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Adam is ridiculously sexy, and the sweetest guy. I’ve had several dances with him at the Adonis Lounge events in West Hollywood. He probably gives one of the best, if not THE best, lap dance(s) there. But Adam’s ad seems to indicate that he’s got some restrictions, so be sure to clarify the services he’ll provide to make sure that he’s a match for what you’re seeking.

I've had quite a few lapdances from Adrian over the past year or so. He disappeared for quite some time, but resurfaced at Adonis within the past few weeks, but now he has an ad on RM. I was supposed to see him privately last summer (pre-RM ad), but my schedule didn't work out and then I lost track of him. He gave good lapdances, but he wasn't amongst the best Adonis dancers in that department. (He made up for it in other ways!) Adrian is smoking hot in person (even moreso than his photos), and he was always cordial, even if he didn't always display the warmest personality. I think some of that was due to English speaking issues. We've conversed by text this week while he's been in LA, and it seems like his English has improved a lot since last year. I plan to get more lapdances and finally see him in private this weekend or next week. I'll post a review if/when that happens.

This guy's an escort, not a masseur, so you'd probably get more feedback if you posted in the Deli section. That being said my limited experience is that he's a friendly professional. He saw that I had checked out his ad a few months back, so he sent me a message and unlocked his private photos. I never made it to Philly, so I didn't get to meet him, but I appreciated that he reached out.

I've only been with 2 of the escorts you've listed (JayCal and IronMaus; each multiple times), so my response is based upon whether I think they can provide what you're looking for. First, please forgive me for not fully understanding the first bullet point in your post. I don't know if you left out a word, such that you are "looking for a piggy experience [rather] than a boyfriend experience"; OR if the sentence was typed phonetically, such that you meant to say that you're "looking for a piggy experience [then] a boyfriend experience." My response depends on which of the above more accurately describes your query. If you're looking only for a piggy escort session, and don't care about the BFE, then I'd say that you should probably go with IronMaus. He can provide both kinds of experiences, but he's definitely got a piggy streak (he's also fully versatile, and an amazing top). Maus's Twiter feed will give you an idea of how he enjoys all kinds of non-vanilla activities. He's not a big guy, but he's not tiny either. He's about 5'9" or 5'10" with a regular slender build. Maus is pretty well endowed, but not humongous (he did reach my 2nd hole every time, though, so he's got some length). Absolutely cute as a button, and really sweet too. I absolutely adore JayCal, and I've seen him countless times over the past several years, so I'd probably marry him if it wouldn't violate the Pro/Ho code (him being the former and me the latter, obviously). So, I say this with love: Jay can be a tad rough or aggressive, which I really like, and he's super fun in bed, but I'd never ascribe the "piggy" adjective to him (he's all top, by the way). He's a big guy (probably about 6'3" and 200 lbs - solid and well built, but not overly muscular), so he probably fits more of what you're looking for in terms of height and size. Jay's well hung, but not humongous. He stays rock hard, too. I love being with both guys, so I don't think you'll necessarily go wrong with either. It just depends on what you're looking for each guy to provide. If you'd like to ask me for any more details beyond the above, feel free to send a private message. Good luck!

Not so much with this guy. He’s certainly not hideous, but not only is he the least attractive arrestee in this whole thread, his crime was so heinous that I can’t even imagine fawning over him. But seriously, I have enjoyed this thread. You have a good eye for handsome men.

This is the only Chris I saw on that site, but his ad lists his location as 43rd Street and 10th Avenue. Is this the right guy? https://www.massagem4m.com/masseur/11688/

His ad lists anal as one of the activities he's "into", and it also says he's versatile, so it wouldn't be unreasonable to assume that Dylan bottoms. You can't ever be too sure these days though...

How could he resist such temptation? (Speaking from personal experience.)

