DunwoodyGuy

What was the drug?

He "forgot his cocaine"? That sounds unlikely. Did he say what the "other drug" was?

Great responses in this thread--I hope you take them to heart. And speaking of hearts, how about considering changing your screen name from "bigfattie" to "BigHeart"?

I think you misunderstood--he wasn't suggesting a vodka-soda.

I don't get out of sorts about sex practices a person might enjoy that I don't. But this was not sex--this was DRUGS. Surely even you can see the difference.

Possibly in a PM, by request. I don't believe we should use Company of Men public forums for "revenge posts."

A few months ago, I transfered a little money from my checking account into Coinbase and converted the cash into Bitcoin. It all seems very safe and above board. I never thought I'd have anything to do with crypto, but I guess it's 2026. Never say never.

The really annoying thing about this particular request for a deposit (which I never do) is that his ad had expired, and I had just paid the $30 or whatever to reinstate his profile. Then he asks me for a deposit! (And offers drugs...)

I was really, really into him, but then he sent his "Booking Guidelines," which included this: "First-time meetings may require verification or deposit (10-20%)" And then this: "Happy to procure most substances you would like to indulge and/or cut loose with." I had to walk away. Would you have too?

Of course some people like to share...

Seems to have blocked me. Not sure why.

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When you're thinking about hiring a provider and you see PNP in his description, there is no doubt: In that context, it absolutely positively means one thing and one thing only: Chem sex that is based around the use of crystal meth and can include other chemical substances. Unless you're already a user, it's a terrible way to throw away your money. The PNP'er may be charming at first, but he is invariably going to turn out to be selfish, self-centered, and self-destructive--and 100% toxic. The only thing to do to protect your wallet and your sanity and your physical and mental health: STAY AWAY. If he claims that it means that he doesn't do Tina himself, but he doesn't mind if others do, stay even further away. He's bad news and he's only going to turn out to be even worse news for you. And if by any chance he doesn't know that PNP=Tina in the gay world, then he's too naive to be in this line of work and would undoubtedly be a lousy lay. And if anyone is triggered by what I just wrote, feel free to call the CMA Helpline at: (855) METH-FREE (855) 638-4373

Mixed messages are always Red Flag #1.

Can I ask what kind of devices?

Brilliantly said.

Well, that's certainly an "oops"!

I posted his RentMasseur link on the Spa page, but since he also has a RentMen, I'll post that one here. Anyone have any experience with this delicious-looking acrobat? https://rent.men/Andre_X (Also, why are the links no longer showing the picture at the link to the page?)

Or, to quote Taylor Swift, "It's me, hi. I'm the problem, it's me."

He's on RentMen too. Maybe I should have posted this in the Deli section. https://rent.men/Andre_X

I just left him this message: "Hey handsome! Which of your pictures are real and which are fake?"

I never negotiate down. I consider it disrespectful. All freelancers, not only masseurs, are entitled to set their rates. If the rate is too high for you, politely decline. In this case, you should have respected his rate and, if all went well, perhaps made a suggestion about a combined rate on a possible return visit. But the minute you say, "That's too much--will you accept less?"--you have insulted him and possibly attacked his self-esteem.

I might have. How much is the deposit?

I did a search but nothing came up. Anyone have any experience with this delicious acrobatic morsel? https://rentmasseur.com/AndreX

If things have progressed to where his dick is in my mouth, I will manage to stop for a moment and say "Do you want to cum"? If he says yes, I take it as a big compliment and try and be as good to his dick as he's been to mine. If his dick is in my ass (which is rare, because I'm very tight, which is why I hire erotic masseurs and not escorts), I let him stay in charge and decide for himself if he wants to cum. No matter what, if a masseur cums with me, I do my best to show my appreciation. I know he may have other clients or even boundaries that he may be deciding on the spot to go beyond. The rate we agreed on for the erotic massage includes ONLY him making me cum. Anything beyond that I consider extra--and a wonderful surprise. And so, if it DOES go beyond that, I always tip accordingly. I always, always, always tip for extras. I would never want to be remembered as the guy who got the extras and didn't tip.