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As someone who waited too long and whose first experience was not paid, I think I'd have been better off going the provider route. To put it bluntly, people at the bars aren't looking for a project for the most part. I think it's better to get the monkey off your back and then decide if you want to get in the dating scene. I second the suggestion of starting with massage just to get used to being touched.

Excellent massage, strictly therapeutic but also, not shy about working your glutes or whatever.  He's never going to cross the line IMO but as a technical masseur he's the best of them.
 

When it's your job to remember things the physical structures in your brain do change. A cab driver in London(where they are or at least were required to know the entire map of London) will have  significantly larger hippocampus than the average person. The process of studying actually causes this change.

When it's your job to remember things the physical structures in your brain do change. A cab driver in London(where they are or at least were required to know the entire map of London) will have  significantly larger hippocampus than the average person. The process of studying actually causes this change.

When it's your job to remember things the physical structures in your brain do change. A cab driver in London(where they are or at least were required to know the entire map of London) will have  significantly larger hippocampus than the average person. The process of studying actually causes this change.

I don't think any of the rub and tugs in NJ have men available. 

The fact he's asking for client stats/description fairly screams it's going to be a YMMV experience and reviews are likely of limited use.

3 month update...lost about 30 lbs so far still got 60-80 to go, and my bloodwork is ALL normal to fantastic for the first time in decades. Cholesterol 150, A1c 4.9, etc. Even my liver enzymes are in normal range.

The fact he's asking for client stats/description fairly screams it's going to be a YMMV experience and reviews are likely of limited use.

There's a selection bias in stats on coupled gay men's finances in that part of the reason they are "out" and in the data is they can afford to be, while straight data includes everyone.  I definitely delayed coming out until I felt financially secure that even if I lost my job over it I would find another one etc. And I know a lot of single gay fiscal trainwrecks.

Tylenol is a little unusual in that the toxic dose is a relatively low multiple of the therapeutic dose. Like if you forget that you already took your advil and take a second or even third dose you're not very likely to have a problem, but you could get into trouble with Tylenol. In some coutries they mandate it be sold in blister-packs rather than bottles to reduce the accidental OD risk.

Tylenol is a little unusual in that the toxic dose is a relatively low multiple of the therapeutic dose. Like if you forget that you already took your advil and take a second or even third dose you're not very likely to have a problem, but you could get into trouble with Tylenol. In some coutries they mandate it be sold in blister-packs rather than bottles to reduce the accidental OD risk.

It's the age old problem of corporations chasing perpetual growth in ROI rather than a steady profit. At some point you hit the limit of what you can squeeze out of the customer before they sour on your product. I used to go 5-6 times a year and now it's 2-3 and the last few times, if it weren't for the fact I was meeting friends, I would not have cared for the experience.
What's sort of interesting is I think the high-end food places are doing better, because they haven't raised their prices by the same percentage. So the gap between the food court and the steakhouse is smaller.

You can see that Michaelg pic in his rentmasseur ad. 

That part, as I said, was clearly over the line and OP is right to be upset 
The others are very context dependent. And when the context in question is a clothing optional establishment where public sex is, at a minimum, not condemned, I'd say some light otherwise inappropriate touching is somewhat expected if not hoped for by many, and a "No, thank you" is a more appropriate response to an unwanted butt squeeze than "Well, I never! You ...you masher!"
 
 

He's a grandfather now. As most grandfathers go, he's hot.
Time comes for us all.

He's a grandfather now. As most grandfathers go, he's hot.
Time comes for us all.

He's a grandfather now. As most grandfathers go, he's hot.
Time comes for us all.

3 month update...lost about 30 lbs so far still got 60-80 to go, and my bloodwork is ALL normal to fantastic for the first time in decades. Cholesterol 150, A1c 4.9, etc. Even my liver enzymes are in normal range.

There's a selection bias in stats on coupled gay men's finances in that part of the reason they are "out" and in the data is they can afford to be, while straight data includes everyone.  I definitely delayed coming out until I felt financially secure that even if I lost my job over it I would find another one etc. And I know a lot of single gay fiscal trainwrecks.

It's also harder to see color in low light...

3 month update...lost about 30 lbs so far still got 60-80 to go, and my bloodwork is ALL normal to fantastic for the first time in decades. Cholesterol 150, A1c 4.9, etc. Even my liver enzymes are in normal range.

It's the age old problem of corporations chasing perpetual growth in ROI rather than a steady profit. At some point you hit the limit of what you can squeeze out of the customer before they sour on your product. I used to go 5-6 times a year and now it's 2-3 and the last few times, if it weren't for the fact I was meeting friends, I would not have cared for the experience.
What's sort of interesting is I think the high-end food places are doing better, because they haven't raised their prices by the same percentage. So the gap between the food court and the steakhouse is smaller.

It's the age old problem of corporations chasing perpetual growth in ROI rather than a steady profit. At some point you hit the limit of what you can squeeze out of the customer before they sour on your product. I used to go 5-6 times a year and now it's 2-3 and the last few times, if it weren't for the fact I was meeting friends, I would not have cared for the experience.
What's sort of interesting is I think the high-end food places are doing better, because they haven't raised their prices by the same percentage. So the gap between the food court and the steakhouse is smaller.

It's the age old problem of corporations chasing perpetual growth in ROI rather than a steady profit. At some point you hit the limit of what you can squeeze out of the customer before they sour on your product. I used to go 5-6 times a year and now it's 2-3 and the last few times, if it weren't for the fact I was meeting friends, I would not have cared for the experience.
What's sort of interesting is I think the high-end food places are doing better, because they haven't raised their prices by the same percentage. So the gap between the food court and the steakhouse is smaller.