TBD

I do find it funny that you mention communication to be the issue (and not basic cleanliness), but also how upset you are by what appears to me to have been a pretty rudimentary and communicative description of every shower I have ever had in my life. Do people not shower this way? 

I was actually really turned on by it. I reached out to him when I was in Dallas for work but schedules didn't align. 

i don't know about the race element but i can say when it comes to porn stars that i follow (mostly tops) when i see them do a bottom video it does make me not like them as much.  With the bottoms that i follow when i see them top it doesn't give me the ick in the same way.  
probably internal misogyny going on there. 

I was actually really turned on by it. I reached out to him when I was in Dallas for work but schedules didn't align. 

Not cowardly, and exactly the correct and safe and SMARTEST way to extract yourself from this situation. 
 
Two things - #1. Don't hire provide who list that they are involved with PNP. 
and #2 - while it is indeed a sad situation, it is not your problem to fix him, but it is best that you leave a review here to warn others of your experience. It is not unfair to help others not be in this situation as well. 
You yourself may have benefited from others leaving warnings of this kind of danger. Pay it forward. 
And what to do when they show up high? exactly what you did do. The only other thing you can do is make sure it doesn't happen to someone else.
Wait a few weeks if you don't want to leave a review that he can trace back to you. 

Ok so leave the bad review on that guys thread - not NewYorkErms. 

i have hired guys and i have wanted them to just lay there and let me blow them.  They seem to like it as much as i do. they always cum. 

i have hired guys and i have wanted them to just lay there and let me blow them.  They seem to like it as much as i do. they always cum. 

If you chatted and didn't feel he is the right fit for you, thats one thing. But I feel it is unfair to say to people that you do not recommend they see him when you yourself haven't even seen him.  Every person that looks the guy up now will see your post that they should avoid him. 
It's like leaving a bad yelp review for a restaurant you have never eaten at but you don't like the menu. 

Ok so leave the bad review on that guys thread - not NewYorkErms. 

If you chatted and didn't feel he is the right fit for you, thats one thing. But I feel it is unfair to say to people that you do not recommend they see him when you yourself haven't even seen him.  Every person that looks the guy up now will see your post that they should avoid him. 
It's like leaving a bad yelp review for a restaurant you have never eaten at but you don't like the menu. 

If you chatted and didn't feel he is the right fit for you, thats one thing. But I feel it is unfair to say to people that you do not recommend they see him when you yourself haven't even seen him.  Every person that looks the guy up now will see your post that they should avoid him. 
It's like leaving a bad yelp review for a restaurant you have never eaten at but you don't like the menu. 

If you chatted and didn't feel he is the right fit for you, thats one thing. But I feel it is unfair to say to people that you do not recommend they see him when you yourself haven't even seen him.  Every person that looks the guy up now will see your post that they should avoid him. 
It's like leaving a bad yelp review for a restaurant you have never eaten at but you don't like the menu. 

If you chatted and didn't feel he is the right fit for you, thats one thing. But I feel it is unfair to say to people that you do not recommend they see him when you yourself haven't even seen him.  Every person that looks the guy up now will see your post that they should avoid him. 
It's like leaving a bad yelp review for a restaurant you have never eaten at but you don't like the menu. 

If you chatted and didn't feel he is the right fit for you, thats one thing. But I feel it is unfair to say to people that you do not recommend they see him when you yourself haven't even seen him.  Every person that looks the guy up now will see your post that they should avoid him. 
It's like leaving a bad yelp review for a restaurant you have never eaten at but you don't like the menu. 

welcome to the forum......be aware that this forum can be skeptical toward new one-post wonders posting breathless (and racist?) reviews in resurrected threads......
 
"My, what big superlatives you have"

 
 
 

Is it possible that either something in your texts makes him decide not to reply to you (not suggesting you're doing anything "wrong" necessarily but there could be all sorts of reasons why an escort might choose not to reply to certain prospective clients) or he was simply already busy when you texted?  I understand the frustration in not hearing back from someone you're interested in, but I don't think I would count a lack of response a "red flag."

