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the assignations where I pay after are usually the better assignations...money up front usually means they are a time watcher or are about to just go through the motions like a robot or didn't show up horned for sex..etc. There have been some exceptions. The best are so easy that money is treated as an aftermath...my massage therapists come to mind...

exactly...even condoms are not 100%...and if any sort of oral play is involved you are open to any and all infections...but fucking relax and be aware and take precaitions and enjoy lif...look both ways before you cross but don't expect to never get hit by an e-bike, no? this topic has been beaten to death on this site over and over of course...driven most by those who are fearful but also not responsible...at least my impression...the reason is probably more nuanced..we are talking about sexual pleasure so...AND willing to old hands with those new to the game at any age and give sage advice but, we did just celebrate Gay Pride...for me that comes these days with Gay Responsibility...maybe just hit a hornets nest...

SirBillybob yes, personal responsibility with Prep and Doxy Prep and antivirall medications mitigate...its 2026 after all... but be aware and be cautious...be responsible for your own destiny and don't depend on a hire to do it for you, no? Including all the other STDs out there. Not fool proof of course but life is not full proof. I look both ways, even on a one way street, in NYC but most undoubtedly will die being hit by an delivery guy on an e-bike before I die of HIV that I received from a hire...
 
 

Lol..of course and a bottle of mouth with peroxide...seldom play outside my decades old relationship...but self responsibility works...had syphilis once (lordy I new I made a mistake the second my cock went in) but dealt with it immediately...and gonorrhea once..similar scenario...how stupid was I..learned my lesson and moved on...decades now with zero STDs... I take responsibility for my body and actions
 

SirBillybob yes, personal responsibility with Prep and Doxy Prep and antivirall medications mitigate...its 2026 after all... but be aware and be cautious...be responsible for your own destiny and don't depend on a hire to do it for you, no? Including all the other STDs out there. Not fool proof of course but life is not full proof. I look both ways, even on a one way street, in NYC but most undoubtedly will die being hit by an delivery guy on an e-bike before I die of HIV that I received from a hire...
 
 

PhileasFogg...exactly...human nature...on top of that sexual human nature...then add to that all the contrived moral crap...everyone take care of their own bodies please..no?

Lol..of course and a bottle of mouth with peroxide...seldom play outside my decades old relationship...but self responsibility works...had syphilis once (lordy I new I made a mistake the second my cock went in) but dealt with it immediately...and gonorrhea once..similar scenario...how stupid was I..learned my lesson and moved on...decades now with zero STDs... I take responsibility for my body and actions
 

SirBillybob yes, personal responsibility with Prep and Doxy Prep and antivirall medications mitigate...its 2026 after all... but be aware and be cautious...be responsible for your own destiny and don't depend on a hire to do it for you, no? Including all the other STDs out there. Not fool proof of course but life is not full proof. I look both ways, even on a one way street, in NYC but most undoubtedly will die being hit by an delivery guy on an e-bike before I die of HIV that I received from a hire...
 
 

i eat ass and double dip and more but now that I use Doxy Prep AND per my doctor use a mouth rinse and gargle with a peroxide based solution between asses (unless they are side by side 🤷🏻‍♂️)....hardly perfect...AND do all this on a limited basis...have never had a medical issue...it's not a perfect world but i've made it this far...abstinence is not for me but cautious debauchery works...talk to your doctor...and I know a few infamous cumpdumps who take hundreds of loads a year and go down on thousands of cocks...anecdotally they tell me they are surprisingly clean on infections so..AND describe the group? A group of trusted fuckbuds (in my case mostly) or a room full of drugged and drunk strangers at a holiday destination..which can be hot...risk management I guess is what you are asking about? zero risk is zero sex unless you use a condom and sorry but, for oral sex, rather be abstinent...and so..long winded

PhileasFogg...exactly...human nature...on top of that sexual human nature...then add to that all the contrived moral crap...everyone take care of their own bodies please..no?

Maybe a forbidden topic...but it is warm and sultry in NYC and I am a piss top, and a piss bottom...so...escorts in NYC who drink from the tap? Voraciously? And eagerly enjoy a good piss fuck? 💦💦💦🐷🐷🐷😈😈😈🤷🏻‍♂️🤷🏻‍♂️🤷🏻‍♂️

Maybe a forbidden topic...but it is warm and sultry in NYC and I am a piss top, and a piss bottom...so...escorts in NYC who drink from the tap? Voraciously? And eagerly enjoy a good piss fuck? 💦💦💦🐷🐷🐷😈😈😈🤷🏻‍♂️🤷🏻‍♂️🤷🏻‍♂️

in theory an easy one...everyone should be honest and explicit...in practice it's more complicated...in practice being HIV neg or HIV positive has the same effect...in raw fucking no HIV transmission...in reality maybe the real issue is that if someone is HIV positive but not honest about whether they are on Meds or undetectable, no? At the end of the day someone who advertises as HIV negetive and on Prep can also be lying so...choose yopur risk level and take care of yourself and get on Prep and just deal with it...hand wring and fretting is not the answer on a site that is about sexual connection

Maybe a forbidden topic...but it is warm and sultry in NYC and I am a piss top, and a piss bottom...so...escorts in NYC who drink from the tap? Voraciously? And eagerly enjoy a good piss fuck? 💦💦💦🐷🐷🐷😈😈😈🤷🏻‍♂️🤷🏻‍♂️🤷🏻‍♂️

Who are the bottoms with holes that orgasm. Multiple times? Violently? So much your cock feels every bit of it...or your mouth.

