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Totally understand, which is why I assume in the minority. The most important physical feature when deciding whether to make a booking is actually a guy's face.
I once meet up with a very highly regarded provider without seeing a full face photo; while he was amazing at what he does (I went through the appointment), I won't do it again in the future.

Thank you.  I'll try the fetish forum.

Yes, but he cums buckets!

I am one of those who avoids social media altogether.
It seems like most people are debating just the effect of sending a pic, but to me, the demand itself is not reasonable. It's one thing to ask for a pic, another to require it. "hey, would you be willing..." is not the same as "I require a face pic".   
What if we were to reverse the demand? How many providers would be okay with the client demanding face pics of those masseurs who do not post face pics on their ads? Again, asking is not the same as requiring. I'm not okay with being required to send a pic, personally. Like I said above, if others are okay with it, all power to them, but I'm not. I care very much about discretion, and anything in my control with respect to discretion, I want to control. I do think, for me, it's a big deal to send my picture to someone I don't even know. To be required to take such a risk, is, in my view, unreasonable.
 
 
 
 

No pics, no pics, no pics.
You just don't know what will happen at a later point in time.
I develop lots of young managers and one of the things I teach them is...  your employees may love you today, but in the blip of a second, they could hate you and turn. Love you today, hate you tomorrow.... always exercise caution. Anything on a server will be there, somewhere, forever... with enough time and money to find it. Even if the escort or employee does not turn, someone else could.
I know I sound super paranoid, but it is a deal breaker for me if the escort requires a pic.

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Also a site that is ripe with abuse on the part of providers who lie and seek to harm and punish even good, well meaning clients…

I’ve seen him wearing only his mustache ….on the last 15 minutes of the massage…when both of you can’t wait to take off his clothes lol 

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Excellent question. Based on his pictures, I expected him to be thick/bearish. But in person he looked fitter than the best of his pictures.
Also cuter. He's changed his facial hair. Now has a short, carefully groomed beard rather than a mustache. 

Same experience as others here:  very nice physique, probably str8, MN + MT but NOT hot and NOT happy. Kind of creepy, like he was dead inside. 
I wouldn't even go back for a purely therapeutic massage at a much lower rate.  

https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/46406/  
 

This is a puzzler.  Any info on this talented man?
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His RM ad to cross reference: 
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I've been going to WI spa for years and still continue to go. It's not the place you go to cruise. Very rarely, some action happens. Usually late Saturday night you can find some guys jerking in the steam room but that is true for any place with a steam room. 
There was a short period of time that it got super cruisy but guys took it too far. One guy was jerking off with poppers in the steam room once and wasn't hiding it at all. He ended up getting arrested for indecent exposure. 
This spa is very popular with Russian, Armenian and Koreans. Many straight guys. It's a feast for the eyes. 
I can't believe no one has mentioned Century Spa. This place, the last I went, is a straight up gay sex club at this point. Guys openly fuck in the steam room and dark clay sauna. I don't go because it's mostly weho queens. I don't vibe well with that crowd and I also go to the spa to relax and not just to get off.
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Grand Spa has a dark steam room that's perfect for cruising. I've sucked many dicks there. The crowd is mostly daddies but I'm also into that. 
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Careful with spa palace, I got kicked out of here once because I rejected a guy's advances. I was just trying to sleep and he kept trying to suck my dick. Went to another room then was woken by security telling me I have to leave cause some random guy said I tried to molest him. 😳 Bitchy insecure queens are the most spiteful people.

Worth repeating:  not a hookup place. 
Wi Spa is not a sex club, it's a community center. I take my own family there.
People take their children to Wi Spa. DO NOT CRUISE THERE!
Please, please don't cruise there. 

Worth repeating:  not a hookup place. 
Wi Spa is not a sex club, it's a community center. I take my own family there.
People take their children to Wi Spa. DO NOT CRUISE THERE!
Please, please don't cruise there. 

Worth repeating:  not a hookup place. 
Wi Spa is not a sex club, it's a community center. I take my own family there.
People take their children to Wi Spa. DO NOT CRUISE THERE!
Please, please don't cruise there. 

Worth repeating:  not a hookup place. 
Wi Spa is not a sex club, it's a community center. I take my own family there.
People take their children to Wi Spa. DO NOT CRUISE THERE!
Please, please don't cruise there. 

I am fairly certain that I saw him 20 years ago. The only thing I remember is it didn't take him long to whip out his dick and put it in my mouth, which is not at all what I was looking for. Don't remember anything else.

One MT misunderstood my request for a pre-massage rinse, or maybe I'd misread his ad. He led me to the shower and proudly pointed out the built-in enema hose.  

One MT misunderstood my request for a pre-massage rinse, or maybe I'd misread his ad. He led me to the shower and proudly pointed out the built-in enema hose.  

One MT misunderstood my request for a pre-massage rinse, or maybe I'd misread his ad. He led me to the shower and proudly pointed out the built-in enema hose.  

One MT misunderstood my request for a pre-massage rinse, or maybe I'd misread his ad. He led me to the shower and proudly pointed out the built-in enema hose.  

Hey that's wonderful! I'm always impressed when a provider succeeds in love. Keeping work separate from the relationship must require a superhuman level of trust and mutual understanding. 

One MT misunderstood my request for a pre-massage rinse, or maybe I'd misread his ad. He led me to the shower and proudly pointed out the built-in enema hose.