don’t think you’d have any luck finding him on Google Maps. If anyone needs to book with him, DM me for his contact details.
  5. What’s annoying about the article posted on this thread is that it doesn’t make clear that the debt numbers quoted are debt on which interest is being paid. Don’t assume. There’s a lot of sloppy journalism in the world. Newsflash: when we charge something to a credit card, that *is* debt, even if it’s being paid off in full each month. As an aside, @Vegas_Millennial I urge you, if your loans are low or no interest, to consider starting up your Roth or 401k contributions again. The tax loss incurred (now or in the future) could well outweigh the interest payments on the debt.
  6. Has anyone watched this series? Doesn’t look like there’s any gay content but I’m intrigued by the trailer. My list of shows to watch is already very long though…. Rotten Tomatoes doesn’t seem to have any ratings for it.
  7. I like his look. Then I checked his Twitter. You can see what he really looks like. Bears no resemblance to the pics on his RM profile which look like someone 15 years younger.
  8. https://findr.fans/collections/gay-onlyfans-search Finder.fans was meant to serve this purpose. Unfortunately it didn’t really catch on. But you can still check out pictures of some guys there.
  9. Clarification: not true in general for doms. True in general for findoms, is what I meant. If you disagree with that, then we must agree to disagree.
  10. Maybe OP wants to feel loved. “He can get hard with me naturally, no need for help.” 😂 I strongly prefer that any top I’m with use ED drugs. The difference between mostly hard and 100% rock hard is like night and day, in terms of how it feels for the bottom.
  11. @Simon SuraciFindom is not simply an activity it is a dynamic, and a category unto itself. Imagine for a moment the client who is into findom. In general he’s looking for an asshole (AKA self proclaimed “alpha,” complete with some level of toxic masculinity). Fine. That’s what he’s into. Do you want to portray yourself as that? If you merely tack it onto your list of interests you get the downside (clients assuming you’re into an activity that can be very coercive) without the upside (being seen as a dom capable of pulling off this tricky scenario… unless of course you take pains to explain how you manage to do findom well). I would usually not consider hiring a dom who listed findom because I think it lends itself to unethical behavior. Like PNP it can be done responsibly, but that’s the exception. And someone who’s engaging in it at all is a red flag for me. Even if he’s not doing it with me. I will add that since money is being exchanged anyway, I can see how that might open the door to some findom roleplay. But certainly I think it would be a mistake to include this in your marketing because the issues are too nuanced.
  12. Indeed. I have a play buddy with a cock that’s literally like a beer can. It’s the result of two penile fractures. He’s very careful having sex now, to avoid a third incident. The “if it doesn’t fit, force it” method of fucking doesn’t work for him anymore.
  13. She’s 63 yo and has only been married twice? Sounds like she’s way ahead of the game, by entertainment industry standards.
  14. People who consider themselves Catholic and gay.
  15. Boomers raised Gen X. And everyone knows Gen X is the last great generation. 😂 No menu anxiety here! But I guess we are the ones responsible for the anxiety prone snowflake phenomenon.
  16. This is true. In fact you’ll get around double the official exchange rate. Several friends of mine were just there last month.
  17. Just about any approach can work as long as there is open and honest two-way communication. Cliche, but true. I pay for 100% of everything in my decades-long relationship. (Heh, love makes you do crazy things, haha!). But I’m very careful to acknowledge any resentment, first to myself, then voicing it to him so that we can talk it through. Agree the terms that you are comfortable with, and if you find something isn’t working, address it quickly, before it festers.
  18. Looking back on this thread there are a number of smart people who predicted doom and gloom, which has yet to materialize. Point is, no one knows. Slow and steady wins the race in investing. I’ve stopped trying to predict anything. Dollar cost averaging is my strategy.
  19. I have 2 Grindr profiles, 1 top 1 bottom. Guess which profile is 100% easier to hook up with? The boys love an older top (if hung). An older bottom? It’s like winning the lottery to hook up on Grindr. Better to hire.
  20. I pretty much agree with your post, but I’d like to point out that there’s a simpler explanation for your Tumi example, rather than facial recognition: location tracking, which is also pernicious and much more ubiquitous thanks to the tracking devices we all carry on our person.
  21. Unlike most of the country, South Florida has a bright line beyond which it cannot develop. It’s called the Everglades and it’s the reason that Ft Laud is now building UP. The lack of property for development will very much help support the market there, which has a supply shortage. Prices might be inflated, but the days of a huge, cyclical crash are nowhere to be seen. Insurance increases are certainly a real issue. But please note that home owners are protected from large increases in their property taxes. A 3% max increase for your primary residence has been state law for decades. So no one is getting priced out of their home due to tax increases from increasing valuations.
  22. Yes. If you go, be prepared to scratch your head. The audience will laugh at every line that’s uttered because the Kiki character has been built up over the years, so it’s one giant in-joke. Also, Kiki’s voice is… unpolished (I’m being kind). Don’t go for the singing.
  23. One of my favorite shows. Conventional wisdom is that it’s impossible to get right because of the supposedly flawed book. Yet this is the third time in 10 years when the “perfect” production has been mounted, if you believe the buzz.
  24. If you’re going to tattoo 1991 on your body, people will naturally assume you’re 32 rather than the stated 26. Not that it matters much. He looks amazing.
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