SometimesBi

If your overnight was an incall (or other location from yours), how'd he know where your B&B was?

Getting back on topic... I don't have tattoos, and I would never get any myself. And yet, I find myself enjoying seeing the art on other guys. So much so, that when I'm shopping for a pro, the presence of a few tats can be the tipping point if I can't otherwise decide between two providers. But I agree 100% with others ... none on the face.

Preface to this question: Yes, we all understand that even with all sorts of vaccines and PrEP-arations, bareback does have risks. Thus I'm asking that this thread NOT become JUST a safety discussion. Treat this question as theoretical if that helps. 😏 Ok, here's the question/scenario. Primarily this is aimed at professional Tops who most frequently use protection (but not 100%). Though, others I'm sure will chime in. A bottom client hires you, and expects you to top him. However, when you arrive, you see this guy is [ugly/fat/glasses/very_old/etc... whatever fits for you]. For this case, let's say that he is at least clean (not stinky). You realize that it's going to be tough to get hard, stay aroused, perform because of his appearance. But then, this guy invites you to go bare. Would such an offer help? Would you find it easier to perform with the guy? Or, is there no overcoming unattractiveness?

Too bad you didn't use PayPal Good&Services. Otherwise PayPal would have returned your money.

Thank you for saying that. I am far more satisfied bottoming for average sized pro tops. It allows me to use the muscles to do some periodic squeezing and tightening to improve his pleasure. (Large dicks just stretch me open, and I'm unable to clench/squeeze at all).

Late questions: What if a newer provider doesn't yet have a review? So someone posts the typical 411 for them. Later, a review happens. Is it still merged? If so, would the older 411 posts come before the master post review details? Or could you 'fake' the master post's date to be at the beginning of time, thereby ensuring it is always the first post in the merged thread?

Alright, so we all see in the ads "...you are paying for my time only..." So this got me thinking... have you ever been hires for just that ... your time? I'm not talking about the 'date/boyfriend' experience, going out to eat, a movie or play, because that still ends in sex. I'm asking if someone ever hired you for more mundane tasks/time. Maybe to help paint the house? Or help load up the Uhaul? Perhaps sit at a table playing board games? No, not naked. Not leading to sex. Just paying for your time, and that's it. I expect the answers will be ... no, never happens. But stranger things can happen, so why not ask. There might be some surprising tales to tell.

Interesting you mentioned this. I enjoy sometimes just browsing the pros on one of the hookup sites (A4A). Even just a year or two ago, there was a page+ of pros in my area (Seattle). But today, barely 2 or 3. 😥

Oh, one more request, but it might not be allowable except in a members only area -- during the session, did they cum? 😉 There are many providers that won't. It would be nice to know ahead of time.

I was going to request "Tattoos" myself, but just saw it mentioned a couple posts up. Regarding age verification: What if in the Review portion, the submitter put in the Perceived Age? Maybe just a menu of age decades (20s, 30s, 40s, etc). Then some aggregate data shown could become an informal age verification. Naturally, that aggregation would have to compensate for a review 20 years ago that said they looked like they were in their 30s. 😁

Just read this entire topic, and this comment is what I was thinking about for the 300 vs 150 topic. I'm a client. I'm also just a bottom. I've hired a few escorts over the years. I've also had a few random hookups. What gives me pause at paying 300 (or even 200 for that matter) is that with a random hookup with a top, he's going to cum. Hopefully in my ass, but one way or another, he's getting off. As a bottom, that's what I like. Being part of that moment, sharing that orgasm time with him. No, not me simultaneously, just being able to watch and share him in his moment of climax. I may or may not cum after him. When I've hired an escort, I rarely get that experience. Too many are stuck in the mode of just getting the client off. But I would easily trade my climax for his. Instead, I get faked Os. And I can tell ... either with no dick pulses/spasms inside me, or he pulls out with the condom as empty as it was going in. 😥 I'm reminded of the saying "why buy the cow when the milk is free". Because a random hookup is more satisfying than a professional? And that feels backwards. If I could be guaranteed to get an orgasm out of the provider, I'd happily pay up to 300. But of course we can't talk about that ahead of time, because the money is only for his time, etc. And he probably does have to save himself for the next client. So if I'm not going to get that experience, I just as well hire for just a massage, at half the cost. Meaning, I'm paying 150, not 300, for time with a hot guy. Please note: I realize I'm probably in the minority here. Most clients are probably happy to just get off. Certainly client tops are. But maybe providers that advertise as tops, who get a client that is a bottom, might think about who would be expected to cum?? Maybe providers should have different rates if they are taking the role of top, or of bottom?

I would imagine that every moving job would require 2-3 guys. Even if there was one good looking hunk, he too might be closeted. So it could be difficult to flirt, and get him to flirt back, with his buddies all around.

A favorite travel destination for me is Las Vegas. But it's been years since a solo trip there... so haven't recently seen who/what is available there. Anyone have thoughts on the current gay scene there?

I gotta believe most bottoms, or prospective bottoms, have wondered about this question. What is the best way to prepare to bottom... Actually, no, let's NOT ask that question, because I suspect the answers will all tend towards enemas being "best". (Indeed, I already reviewed a recent topic here about if guys thought it too dirty to be a bottom, etc). Also, full disclosure, I enjoy a good enema, but that's a different discussion for a different thread. The Question to the bottoms out there: Are you able to prepare naturally, without the need of an enema? Or, can you only get ready with the use of one? Now my story... I don't get to enjoy a hookup with another man very often. When I do, it's 50% random hookup, 50% hired escort. I think I maybe had 20-30 encounters in the 30 years since first exploring gay sex. In all those times, I have prepared myself naturally. Indeed, one escort complimented on how clean I was... if he only knew... 😁 Natural, all times... but one... an escort who insisted on a cleaning first, who handed me a Fleet enema, and sent me to the bathroom. Well, I knew better than to get those chemicals churning inside me, but wanted to do as he said. So I dumped the contents, rinsed, and used plain water to clean out. Well, my body still took that hint of water as a signal to do more, and 15 minutes later it became the most messy sex I've ever had with a guy. Should've kept to my natural emptiness. So, what works best for you?

Thanks. I swear that magnifying glass wasn't there when I looked a couple hours ago... but my phone/browser has been finicky before (earlier I couldn't navigate backwards a page), so maybe coming to it via the home page was what I needed to clear things up.

Just checked his profile. His list of what he is into is ... very short. And he does not list "Escort" under services provided. It sounds like asking for too much money, for too little services. Just a massage should be half that. Personally, I would go elsewhere.

For the record, the odds are actually a bit better than 1 in 300million. Still gonna get struck by lightning a dozen times before winning, but I still play when there are big jackpots. 😁 Back to the OP, I won $100 on a $5 scratch a few years ago. But biggest percentage win was at a bingo hall, where I won $300 on a 50-cents pulltab.

Fairly new here, so might have missed something. I went to The Deli to see what I could find for local providers (Seattle area). I see there are 1440 PAGES of topics. 😲 And, at least on my phone, I cannot see a search button. Please tell me I just missed it... 🤔

Not sure why, but this clinical description just makes me smile 😊 ☺ 😄 😁

I have never been on a cruise, but recently have been thinking about doing a local-ish West Coast cruise to Alaska. I'm curious for those of you that go on cruises (not singles/gay specific, just ordinary cruise), have you had much luck finding a random hookup or two with guys? Me: I'm married, and any cruise would be both of us. So that adds an extra challenge for me to discreetly find a guy, and a place to play, in the limited confines of a cruise ship. How have you overcome this?