The first two pics look like they're of a completely different man than pics 3 and 4. Miguel identifies as Latino (which is more of an ethnicity, than a race), but pics 1 & 2 seem to show a brown-skinned person of black ancestry, while pics 3 & 4 seem to show a much fairer-skinned man with different textured hair. It's not uncommon for escorts for whom anonymity and/or discretion is paramount, to use pics of other guys, justifying it by saying that the pics show a good enough approximation of themselves. But this seems to be a little ridiculous.

I've never been with this escort, but you have excellent taste, IMHO. Since you've questioned where he's from, if memory serves, when he's advertised during prior visits to NYC, he stated in his ad that he's Argentinean. I don't know whether that's true, but perhaps this helps in your decision making process. Good luck!

I concur.

His ad is usually listed in NYC, so I think that he's based there. In fact, since he makes it a point to note that he's Middle Eastern, I suspect that his rentmen handle is a simple acronym to reflect that he's a Middle Eastern escort based in NYC. If history is any indication, his ad will likely pop up under the NYC listings again in the near future.

There's nothing wrong with asking for help, @YoungDaddyNYC. That's one of the main reasons this forum exists, so don't ever feel self-conscious about asking or seeking out suggestions from members here. Since a few people have said that California or Florida are better locations for these guys, I'd guess that the stripper option I mentioned is probably your best bet to find purportedly straight porn stars or sex workers with some adult film or print work based in NYC who'd be open to what you're looking for. There are also quite a few escorts on rentmen who list straight or bi as their sexual orientation, for whatever that's worth. Best of luck to you! I hope you let us know how it turns out.

First, you probably just missed it in such a long thread, but Ric said I reacted like a fanboy in or around post #36. Second, I don't believe I ever said that Ric straight up dissed Kerry, and I'm not sure that's what happened here anyway. When Ric suggested that Kerry ask his Adonis clients to not be rude to other dancers, I interpreted that as either indirect shade at Kerry, or direct shade at Kerry's clients, none of whom I knew for sure are even forum members. Reasonable minds can disagree on how to interpret Ric's remark. I thought it was a bit petty and kind of funny, but when Ric took offense to that, I apologized, and did so repeatedly. There's no reason it should have gone beyond that. Ric also mischaracterized my posts when he accused me of offering only a private apology after publicly offending him. That was unfair because at that point I'd already publically apologized twice on the thread. He even went so far as to say that I've always had the means to initiate a private conversation to smoothe things over, even though the feature appears to be blocked on his profile. I'd like to give Ric the benefit of the doubt, but if he knew that he couldn't or wouldn't receive private conversation requests (either from me or anyone else) then his proclamation was wholly disingenuous. By "something," I meant something to warrant the kind of overreaction displayed here, including the rejection of sincere attempts at both public and private apologies for this relatively minor offense. Ric's reaction here seems more consistent with someone with whom he's had some long negative history. Like I explained earlier, he and I had no such history, and the one time we'd met quite a while back was a very brief, but positive encounter. That's why I'm confused about this whole thing. Oh well, every day is a learning experience.

I can't fathom what the "something" is that's going on with me vis-a-vis Ric. I've met him only once in person at an Adonis show in LA, it was fleeting, and I did not reveal to him my online persona. We've also never had any significant interaction before on this forum. And despite Ric's calling me a Kerry Slate fanboy, I've also never met him, nor have I been involved in any other forum discussion where I've irrationally defended or fawned over Kerry, so as to warrant that derisive label. I apologized to Ric because it seemed like I inadvertently offended him. The overreaction and hostility he's displayed, coupled with his refusal to accept my apology even when he acknowledged that my heart was in the right place, is genuinely confusing.