I made this amount just to tell this story because I've been sitting on it for two days. One of the most traumatizing experience in the 10 years I've been hiring. 
I used to be on this site a while ago and have just been reading reviews and not commenting on anything. Tonight I needed to get this off my chest because I was traumatized by a provider to the point where I may not want to hire again. 
I live in Cleveland, Ohio. Not many choices here. I booked this escort from the site and we decided to meet at the local bathhouse that I've never been to. I went to one a few decades ago that made me uncomfortable so I never tried to go back to one. 
I booked the provider and got to the bathhouse. We began talking and I told him I was a bit uncomfortable. He got a room the size of a closet with two benches. I asked him if we could move to a room with a bed and I should be more comfortable.   We did. I paid for the room.  $26. Not much,  no big deal.  He asks for his small fee. We agreed on $200.  I hate paying before the service but it seems like that's what providers are doing these days,  especially if you don't give them a deposit, which i didn't. We agreed that I would send it through venmo as a business transaction so if things go wrong,  I can protect myself. I would never try to reverse a payment after a booking of we already spent the time together. He agreed.
We kept talking, I kept being visibly uncomfortable. He said after all this he thinks we should call his friend to come over for a threesome. I said I'm not comfortable right now so bringing another stranger into the room would make me more so. We ended up not bringing in his friend. 
The bathhouse has strict no street clothes rules and cell phones have to stay in the locker. He had his phone,  I had mine. He had his street clothes,  mine were in my locker. This became a red flag to me. He tried to leave to smoke a cigarette right after I paid him. When he left the room I texted him saying I was uncomfortable and I wanted to leave. He came back in and said I was wasting his time. (MY time, it actually was.)
He started saying he was a police officer and his cousin downstairs was a police officer as well. This added to me being uncomfortable. I started to panic. I've never felt this way with a provider before and I was thinking of shit, what did I get myself into. I was waiting for him to show me a badge and I waited for more police to come in and arrest me for paying for sex. Nothing. I told him I wanted to go but I was scared police were downstairs. I've heard of stings and I thought this was one. More panic. He walked me downstairs and I called myself an Uber and it was the longest 8 minutes I've waited for an uber. I was super aware of my surroundings and watched to see if police were coming. I got in the Uber, terrified this was it. I ran into my apartment and called a friend, panicking that I had screwed up. 
The provider kept texting me, taunting me and I stopped engaging, took sleeping pills and went to bed. He messaged me today and I told him how I felt. And I'm not engaging with him anymore.
He had me blocked on the site so I can't leave a review. I had emailed the site and they haven't responded yet,  which is weird because in the past they would respond within 24 hours. I think hours profile should be removed. 
Do you all ever get this nervous that you may be hiring an undercover police officer? I've had some bad (and great experiences) with providers but this was the worst one I've had. I have text messages of him taunting me. I'd post them but he texted some sensitive information about me (that you can Google).

Thank you all for your feedback. I see that some people will always find fault in the client seeking a service and when it becomes (my) traumatic experience,  this wasn't the place to post it. 

i don't know about the race element but i can say when it comes to porn stars that i follow (mostly tops) when i see them do a bottom video it does make me not like them as much.  With the bottoms that i follow when i see them top it doesn't give me the ick in the same way.  
probably internal misogyny going on there. 

i don't know about the race element but i can say when it comes to porn stars that i follow (mostly tops) when i see them do a bottom video it does make me not like them as much.  With the bottoms that i follow when i see them top it doesn't give me the ick in the same way.  
probably internal misogyny going on there. 

i don't know about the race element but i can say when it comes to porn stars that i follow (mostly tops) when i see them do a bottom video it does make me not like them as much.  With the bottoms that i follow when i see them top it doesn't give me the ick in the same way.  
probably internal misogyny going on there. 

I think you will find high end services can be provided by guys you find in Rentmen. You may need to look to make sure they are educated and perhaps in late 20s early 30s as a starting point. But I have seen providers that have degrees, well traveled and you could take them to any event and they would fit in. 
What do you think is 'high end' service? 

I agree posting private conversations is in really poor taste.  very disrespectful behavior.  very shameful behavior my friend. 
If you don't like a providers terms- move on! 

For some reason for me, hideme just keeps showing me the login in page where you chose rentmen.eu or rent.men. It doesn't matter which one i pick it just reloads to the same rentmen/rent.men choice