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“Pics or it didn’t happen” is what the kids often say now. Similarly, on this forum we say a variant: “links or your request didn’t happen.” To be kind this time, since you’re a newbie, here you go: https://rent.men/BlueEyedCharmer For future reference, please post a link. P.S. I’ve nothing to offer about this escort. I hope others can help you out.

Unsure if this was a serious response or if you're pulling my leg. If it was the former, then I know who Rob Gronkowski is, so no need to point him out again. I block quoted and responded to @thickornotatall's post because I meant to refer to the farmer guy he met from just outside London. By the way, since we're on the subject, Gronk could get it from me whenever he wants...

Can’t venture into review territory here, but I met with Alain for the first time this past weekend. He’s very handsome, polite, sexy, and in great shape. Despite my own present medical limitations, we managed to have a great time. I’m hoping he becomes a regular.

This guy sounds right up my alley. (Pun very much intended.). Please do tell his name, either on this thread or via private message. Much obliged.

You’re new here, so you likely don’t know the norms of the forum. A vague, general request like this will not generate much. You’ve got to tell folks a little about what you like and are interested in, so that they can offer suggestions. For example, are you seeking tops, bottoms, or versatile guys? What are your preferences with respect to age, build/body type, height, race/ethnic background, and other physical attributes? Any kinks or other specific interests? It also helps to do some initial work on your own by researching the different escort and masseur sites, and then ask about specific providers who caught your eye, by also posting the links to their ads. Forum members can best provide you with recommendations if you give us something to start with, first. Best of luck to you!

I had a good time with David Anthony when I visited Philly 3 years ago. My goodness, is that man handsome! And he's also kind, personable, humorous, and pretty sweet. He was in very good shape, and his member is as advertised. I'd never actually seen any of his videos like the OP has, so I never went into the session with any preconceived ideas of how David would perform. I can only say that I really enjoyed spending time with him. Best of luck!

Thanks for the info, @MaxMuscle9x6. I've had my eye on him for a while. Did he tell you, or do you know, his specific ethnic background (besides the generic Latin box that he checked in the ad)? I thought I remembered his ad stating it a year or two ago, but I may be mistaken. I'd guess he's either Brazilian or Argentinean. I like men from all different backgrounds, but I lose my cool when it comes to the sexiness of men from those two South American nations!

This Irish guy and https://rentmen.eu/GingRugger really turn my crank. But it looks like I'd be sexually incompatible with them because they're both bottoms. Woe is me! :-(

I can’t find fault with your take on this. Beauty is often in the eye of the beholder. But I also can’t fault those escorts who, for professional or personal reasons, have decided that they need to maintain at least some measure of discretion or anonymity by not posting face pics on their ads. As a client, I certainly don’t post face pics on my RM profile, nor do I send them out to prospective hires, so I’m in no position to judge those who take similar protective measures. To each his own.

I met Jake a few years ago. I found him to be extremely handsome. I was taken aback actually.

Thanks again

Thanks for the info and advice. I'm actually from NYC and only very recently moved, so I know all about New Yorkers' reluctance to cross the river. I just happen to be in Newark for one night, and I've got a lot of work to do (that's why I booked the hotel), so I can't waste time traveling to and from Manhattan. I just wanted to treat myself to a break during a long night's work, and was hoping that forum members could point out some previously undiscovered gems who defied NYC stereotypes or were even based in NJ. I got some suggestions via private message, so thanks to all who offered help. I'd appreciate additional suggestions if anyone else still has them.

I'll be staying in a hotel in New Jersey near Newark-Penn Station, about a 20 to 25 minute train ride outside of Manhattan (only $2.75 fare each way). Can anyone recommend any top or vers/top escorts who service that area, or NYC-based ones who'll come out there for a 1 to 2-hour appointment? I haven't had much luck searching on rentmen. Thanks in advance.

FYI, it's a common colloquial expression used in Brazil. I forgot what "kkkk" means there, but it doesn't carry anywhere near the historical baggage and negative connotations associated with "KKK" in the U.S.A. All that being said, I have no idea if this masseur is Brazilian. Just food for thought.