As he well should. This unfortunate little spat developed when I sought to keep the thread from derailing into a war over whether Kerry should chastise his clients for being rude to other Adonis dancers, as Big Ric alleged. What would Kerry or any other dancer in such a situation have to gain from entering into that? Even assuming that the charge holds true as to some clients, how could Kerry be held responsible for that? Would he or any other dancer seriously lecture clients on such an issue? I've been going to Adonis events in both NYC and LA since they started up some 8-plus years ago, and I make it a point to be very respectful to all of the dancers I meet, whether or not I accept a dance with them. That being said, I wouldn't take kindly to one of my regular dancers approaching me to say that some other dancer talked smack about me not being nice enough to him. That's a good way to lose a regular client. The Adonis manager of each spot is the one to whom clients and dancers should report any issues about respect and decorum. I've personally witnessed Tim and Matt handle several such issues. Since it strikes me as unrealistic that a dancer would or could address this, that's why I thought that this was less a serious gripe, but more an expression of venting. That's also why I thought this topic should have been handled in its own thread if the proponent felt that strongly about it. It's spilt milk at this point, but I think it's safe to say that staying out of this dispute was a wise move on Kerry's part.

Finally! That was kinda the entire point of the OP's starting this thread. It's hard to believe that it took this long to get you to provide a straight forward answer. Since you can offer nothing of value, then that probably should have been the beginning and end of your participation on this thread. At a minimum, even if you still wanted to participate (cuz, let's be honest, sometimes it can still be fun and valuable even when threads get derailed), you should have done so without belittling the OP's interest. Peace.

I'm honored to be so associated. You may not want to admit it, @marylander1940, but you've engaged in textbook bullying behavior on this thread. You were patronizing to the original poster and belittled his particular interest. You then put the onus on him to not be offended by your post. You followed that up by insulting the posters who stood up for the OP, told them that they too were being too sensitive, and then threatened to harass them by tagging them in future posts if *they* don't "let it go." And in a stunning display of irony, you've accused the defenders of not offering helpful suggestions to the OP, while you ingnored that at least one of us did just that in a post that you quoted and responded to, no less! It's very telling that despite making several posts on this thread, you've never offered any help to the OP. Rather, you rationalized your initial wrong by then dismissing his experience as a whole when you said that he didn't really need help because he's in a large market like NYC. In contrast, your only other significant engagement with another poster on this thread has been to discuss your own experiences with straight guys years ago. We've discussed often on this forum of the need to encourage new blood here. But how can we expect new posters, both clients and escorts, to continue to participate if seasoned members belittle their interests, take over their threads, and then refuse to apologize when called out for it? You did the OP wrong here. Would it really have been so bad to have just admitted that and helped the guy out, if you could?

I've tried, but after I attempted to apologize via private conversation, the site told me that I can't start a private conversation with @BigRic. I've also publicly apologized twice now on this thread. I've tried to chill as much as possible, but there's nothing more I can do.

I didn't think I needed to reach out to you privately nine months ago when I first started this thread, since asking about escorts who've fallen off the radar is the kind of post I thought should be public, in case others might be looking for the same guy. I also didn't take serious issue with your first post calling out clients, but your defensive retorts to my humorous response indicate that there's something more afoot that we could discuss to smooth things over. I'll reach out privately now, on the assumption that your invitation is sincere, notwithstanding the tone of your last post.

First you bullied the OP, who's a newbie, then you minimized what you did because he can ostensibly fend for himself (like that excused what you did), and now you've attempted to bully those who stand up for the new poster by threatening to tag them in all posts where others might be attacked. Be careful, dear. The moderators are watching. And, after all of this, you still haven't offered to help the OP.