Yes,The Lodge does a great job...AND folks I live in NYC and every day I take risks...for me there are rewards to that risk taking...so I think of sexual risk in the context of broader risk taking. personal and informed judgement matters. and also not interested in puritanical thought because it is 2026 and there is information out there and there are doctors who can advice and help you out and gay medical clinics and so on...don't rely on this forum alone...my doctor is gay, my urologist is gay, my allergist is gay and I am open to them about everything

i eat ass and double dip and more but now that I use Doxy Prep AND per my doctor use a mouth rinse and gargle with a peroxide based solution between asses (unless they are side by side 🤷🏻‍♂️)....hardly perfect...AND do all this on a limited basis...have never had a medical issue...it's not a perfect world but i've made it this far...abstinence is not for me but cautious debauchery works...talk to your doctor...and I know a few infamous cumpdumps who take hundreds of loads a year and go down on thousands of cocks...anecdotally they tell me they are surprisingly clean on infections so..AND describe the group? A group of trusted fuckbuds (in my case mostly) or a room full of drugged and drunk strangers at a holiday destination..which can be hot...risk management I guess is what you are asking about? zero risk is zero sex unless you use a condom and sorry but, for oral sex, rather be abstinent...and so..long winded

i eat ass and double dip and more but now that I use Doxy Prep AND per my doctor use a mouth rinse and gargle with a peroxide based solution between asses (unless they are side by side 🤷🏻‍♂️)....hardly perfect...AND do all this on a limited basis...have never had a medical issue...it's not a perfect world but i've made it this far...abstinence is not for me but cautious debauchery works...talk to your doctor...and I know a few infamous cumpdumps who take hundreds of loads a year and go down on thousands of cocks...anecdotally they tell me they are surprisingly clean on infections so..AND describe the group? A group of trusted fuckbuds (in my case mostly) or a room full of drugged and drunk strangers at a holiday destination..which can be hot...risk management I guess is what you are asking about? zero risk is zero sex unless you use a condom and sorry but, for oral sex, rather be abstinent...and so..long winded

Yes,The Lodge does a great job...AND folks I live in NYC and every day I take risks...for me there are rewards to that risk taking...so I think of sexual risk in the context of broader risk taking. personal and informed judgement matters. and also not interested in puritanical thought because it is 2026 and there is information out there and there are doctors who can advice and help you out and gay medical clinics and so on...don't rely on this forum alone...my doctor is gay, my urologist is gay, my allergist is gay and I am open to them about everything

Yes,The Lodge does a great job...AND folks I live in NYC and every day I take risks...for me there are rewards to that risk taking...so I think of sexual risk in the context of broader risk taking. personal and informed judgement matters. and also not interested in puritanical thought because it is 2026 and there is information out there and there are doctors who can advice and help you out and gay medical clinics and so on...don't rely on this forum alone...my doctor is gay, my urologist is gay, my allergist is gay and I am open to them about everything

Yes,The Lodge does a great job...AND folks I live in NYC and every day I take risks...for me there are rewards to that risk taking...so I think of sexual risk in the context of broader risk taking. personal and informed judgement matters. and also not interested in puritanical thought because it is 2026 and there is information out there and there are doctors who can advice and help you out and gay medical clinics and so on...don't rely on this forum alone...my doctor is gay, my urologist is gay, my allergist is gay and I am open to them about everything

i eat ass and double dip and more but now that I use Doxy Prep AND per my doctor use a mouth rinse and gargle with a peroxide based solution between asses (unless they are side by side 🤷🏻‍♂️)....hardly perfect...AND do all this on a limited basis...have never had a medical issue...it's not a perfect world but i've made it this far...abstinence is not for me but cautious debauchery works...talk to your doctor...and I know a few infamous cumpdumps who take hundreds of loads a year and go down on thousands of cocks...anecdotally they tell me they are surprisingly clean on infections so..AND describe the group? A group of trusted fuckbuds (in my case mostly) or a room full of drugged and drunk strangers at a holiday destination..which can be hot...risk management I guess is what you are asking about? zero risk is zero sex unless you use a condom and sorry but, for oral sex, rather be abstinent...and so..long winded

Be upfront. Period. Its business, and you are paying for a service. When I hire a bottom it's always clear I will cum without a condom balls deep inside...there is never any doubt and it works well...and when I bottom I am upfront and clear the guy i hire will shoot his load balls deep inside me with no condom...and it works. Guys do say no when I inquire, some are taken back by my bluntness, but it works, and we just don't get together. We are all adults. As for taking a load inside me there are the multicummers and don't think anyone has faked it with me. The throbbing and the flood of warmth...and I always insist the seed is ground in...so when the stud pulls out its clear he really did cum...love to clean his cum off his cock...Be upfront and the assignation will be so much more relaxed and pleasurable for everyone...

does it matter?

Piss is astounding...unlike cum it is available in large quantities and is endless if you drink enough fluids...as a shower, down the throat, up the ass...endless pleasure