DunwoodyGuy

His name used to be "dancingking"

It's a scientifically unanswerable question because there's very little research into the correlation--there are no corporations funding the research and of course the government has no interest in funding it. Plus any studies would have to look at the difference between the effect of cannabis itself vs. the effect of smoking it. All that said, the most likely answer seems to be that marijuana USE is unlikely to affect erectile dysfunction--but marijuana OVERUSE probably does. So all you have to do is figure out whether your provider is "using" weed or "overusing" weed.

He seems to have a short fuse. When I asked him about how erotic the massage got, he called me a "fa*got" and when I called him on it, he said "I call everyone a fa*got you must of wasted my time" I didn't react well.

He says in his RentMen interview that he's based in Barcelona, and he told me in a chat that he's headed back there this week. He brags a lot about his perfect looks in the interview, yet he seems relatively good-natured about it.

A friend calls the act of cleaning before anal sex taking a "gay shower" as opposed to a "shower." If you are thinking that your butt will be played with, always do a "gay shower" first. Musky and sweaty may be turn-ons, but a dirty ass is ONLY for someone expressly into scat.

I understand the impulse--I often develop a kind of crush on a provider while setting up an appointment and think "We're clicking so well, maybe he'd like to have dinner/go to a show/spend the night with me without charging me extra!" Don't go there. Unless the provider explicitly suggests that himself, always remember this is his job, and he owes you no more than what you agreed for the time involved. If you want to have a meal with him or spend the night, you should arrange that in advance, for an appropriate fee. The idea that you'll "vibe" so well that he'll want to be your friend or fuckbuddy is tempting--a lot of us like to feel that kind of connection and affinity with the providers we choose--but always remember it's just a fantasy.

Is it just me, or does anyone else wonder how you can give a massage on a train?

Initial conversations pleasant here too. And the 2 face pics he sent are very handsome. He's quickly going to the top of my list.

And then blocked me.

Condescending to me too.

He says he looks exactly like Brad Pitt, but...

And he has a gun...

I was going to say it was obviously a fake, but then I saw the console of this car, which doesn't look like a civilian PA system. He has a Twitter and an OnlyFans--has anyone looked at those?

27 minutes on the A Train, according to Google Maps.

Why? Do you get nosebleeds north of the GW Bridge?

Just catching this thread and wanted to add my note of admiration for Evan Alexsander. A class act.

No.

Had a great series of chats with him. He's definitely moved up my list for my next trip to NY

He's cute and very earnest but his videos are often disappointingly superficial. In this case, the phrase only became widespread in the decades after the 1939 release of the Wizard of Oz when Judy Garland became enormously popular among gay men. But the phrase had been used before 1939 by gay men referring to humorist Dorothy Parker, who had a large number of gay male friends and habitually invited them to meet her at soirees and cocktail parties to which they hadn't been invited. The phrase derived from the fact that so many would show up and tell the host or hostess "I'm a friend of Dorothy's." It became a punchline for any newby in a gay social situation, as in: "Who let HER in?" "Oh, she must be a friend of Dorothy's." After WW2, when the returning servicemen flooded big cities like NY, LA, SF, and Chicago--and Garland's emotional roller-coaster became something that cautiously-out or still-closeted gays identified with--the phrase lost its party-crashing meaning and took on the larger meaning encompassing all gays.

I know. Right?

Some of us like being kissed by handsome men.

No deposit. Ever.

Quoted me $350

Not sure what point you're making. He says he's a bottom and his description more than explains what he's available for and into: "My career is built on the art of entertaining with my body, and I bring that same fluid, disciplined energy to my private companions. I offer a rare blend of high-level physicality with the genuine, sensual warmth of an artist. I’m here to perform just for you." What more volumes do you need to know?

Why would you tell him a think like that.? These people are professionals, not the friends you gossip with at brunch. And then you got sarcastic and typed your oh-so-clever "Um, you're welcome?" I would've blocked you too. Keep your communications simple and professional, respectful and positive. Be friendly but not familiar. And whatever you do, don't get HINKY.