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That’s what I thought I’d remembered too, Boomer, but I followed the above link and checked his ad before I posted, and it listed him as a bottom. :-(

That makes Rod so much more attractive, IMHO. But why is he a bottom?!? The universe is so cruel!!!

His dancer stage name is Valero. He’s a big guy (everywhere), very ruggedly sexy and attractive (not pretty boy handsome), and he was pretty nice too, even with the language barrier. I met him a week ago at Spunk, and he gave me a very sensual lap dance. He was very open to scheduling a private session, but I got sick so I couldn’t follow through. Once I’m back up to speed, I plan on cashing that raincheck.

@JuniorNYC is a very nice man indeed, a great conversationalist, and one heck of a good lay. I pretty much fell in love at our first (and to this point only) meeting last summer. I can’t wait to see him again. I’m sure you’ll have a good time.

Would you even listen to yourself? You don't get to demand that someone meet you face to face, especially when you're acting so nutty on an online forum. Either you're engaging in some grade-A trolling of everyone here, or something is seriously wrong with your coping skills and emotional state. Again, for your own sake, please get some help and move on.

Dude, I don't know anything about your story. I've only been commenting on the original poster's story. You're the one who's conflated his story with yours, when you accused other posters of being James's cheerleaders and of running to him with the OP's story, when you asked if they also told him about "stealing" a client's money and not providing the service for which he was paid. The OP never alleged that. You can start your own thread if you want to solicit feedback on your bad experience with James, but most of us on this thread were not talking about that until you effectively hijacked it with your repeated rants about wanting a $400 refund for an incident for which you've provided virtually no details. None of us are going to jump through hoops to research all of your past posts to gather these details. Say what you will about the OP, but at least he provided us with the relevant details of his experience before soliciting our opinions. You haven't even done that. You are getting way too riled up here, to the point that you're not even engaging in rational discussion anymore, but you're instead insulting folks and pleading for a conversation and/or resolution with someone who clearly wants nothing more to do with you. For your own sake, please just let this go, and find a way to be happy and fulfilled outside of your experiences with escorts and fighting with unknown forum members. This is not a good look.

In the words of the young ones online: GTFOH with that nonsense. When someone's already screwed you over once before, but you give him a 2nd chance anyway, you are under no obligation to bend over backwards to give him the benefit of the doubt when it looks like he's screwed you over yet again. Contrary to what you've said before, that doesn't reflect poorly on James's character. To the contrary, standing up for one's self and not letting others take advantage of you shows strength of character. I probably never would have accepted a 2nd appointment with the not-so-good doctor, but if I had, I'd have waited no more than just a few minutes after he told me to "come now." James gave him 15, which was more than enough. Could he have waited longer? Sure, but he was under no obligation to do so, especially late at night, during winter, and in an unfamiliar neighborhood in a city he doesn't live in. There's a difference between being exceedingly nice, and being a pushover. Under these circumstances it was definitely reasonable for James to conclude that he'd been taken for a ride yet again, given how the doctor acted the first time. Stop with the BS excuses.

Does strawberry blond count? If so, I'd recommend https://rent.men/Russelll, who's based in NYC. He's very hairy, and makes it a point not to manscape. There's also https://rent.men/NYCViking, also based in NYC. He's quite hairy too, but he's a darker blond (his body hair is closer to light brown, while his facial hair is blond). Plus, out in Los Angeles, there's https://rent.men/BlondViking. He's not as hairy as the guys listed above, but his manscaping is minimal (if he even trims at all), as he seems to maintain a normal amount of body hair for an adult man. His hair's also very light blond, so it kind of looks like it "glows" off of his skin, if that's part of the fetish for you. If I can think of any more, I'll post again on this thread.

Even more B.S. You cannot truthfully state, with any reasonable degree of certainty, that James "was not at my door." Why? Because you were brushing your teeth for 15 freaking minutes after you told someone to "come now" rather than wait 12 minutes until the original time you'd agreed to meet. Since you never went down in a timely manner to retrieve your guest, you cannot possibly know whether he was there at 11:17 when he texted you, 11:18 when you responded, or within a few minutes after that. All you know is that he wasn't there at 11:33 when you texted him asking where he was. The notion that a professional (or anyone, really) should wait around for 15 minutes late at night in the dead of a New York winter, and then just proceed with an appointment and discount the time that you made him freeze outside in an unfamiliar neighborhood, all while he looked like a loiterer, lest he reveal (according to you and one other poster) poor character, displays such a lack of consideration, arrogance, and entitlement. The very fact that you stubbornly insist that you're in the right, here, is proof positive of this. I'm not a cheerleader for James. I've never met or spoken with him, nor am I into muscle worship. So, he's not the kind of guy I'm typically into, or that I'd hire. I have no horse in this race, so to speak. This is just about right and wrong, and you, sir, are entirely in the wrong.

