PileDriver
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PileDriver got a reaction from + EVdude in Which NYC Masseur Has the Best Ass? (Part 2)
Jorge. Still. Best butt. Best memeber. Best personality.
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PileDriver got a reaction from Cliff in Which NYC Masseur Has the Best Ass? (Part 2)
Jorge. Still. Best butt. Best memeber. Best personality.
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PileDriver got a reaction from Walt in Alessio Romero?
Any one know if he stills escorts? Had a few great assignations with him years ago. best smelling armpits ever. and he was sweet.
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PileDriver got a reaction from pecopa in 411 on TotalPackageXL
Him and his boyfriend flaked on me as well. fortunately no deposit was involved. i suspect they have issues.
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PileDriver reacted to SouthOfTheBorder in for providers - the thing nobody talks about
for providers - serious question, how do you take care of your sexual health with the current standard of unprotected sex ? I’m not talking about hiv because that’s almost irrelevant w Prep and most positive gay men on meds. But that leaves a lot of STIs that can still cause major problems/discomfort.
for me, condoms aren’t a moral question or decision but rather a practical one. I just don’t want to spend unnecessary time going to the doctor, testing & then meds if I should be exposed to an sti.
i can remember a phone call from a provider years ago saying he had an sti and I should go get tested. I appreciated the call & sure enough - I had it too. Ever since then it’s been condoms for me - it just seems that mixing with so many people it would be statistically difficult to manage sexual health.
Im wondering how working providers who routinely engage in unprotected sex w multiple partners can stay healthy ? Most guys say they are tested every 2-3 months, but is that even enough ?
My understanding of DoxyPep is that it’s useful after occasional unprotected sex, but not meant as a routine - maybe I’m misinformed on that - and that really only treats Chlamydia & Syphilis, not gonorrhea and all the others.
if the providers have any tricks of the trade used to mitigate, I’d like to know that. And is there any sort of discreet visual inspection that can be done of potential partners ? do providers ever decline clients if something doesn’t look right ?
I don’t think anyone actually likes condoms - some people are just more risk averse than others. And almost nobody discusses or acknowledges contracting an STI. Honestly, this is my biggest hangup about sex.
My sense is established professional providers are more on top of their sexual health than the average person - just another reason why I avoid the apps and prefer paid encounters.
I’ve found almost nobody wants to discuss this subject in personal terms - it’s always in the abstract and seemingly unrealistic w very little acknowledgement of the real world. It could be my fears are unfounded - and if that’s the case, I’d like to get perspective on that too
Ive seen references in other threads about having conversations w providers about sexual health & practices - I’d like to know how that ideally goes from a providers perspective
And yes - I know all things carry some risk - it’s about making better choices, maybe not perfect ones.
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PileDriver got a reaction from BaronArtz in ass eating/rimming???
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PileDriver got a reaction from + Vegas_Millennial in ass eating/rimming???
who puts out and goes down? elusive topic with many providers...
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PileDriver got a reaction from BonVivant in Info on HoleBoss?
i've now met HoleBoss. Sweet guy. Very attractive and easy going. Thick. Real thick. A considerate top! The best kind.
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PileDriver got a reaction from marylander1940 in 411 on TotalPackageXL
Him and his boyfriend flaked on me as well. fortunately no deposit was involved. i suspect they have issues.
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PileDriver got a reaction from Dolman in Ugly Clients and Providers With Substance Problems
Too many comments on this board from clients who have so little regard for providers and their problems. life is complicated. have had my share of issues with providers. including providers too drugged out to perform. even passed out. BUT have heard it a thousand times from guys i hire about how much they appreciate my stability given the litany of alcoholic, drugged, closeted guys, stinking, rancid in their body hygiene clients who walk through the door. Providers have a really tough job. Just shocking what i have heard about how clients present themselves. But then expect easy going absolute perfection from the provider at any cost.
So, please give providers who have a problem a break. Especially a substance problem. Be kind. Rise above your sexual needs at the moment and reach out and be compassionate. Kind. Call 911 is the situation warrants it. No excuse for not being a decent human being. Period. Please.
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PileDriver got a reaction from Dolman in 411 on TotalPackageXL
Him and his boyfriend flaked on me as well. fortunately no deposit was involved. i suspect they have issues.
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PileDriver got a reaction from + Vegas_Millennial in Info on HoleBoss?
i've now met HoleBoss. Sweet guy. Very attractive and easy going. Thick. Real thick. A considerate top! The best kind.
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PileDriver got a reaction from Dolman in Info on HoleBoss?
i've now met HoleBoss. Sweet guy. Very attractive and easy going. Thick. Real thick. A considerate top! The best kind.
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PileDriver got a reaction from + Vegas_Millennial in ass eating/rimming???
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PileDriver got a reaction from thomas in ass eating/rimming???
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PileDriver got a reaction from marylander1940 in ass eating/rimming???
who puts out and goes down? elusive topic with many providers...
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PileDriver got a reaction from liubit in cock swelling then throbbing
that feeling when a cock swells...then throbs violently
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PileDriver got a reaction from + Vegas_Millennial in ErroticXXXmassage - NYC (been reviewed before)
I've hired him a few times. He isn't available that often for good reason. Smart guy, great massage skills, and then some. For me delivered on all fronts and it wasn't forced in the least bit.
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PileDriver got a reaction from Your Man in Arlington in Aversion to RM Chat?
so my feeling is a handful of exchanges on RM chat are good? prefer to then move to texting. but, also have guys who i've courted for some time who are still game...so....depends on the guy i guess? just took one yesterday from a top i had been o RM chat for years...
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PileDriver got a reaction from Your Man in Arlington in Aversion to RM Chat?
not my experience. my best assignations have been with men who are ok with an on going dialogue on RM. have written complete paragraphs and received complete paragraphs in response.
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PileDriver got a reaction from tenderloin in Aversion to RM Chat?
Curious to hear from providers. I love RM Chat to establish a relationship first. So many providers want to jump to texting immediately. Why? I like the buffer. Initial foreplay. Texting is the next level. Getting ready to consummate. No? Curious.
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PileDriver got a reaction from Hen in Another Theme On Deposits
made a date yesterday, traveled 45 minutes on the NYC transit system to the provider's hotel. texted him i was in the lobby and was told i neeed to make a deposit. weird. and the deposit had to apple pay. no other options. lol. seriously. texted photos of the hotel lobby and was told i'm a time waster. sigh. 45 minute trip home. who's the time waster. then he had the nerve to text a tirade because i refused to pay the deposit. dear lord.and then a friend of his started texting me about how grotesque i am...a new low.
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PileDriver got a reaction from + goosh69 in Another Theme On Deposits
made a date yesterday, traveled 45 minutes on the NYC transit system to the provider's hotel. texted him i was in the lobby and was told i neeed to make a deposit. weird. and the deposit had to apple pay. no other options. lol. seriously. texted photos of the hotel lobby and was told i'm a time waster. sigh. 45 minute trip home. who's the time waster. then he had the nerve to text a tirade because i refused to pay the deposit. dear lord.and then a friend of his started texting me about how grotesque i am...a new low.