You forgot to include the link to the thread.

Is this the masseur you guys are raving about? If so, he's pretty cute. https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/29878/

He'd normally be my type, but why oh why is he a bottom?!? I'm going to try to stop swooning over this beautiful man with whom I'm sexually incompatible, and get back to work.

I agree that including the location in the subject would have been ideal. But still, if a poster won't be interested in a thread without that, then as you reasoned, we'd expect that he/she would simply not bother to open or respond to the thread. What happened here, instead, is that a poster opened the thread anyway; didn't bother to open the provided link, which, based on experience, was virtually certain to answer his query; and then, when another poster graciously provided the answer, rather than say "thank you" for the info, and then contribute to the information sharing the OP requested, he reiterated his desire for the OP to have inserted the location in the subject line. None of that snarkiness was necessary. Why can't we just be kinder to each other here?

I agree that including the location in the subject would have been ideal. But still, if a poster won't be interested in a thread without that, then as you reasoned, we'd expect that he/she would simply not bother to open or respond to the thread. What happened here, instead, is that a poster opened the thread anyway; didn't bother to open the provided link, which, based on experience, was virtually certain to answer his query; and then, when another poster graciously provided the answer, rather than say "thank you" for the info, and then contribute to the information sharing the OP requested, he reiterated his desire for the OP to have inserted the location in the subject line. None of that snarkiness was necessary. Why can't we just be kinder to each other here?

Yeah, he could have, but the masseur's location showed immediately when I reviewed the ad via the link the OP provided. People on this forum (myself included) bitch all the time about those who request info on masseurs and escorts without including a link to providers' ads. Here, the OP did that, and Ultramarine's ad displayed everything anyone would need to know in order to identify him, including his location. It would have literally taken just a few seconds for any interested poster to click on the link to learn this masseur's location. So, why was the question (along with all the snappy follow-up retorts) even needed?

It looks to me like that’s Esteban, a big-dicked Spaniard who’s appeared in a lot of B.B. porn over the past few years. He’s had U.S.-based escort ads up on rentmen and Adam4Adam before, and they tend to appear when he visits from Europe, usually to NYC, LA, and Miami. I’ve never been with him, but good luck on finding a current ad for him and having fun.

I've had luck on both sides of this scenario. Once I successfully contacted one of my visiting regulars for a last minute appointment when I saw that his RM ad listed him as "available now." It was super fun, and he even chided me for being naughty for being so impatient to meet up (we originally had an appointment for the next day). More often than not, though, escorts have either not responded, or declined to meet for last-minute appointments in the evening or late night even when their RM ads say that they're available now. I get that many guys leave that indicator on just for marketing purposes. But I prefer truth in advertising, so I still find it annoying when they act like I'm disturbing them when I've contacted them based on the settings they've enabled on their own ads.

Even without any face photos, that looks like an escort who went by the name of Ivan. He's of Russian or other Eastern European origin and had mixed reviews, if memory serves.

Adam is ridiculously sexy, and the sweetest guy. I’ve had several dances with him at the Adonis Lounge events in West Hollywood. He probably gives one of the best, if not THE best, lap dance(s) there. But Adam’s ad seems to indicate that he’s got some restrictions, so be sure to clarify the services he’ll provide to make sure that he’s a match for what you’re seeking.

I've had quite a few lapdances from Adrian over the past year or so. He disappeared for quite some time, but resurfaced at Adonis within the past few weeks, but now he has an ad on RM. I was supposed to see him privately last summer (pre-RM ad), but my schedule didn't work out and then I lost track of him. He gave good lapdances, but he wasn't amongst the best Adonis dancers in that department. (He made up for it in other ways!) Adrian is smoking hot in person (even moreso than his photos), and he was always cordial, even if he didn't always display the warmest personality. I think some of that was due to English speaking issues. We've conversed by text this week while he's been in LA, and it seems like his English has improved a lot since last year. I plan to get more lapdances and finally see him in private this weekend or next week. I'll post a review if/when that happens.