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Several times I have resisted the urge to say, "Honey, it's Equinox, nobody here is looking at the girls."

Several times I have resisted the urge to say, "Honey, it's Equinox, nobody here is looking at the girls."

It is kind of funny they're all sending each other dick pics but are afraid to change in front of each other.

I see more downside than upside here ...i.e. either you kill the fantasy for yourself or you make him upset that "you don't believe him."  Ultimately this is an acting gig you've hired him for, best not to pay too much attention to the man behind the curtain. This isn't Pretty Woman and you're not gonna marry him. Let it be.

Pretty sure I can't legally acquire information from Dun and Bradstreet on an individual without their consent.

Those net worth websites have a pretty large margin of error. They tend to add up reported earnings and make no allowance for their expenses. Half of their gross earnings go to taxes and their agents/managers. And a y properties thry have obviously need to be maintained.
There's a C-list actor who goes to my gym. He's been in recurring roles on a number of shows and is almost always working, but streaming has killed residuals, as far as I can tell he's just living an upper-middle class life in the burbs with a stay at home wife and kids. His net worth is less than $500k on one site and $3 million on another. I could believe either figure.

The bootcamp type gyms both generally allow it and tend to be frequented by guys you might actually like to see shirtless. I walked past Solace New York the other night and I had to make a conscious effor not to linger.

I see more downside than upside here ...i.e. either you kill the fantasy for yourself or you make him upset that "you don't believe him."  Ultimately this is an acting gig you've hired him for, best not to pay too much attention to the man behind the curtain. This isn't Pretty Woman and you're not gonna marry him. Let it be.

Went off my BP medication.

Those net worth websites have a pretty large margin of error. They tend to add up reported earnings and make no allowance for their expenses. Half of their gross earnings go to taxes and their agents/managers. And a y properties thry have obviously need to be maintained.
There's a C-list actor who goes to my gym. He's been in recurring roles on a number of shows and is almost always working, but streaming has killed residuals, as far as I can tell he's just living an upper-middle class life in the burbs with a stay at home wife and kids. His net worth is less than $500k on one site and $3 million on another. I could believe either figure.

I think to quite a lot of them it's just basically assisted masturbation, so they don't even really view it as sex. It feels good, so they do it, they aren't, say, looking at the guy and getting spontaneously turned on by the sight of him. It's more that they're horny and the other guy is there. And this is how so many gay boys get their hearts broken.

The bootcamp type gyms both generally allow it and tend to be frequented by guys you might actually like to see shirtless. I walked past Solace New York the other night and I had to make a conscious effor not to linger.

To be fair, when the internet first came out there were a bunch of pervs who made hidden cam locker room videos in university gyms, recorded wrestling weighins, etc and put it all out there without people's consent. That wasn't something our generation had to worry about. Most of that stuff got shut down, but the fear remains. I'm fine being naked in the locker room, but I admit I'd be mortified if footage of me leaked out. When that influencer got banned for her locker room selfie where she shamed a fat woman behind her, i cringed. 
But basically "locker room predator scare" is the current "razor blades in Halloween candy" fear that persists despite not really being a thing. But stupid gym bros on TikTok keep it alive.

Its what ticks me off about the women who work out on backless unitards

To be fair, when the internet first came out there were a bunch of pervs who made hidden cam locker room videos in university gyms, recorded wrestling weighins, etc and put it all out there without people's consent. That wasn't something our generation had to worry about. Most of that stuff got shut down, but the fear remains. I'm fine being naked in the locker room, but I admit I'd be mortified if footage of me leaked out. When that influencer got banned for her locker room selfie where she shamed a fat woman behind her, i cringed. 
But basically "locker room predator scare" is the current "razor blades in Halloween candy" fear that persists despite not really being a thing. But stupid gym bros on TikTok keep it alive.

I think to quite a lot of them it's just basically assisted masturbation, so they don't even really view it as sex. It feels good, so they do it, they aren't, say, looking at the guy and getting spontaneously turned on by the sight of him. It's more that they're horny and the other guy is there. And this is how so many gay boys get their hearts broken.

I think to quite a lot of them it's just basically assisted masturbation, so they don't even really view it as sex. It feels good, so they do it, they aren't, say, looking at the guy and getting spontaneously turned on by the sight of him. It's more that they're horny and the other guy is there. And this is how so many gay boys get their hearts broken.

To be fair, when the internet first came out there were a bunch of pervs who made hidden cam locker room videos in university gyms, recorded wrestling weighins, etc and put it all out there without people's consent. That wasn't something our generation had to worry about. Most of that stuff got shut down, but the fear remains. I'm fine being naked in the locker room, but I admit I'd be mortified if footage of me leaked out. When that influencer got banned for her locker room selfie where she shamed a fat woman behind her, i cringed. 
But basically "locker room predator scare" is the current "razor blades in Halloween candy" fear that persists despite not really being a thing. But stupid gym bros on TikTok keep it alive.

I think to quite a lot of them it's just basically assisted masturbation, so they don't even really view it as sex. It feels good, so they do it, they aren't, say, looking at the guy and getting spontaneously turned on by the sight of him. It's more that they're horny and the other guy is there. And this is how so many gay boys get their hearts broken.

I think to quite a lot of them it's just basically assisted masturbation, so they don't even really view it as sex. It feels good, so they do it, they aren't, say, looking at the guy and getting spontaneously turned on by the sight of him. It's more that they're horny and the other guy is there. And this is how so many gay boys get their hearts broken.

Its what ticks me off about the women who work out on backless unitards

To be fair, when the internet first came out there were a bunch of pervs who made hidden cam locker room videos in university gyms, recorded wrestling weighins, etc and put it all out there without people's consent. That wasn't something our generation had to worry about. Most of that stuff got shut down, but the fear remains. I'm fine being naked in the locker room, but I admit I'd be mortified if footage of me leaked out. When that influencer got banned for her locker room selfie where she shamed a fat woman behind her, i cringed. 
But basically "locker room predator scare" is the current "razor blades in Halloween candy" fear that persists despite not really being a thing. But stupid gym bros on TikTok keep it alive.

To be fair, when the internet first came out there were a bunch of pervs who made hidden cam locker room videos in university gyms, recorded wrestling weighins, etc and put it all out there without people's consent. That wasn't something our generation had to worry about. Most of that stuff got shut down, but the fear remains. I'm fine being naked in the locker room, but I admit I'd be mortified if footage of me leaked out. When that influencer got banned for her locker room selfie where she shamed a fat woman behind her, i cringed. 
But basically "locker room predator scare" is the current "razor blades in Halloween candy" fear that persists despite not really being a thing. But stupid gym bros on TikTok keep it alive.

I imagine he was working very hard not to give out any signs. I know I was in HS/college. We are the age cohort that is probably the most fucked up about being gay...most of us figured it out just as it seemed everyone who was was getting a fatal incurable disease.
How old was he when this happened?

I imagine he was working very hard not to give out any signs. I know I was in HS/college. We are the age cohort that is probably the most fucked up about being gay...most of us figured it out just as it seemed everyone who was was getting a fatal incurable disease.
How old was he when this happened?