I'm sorry, but that makes no sense. Based on the portion of the texts you showed us, it's clear that James arrived a mere 13 minutes early, asked if he should come now or wait until your original 11:30 appointment, and you then told him to "come now". He did exactly as he was told, and then you didn't show up for apparently the second time. You next contacted him a full 15 minutes later with a BS excuse that you were brushing your teeth. Literally no one takes that long just to brush their teeth. If you needed the extra time you should have just told him to stick to the original 11:30 appointment time. Plus, it's winter now, and you shouldn't expect someone to wait outside in the cold while you take your time after you'd just told them to come now. Once you did that, it was only reasonable for him to expect you to arrive immediately, not 15 minutes later. It is absolutely not believable that you thought that James was asking about leaving to come to your Brooklyn home from Manhattan, when he texted you only 13 minutes before your original 11:30 appt to ask if he should come now or wait until 11:30. If James really was asking about leaving from Manhattan, why would he ask about coming now or at 11:30, when it was already 11:17 when he texted you? Sure, there are some parts of Brooklyn that one can reach within 15 minutes from Manhattan. But no one would be asking about coming now or at 11:30 for an 11:30 appt, if he was still a minimum of 15 minutes away and it was already 11:17 at the time they asked you. It's clear that you made up a bad excuse to cover for the fact that you lost track of time for the second time to this escort's detriment, and you then got offended when he decided to cut his losses with you. You owe the man several apologies: for wasting his time on both appointments, and then badmouthing him on this thread when he was the victim of your poor time management. You can also throw in another apology for chiming in on that other thread about James to say that you had a negative experience with him, when everything on this thread has established that you were entirely in the wrong, and it was you who inflicted multiple negative experiences upon him.

I envy you both for finding lovely Argentinean men to fly into the U.S. to spend time with you. My international loves have tended to be Brazilian, and it's damn near impossible for them to get visas to come here. Is there no visa requirement for Argentina nationals?

Our people can throw shade like no one else. I love it!

I corresponded with him when he visited NYC a few weeks ago. He was super nice, and I really appreciated him telling me, after I told him about the scene I was looking for, that he wasn't sure if we'd be a good fit. I think that demonstrates a certain level of professionalism, because he could have easily attempted to play a role for which he feels he's ill-suited, just to get paid. Instead, he seemed to care about my satisfaction and delivering for me. I'm tempted to see him on his next visit for a more vanilla scene just because I'm so touched by the consideration he showed me.

Okay, so several forum members have established that posting a URL in a thread title renders it nonfunctional as a link for the most popular browsers, such as Google Chrome, Microsoft Edge, Firefox, Safari, and the mobile phone versions of these browsers. In contrast, only one person (the original poster) has said that he can tap on a URL in a thread title and that it works as a link. So, with respect to the need or desire for a functional link so as to respond to a 411 request, by a ratio of 6 or 7 to 1, the people have spoken. Now we know - links go in the body of threads, and not in the title. Lesson learned. Moving on, the escort asked about is very handsome, but despite having several reviews on RM, he doesn't seem to have any on Daddy's and no forum member seems to have any experience. That's a shame. Hopefully, someone here takes a flier on this escort and can report back to help the OP or any other viewers of this thread (like myself) who liked the escort's ad.

He probably thought he did so by putting the url in the thread title. Perhaps he didn't realize that would render it non-functional as a link. I'd imagine that the lesson has been learned.

I met with Russell last spring. He's a total sweetheart.

Those are definitely Vinny's pics, although I can't vouch for whether that's actually Vinny who's advertising here. That being said, Vinny is stunning in person: tall, muscular, handsome, and really pretty hazel-like eyes. I can't speak to his massage skills, since I've never seen him outside of the Adonis Lounge. Best of luck!

Forgot to mention Junior, based in New York. He's huge, late 20s/early 30s, very nice, and he knows what he's doing. https://rent.men/JuniorNYC

Damn! My ass hurts just looking at this guy's RM ad. Hurts in kind of a good way, but I think I need to take an ibuprofen anyway. As for my contribution to the thread, I'd highly recommend that the OP try out Nate Grimes and Sherman Maus, each of whom is based in Los Angeles. https://rent.men/nategrimes https://rent.men/ironmaus

Nope, not at all. There are no hard and fast rules for this, and you should do whatever you're most comfortable with, but that has never been the client norm in M4M escort hiring.

Yes, that's a more diplomatic way of asking the same question. In the past I've used the terms multi-hour rates, additional hour discounts, and perhaps other variations, but it was all to acquire the same information. I'll just stick to multi-hour rates from now on, in the hope that it makes a difference. Thanks for the tip. I actually saw an ad once (a few years back) where an escort derided questions about multi-hour rates, saying something to the effect of "its standard hourly rate X times Y number of hours." I have no problem at all with escorts who don't do multi-hour rates/discounts, but that guy seemed clearly offended by such inquiries. At least his disclosure of that in the ad allowed clients to avoid the awkwardness of such an exchange.

Please do post the multi-hour/additional hour discounts in your ad. Many clients, myself included, are looking for such providers, and now that sites like RM won't post rates, asking for those arrangements is an additional hurdle. I don't want to derail this into one of those threads on anxiety about asking for rates. But Im wary of coming across as disrespectful to the escort because asking about discounts for longer sessions can sometimes seem like haggling to lower rates. Plenty of ads indicate that those escorts don't like those kinds of client inquiries, so I'd hate for the escort to think that's what I'm trying to do.

Don't know if I'd go that far. When people PM others for advice/info they tend to be nice because that's what you do when you want someone to help you. (I think most forum members are nice folks anyway.) But those who PM others to expand arguments from publicly viewable threads have a different agenda, and may be more likely to be rude or insulting because the forum at large isn't there to see it. There are also those who use the PM feature to target and harass others.

Bump. Also very interested in Max. I'd love to hear from anyone (publicly or via PM) about any experience with him, good or bad.

I like the spirit of this thread, but I fear it's in the wrong section. Queries about masseurs are typically placed in the Spa section, whereas this Deli section is for discussing escorts. As to the masseurs you've asked about, Zanja has been a regular dancer at the Adonis Lounge events in NYC. I've had pretty good lapdances with him, but never seen him for a massage or any other kind of service outside of Adonis. He's kind of shy, but friendly, and told me that he's actually gay, which is not so common with dancers. I believe there've been other threads discussing Cal and Jason, the latter of whom was also briefly on the NYC stripclub dance scene. Good luck!