SometimesBi

Back to the OP, here's my suggestion. Set up the car wash/detail. But ALSO plan to be shirtless in shorts yourself (it'll be a hot day, right). Chat a bit as he's getting started on the car. Remember, he may have noticed your eyes wandering while he was talking to you last week. Watch to see if his eyes wander. An opportunity to have a more sexual conversation may present itself. Maybe you'll bring up RM, or maybe he will volunteer it himself (or even just let things develop all the way, and you get a freebie) He's on RM. He knows how to be discreet. It sounds like you are, too. I would not expect any complications with neighbors.

The problem is, the provider charges more for 2 "clients" vs 1 client+1provider. So contact the provider again, only this time say you'd like the 3way again, with a different additional provider, that you've already hired and will pay separately (that is what you did the first time?). Then the main provider's rate should go back to 300. Just be sure your friend role-plays his part in this.

Gee, and here I was hoping this topic would have revealed the finger pic as a way for the provider to suggest he offers prostate massage 😏😁

First I've heard of such a thing. So that begs a question: if the top does this, how does he thrust without them popping out?

Or the Seattle area? 😏

Instead of canceling, might you have asked if that provider could have traveled to you?

Last month, finally hooked up with a friend acquaintance for the first time, after months of trying to align sschedules. Both of us are older, and that age kicked in. It was difficult for either of us to really get excited. So I had this thought today, that maybe we could get together, and hire one provider to come service both of us. Would a provider want/need to charge differently since there are two of us as clients, instead of just the usual one? Will we have difficulty even finding a provider that would have us both?

All this talk of providers cumming in a mouth, on a face, on pecs, etc. Some of us bottoms would prefer to take his cum up our ass. Sounds like that could be a more challenging request of providers?

359? With a price like that, I'd expect he'd also add sales tax. 🤣

So as I watch (and re-watch) favorite porn scenes, I certainly fantasize about me in those scenes. If I were to hire a provider, specifically because I want to play out such a scene, could I email a link to him, to best explain what I seek? Knowing all the bad stuff out there (bad links, phishing sites, malware, etc) would any provider trust such a link? Is there a better way to go about this? Even if done safely, would a provider even watch it? For clarity of discussion, this would be a provider NOT in the scene being shared. (So you cannot just say "remember that movie you did, where you...")

As long as the top isn't super big, I can do that every time (and I'm not a provider, so... no charge here 😁) My favorite position is on my back at the edge of the bed, legs up over the top's shoulders as he fucks me. I can stroke my hard dick with one hand, and caress his chest, pecs, nipples, with the other. Or, both my hands on his chest while he strokes me. The question will be: who cums first, me or him?

Maybe the OP did just that?? 🤔🤔

But, the female partner cannot provide the anal (and prostate) stimulation in the way that the man enjoys. And sorry, no, a strap-on is not the same. So don't go there.

Suppose the client is a married man, who isn't quite sure when he can discreetly get away from her for a couple hours (or might not get the opportunity until just a couple hours beforehand). How would you recommend a client set up such an appointment?

Just a quick note about "expiration". Manufacturers do tests to analyze shelf longevity. No, they don't actually set some aside for 2 years and check it - new drugs come out far too fast for that. But the FDA grants the manufacturers a license to sell each batch they make. Technically, it is that license that is expiring on the given date. Medication with an expiration date doesn't magically become useless/void the day after. On the opposite side, food doesn't have expiration dates. It has Best By dates. Sometimes, the date is manufacture date (often canned goods). If you find a food product with an actual Expiration Date, either there is some medical element, or the maker didn't know what they were doing.

Ok, yea so it's called "skinny" dipping. But does that really mean that big, beefy, and/or fat daddies can't participate? 😏😏😁😁

I feel like there's a reference/joke I'm missing here? 😥🤔

There's been a lot of discussion following this. May I suggest taking him up on the offer? Go back to the club where you first saw him (before you found he had a RM profile). Approach him and say "Hi!". Does a conversation happen? If so, does he offer to go back with him? Push the limit ... say something like you weren't looking to hire tonight, but if he's still interested, take him up on the offer. Better yet, pretend you never hired him. If enough time has passed since you hired him, he might not exactly remember you. This would really reveal if he was genuinely interested in you, or just looking for a new regular.

For the most part, all bottoms that hire are getting a provider that is going to have a good time (how else are they going to top that client's mouth/ass). Indeed, as a bottom, if the provider I hire does NOT get off, that might be grounds for paying less? (Certainly, no tip).

Ok, before I get to the actual topic, let me preface with a personal story from many, many years ago... * * * I'm in my mid 20s, and in Las Vegas for a computer-related convention. I'm still a virgin, and only just barely just exploring sexual interests. I don't travel much, and find all the restaurant food on a trip (so different from my routine meals when at home) tends to give me a bloated feeling, even when hungry. Such was the case this one morning. I'm eating breakfast at a fast food place in one of the casinos. I had a bit of a cramp, so I reached down to massage the area a bit, right at the belt line, to relieve the discomfort. Feeling better, I continued breakfast. What I didn't know, was someone else saw this. But as I was almost finished, I happened to glance across the floor to an older guy also eating. As my gaze met his, he put his hands on the bench to lift his butt off the seat, and did a couple pelvic thrusts. Being so young, and unsure about gayness in general, this freaked me out! I looked away, quickly finished my last two bites of food, and left in a hurry. I had to get away from this "creepy old guy". (Note that as I look back on this incident today, I would more accurately describe him as a "hot daddy". Oh, what might have been, if I hadn't been afraid, but brave enough to hang around to meet him.) * * * So that brings me to today's topic. Clearly my adjusting a cramp was a body signal. And his pelvic thrusts were obviously so. But neither might be good in a discreet public setting today. Are there some good DISCREET signals that you might use in a public setting? I used to ride a lot of public transportation, and the easiest signal could be just keeping a hand in your lap, with the slightest touch/rub in the groin area when the one "hottie" looks your way. But are there other signals? I'm talking about truly random, everyday public settings, like riding a bus, shopping, a restaurant, etc, where you would NOT expect to make any connections. (So, not at a bar, not at the park, not at the beach, etc.) Have you successfully signaled to another guy -- in a random public setting -- that led to at least chatting? Have you seen a signal that led you to eventually say "Hello"?

Have you thought about the potential clients that already live outside the city? They might be happy to find a provider that doesn't require them to travel into the city.

You may already know this, but just in case ... be sure your new place has plenty of ground/grass for the dogs. And also be careful taking them on walks. The asphalt especially (not sure of concrete) can get so hot, it can produce serious burns on their paws. If in doubt, remove your own shoes; if it is too hot for your own feet, it's too hot for their paws.

Wait a minute... How did you find him? What service is he paying to advertise on? He must have a cel phone, at least. More monthly expenses. When he arrived, were his clothes clean? Was he clean, freshly showered? Did he bring lube/protection? (You don't have to answer this one if too personal for what you did with him.) The answers to these types of questions may reveal a bit more about how helpless/homeless he really is, or isn't.

So, must dancers stay on the bar? No lap dances, etc? Also, do dancers ever get tips that include a phone number, for a potential "hire" with the customer at some later time/place? For that matter, if a customer slipped you his number with a tip, would you call it?

Vancouver? BC, not WA? Please elaborate... what is there?