I tagged you because we've actually met once in person at Fubar at an Adonis show, you were kind to me then, you've been helpful in answering other forum members' queries in the past, and I thought you'd be so again. Yes, threads sometimes do veer off, if no one reins them in. But to be fair, I asked for your help with locating a specific dancer, and that's well removed from whether other clients had been rude to you or other dancers, or specifically whether Kerry/Nicky's clients had been rude. I agree with you that if you or other dancers were mistreated, that's not right and that it's a topic that's independently worthy of discussion. But your low-key shade on Kerry/Nicky's clients (of which I am not one, as I've never even met the guy) was also petty, even if it did touch upon a legitimate issue. They're not mutually exclusive propositions. You don't know me, so you don't know that I give props to those who execute shade and pettiness (i.e., from one Queen B to another). I sincerely think it's hilarious, and that you did so well. It was not meant to be an insult. I just didn't want the thread to devolve into something unruly because no dancer is responsible for how some of his clients may act towards others, and I thought there was zero chance that the worst of these clients would even see your complaint, much less care about it. I tried to use humor and flattery to defuse a situation and prevent another forum war between pros and clients. I'm sorry that this has turned so sour between us, as that was not my intention. If you'd like to discuss this more via private conversation, please reach out, because I'm afraid that this has turned into something bad that I never intended. For the second time, I am sorry that I offended you.

You seriously said that while ignoring that in my first response to you I typed an entire paragraph offering helpful suggestions to the OP based on what he actually asked about? Particularly when you responded to that post of mine, and even block-quoted entire segments of it, but conveniently ignored that part which directly attempted to help the OP, in favor of arguing for your right to say anything you want, no matter how inconsiderate, without being called out because that would be *gasp* policing. The irony of all of this cannot be lost on the readers. And clearly, the OP needs help because he asked for it. I also live in NYC and travel often to LA, probably the two largest escort markets. Yet, I often rely on the members of this forum for help in finding providers. Your assumption on that issue is just silly. I note that you still haven't offered any suggestions to help the OP. Your silence speaks volumes.

I wasn't taking your comment seriously because I felt that it was a little bit inappropriate on a thread that I started asking for help in contacting this particular dancer. I never asked for folks' impressions of how other clients might be treating other dancers. I agree with you that being respectful to dancers is, as a general matter, a topic worthy of discussion. But that's not why I started this thread, and I didn't like the idea of it being potentially derailed, particularly with an insinuation that the dancer I was interested would even have the power to tell patrons how to act. It's also highly dubious that the offending clients from this bar in West Hollywood would really be on this thread, or that if they are, they'd even be open to receiving your reprimand. Since the prospect of you actually reaching them, and of them even caring, seemed slim to none, I didn't think it was a serious attempt at addressing bad behavior, but that it was instead just a way for you to vent. Hence, I tried to approach it with a sense of humor, while tactfully ignoring that you may have been hijacking my thread, but nonetheless stressing that I sympathize with you by stating that I always treat the dancers with respect. I was hoping to get us to move on, while acknowledging that I found your wit funny and sassy. It was not meant to be needlessly dismissive of any legitimate gripe you have, or to minimize or excuse the disrespect that patrons may have inflicted on you. I see now that my post could have been taken the wrong way, and that it offended you. For that, I apologize.

As @hornytwells also noted, your post read as though you were castigating the OP for his fetish. Perhaps that wasn't your intention, but that's how it came across. At a minimum, your post was completely unhelpful to the specific request of the OP, and addressed only what you thought about hiring straight guys, rather than helping him find what he wants. Thank you for pointing out that you're the one who first brought up the idea of hiring for a BFE. Since the OP never inquired about that (he instead asked about straight porn stars who are "affectionate and fun with a guy"), then his post makes even more sense, since plenty of straight escorts can do that. In contrast, your response looks even less like a serious attempt to provide him with some useful information that actually addresses his request. In fact you've now admitted that your response really served to just make the OP's thread all about you: "He didn't say BFE, I'm the only who brought that up as something I like and I consider is more likely to happen with another gay or bi man." It's unfortunate that you view someone pointing out how some posters make others' threads all about themselves, as "policing." Up to this point in the thread, you still haven't even offered any help to the OP. Instead you've blamed others for being overly sensitive to a post that was inconsiderate and unhelpful at a minimum, and, at worst, came across as patronizing and insulting. Rather than deflect, couldn't you have just offered a "mea culpa," and then a helpful suggestion, if you knew of someone that the OP might like?