John

I liked the e-mail feature because they I could manage the conversation through a dedicated e-mail account that I only accessed by logging in on line. If I sent a simple SMS, then my phone number was floating around out there and I had the potential problem of my phone announcing a message at an inopportune moment.
I would give out my number once a date was set, but not before.
I may simply stop using RM. Fortunately most of my hiring is done outside of the US through Planet Romeo.

I liked the e-mail feature because they I could manage the conversation through a dedicated e-mail account that I only accessed by logging in on line. If I sent a simple SMS, then my phone number was floating around out there and I had the potential problem of my phone announcing a message at an inopportune moment.
I would give out my number once a date was set, but not before.
I may simply stop using RM. Fortunately most of my hiring is done outside of the US through Planet Romeo.

I would never hire an escort who used the name jacktheripper.

I would never hire an escort who used the name jacktheripper.

Maybe we should just read what Peter Hung and Benjamin Nicholas have said and leave it alone.
 
-- The OP said that he had made his expectations clear in advance.
-- From where I sit, for the client to expect the escort to make the first move is not unwarranted. One thing I pay for is the illusion of being desired.

I’d give middling grades then and now. There were more smooth guys but they often were tweezed and shaved but not enough to camouflage this not being natural, not to mention the stubble burn. There are a ton more guys on the market, but there always have been plenty of marginal, misrepresenting, and/or disorganized guys. And more guys means more flakes. It also means many more choices in cities that had fewer than a handful of guys even 5 years ago. There were plenty of no shows and flakes in the old days. You could still get not great experiences from even well reviewed guys. Some of the posters on the other thread had relied on now-retired regulars and, probably forget how flaky random hires can be. The tats, including fairly random collections of tats have been common for over a decade. Providers change but so do clients and almost no one on the other thread (and I suspect this one) will really own that.

Maybe we should just read what Peter Hung and Benjamin Nicholas have said and leave it alone.
 
-- The OP said that he had made his expectations clear in advance.
-- From where I sit, for the client to expect the escort to make the first move is not unwarranted. One thing I pay for is the illusion of being desired.

Maybe we should just read what Peter Hung and Benjamin Nicholas have said and leave it alone.
 
-- The OP said that he had made his expectations clear in advance.
-- From where I sit, for the client to expect the escort to make the first move is not unwarranted. One thing I pay for is the illusion of being desired.

Yesterday a post here reported a story about an escort who showed up for a BFE and provided no intimacy. The author used this phrase rather than the excort's nick, and one of the reponders invited a PM in order to check whether they were conned by the same guy.
 
Can't understand this!
Why are you keeping secrets?
Please share nicks, so we'll know whom to avoid!!
 
The aim of this forum is to share not only complimentary referrals but also warnings.
Do both gentelmen want others to go through they same ordeal, allowing this dishonest escort to continue swindling?
Enough with the over-consideration and PC carefulenss!
By taking pity on the bad guys, you're punishing the good guys.

What a sad story. He sounds like a creep and a con artist. I am sorry you were victimized, but he is not the only one and you are not alone.

What a sad story. He sounds like a creep and a con artist. I am sorry you were victimized, but he is not the only one and you are not alone.

What a sad story. He sounds like a creep and a con artist. I am sorry you were victimized, but he is not the only one and you are not alone.

What a sad story. He sounds like a creep and a con artist. I am sorry you were victimized, but he is not the only one and you are not alone.

For me, at least, anal muscles are controlled by the brain. If you feel comfortable with your partner and trust him it will be easier to relax. A bit of conversation, some smiles, a laugh. For me kissing is also important. Tell yourself to relax, to go with the flow, to enjoy this hot man. It's a little like peeing: nothing comes unless you tell the bladder to open up. The ass won't loosen until you tell it too. Manipulation, teasing, and rimming help like massaging a tight muscle, but they also tell you that your partner doesn't want to hurt you, knows what he is doing, and most importantly, that you are safe.
 
An experienced top with a big dick should understand this, but there are plenty who approach a bottom like they are fucking the Lincoln Tunnel. I have even found that some Spanish and Latin American guys fuck like they are excavating for a swimming pool. These I have to remind that my internal organs are fine where they are and do not need rearranged.
 
And also, a man I knew many years ago who had more experience than most said, "sometimes the little ones hurt more because they poke you, but you can just ride a big one."

On RM he's 22, and on masseurfinder he has 7 years experience. But I like it that he smiles.

On RM he's 22, and on masseurfinder he has 7 years experience. But I like it that he smiles.

I don't mind sending a pic. Clients pick escorts; escorts pick clients. It seems natural to want to see what the other looks like. When someone cares what I look like, then I think I may be in for a more human encounter.
 
It is also true that I don't think I have ever been asked for a pic in the US. Most of my hiring is in Europe and through GayRomeo. I have a picture in my profil and many escorts state in theirs that they require a pick of the client.

I went looking as the pictures are familiar:
parisboy20 on Hunqs on Planet Romeo looks similar.

They like 300/hour in Miami too. If you go to a town with a lot of providers, you will find more great ones but also more dross. I bet there are smaller cities with a few really good guys, but I don't know which.

I hire extensively in Europe and use PlanetRomeo/Hunqz exclusively. Yes, some PR guys are on RentMen too, but they charge more on RentMen because they can get free-spending Americans who don't know local rates.

I didn't make it past the first sentence of the review. I only made it two or three sentences into the long entry above. I applaud people trying to play with style and form, but this exercise didn't work for me. That doesn't say that the writer is bad, just that for me this effort failed.

I didn't make it past the first sentence of the review. I only made it two or three sentences into the long entry above. I applaud people trying to play with style and form, but this exercise didn't work for me. That doesn't say that the writer is bad, just that for me this effort failed.

They like 300/hour in Miami too. If you go to a town with a lot of providers, you will find more great ones but also more dross. I bet there are smaller cities with a few really good guys, but I don't know which.

I didn't make it past the first sentence of the review. I only made it two or three sentences into the long entry above. I applaud people trying to play with style and form, but this exercise didn't work for me. That doesn't say that the writer is bad, just that for me this effort failed.

I didn't make it past the first sentence of the review. I only made it two or three sentences into the long entry above. I applaud people trying to play with style and form, but this exercise didn't work for me. That doesn't say that the writer is bad, just that for me this effort failed.