dixietony

Then you need to take plunge in the well for welfare of all of the Dear forum member! We will appreciate your big sacrifice for our sake!

I hired a guy for a week. We had done a few overnights before. It was very relaxing. We went to Put-in-Bay, Ohio. Stayed at a bed and breakfast. Then we drive to Grand Haven, Michigan for a couple days. Finslly to Chicago.
 
He was free to text and email at his leisure.

I have been incredibly happy with two separate 5 day trips, and pretty meh with the third.
The first was with a guy I met on seeking arrangements. This was the meh experience. I did pay for his time. We went to St Lucia, which was gorgeous. For 4 grand a night suite, it had better be. He was pretty awful at sex, but is basically one of the best looking guys currently on Instagram who shows off his flawless physique and has tens of thousands of followers. Typically vapid millennial conversation.
The most recent two have been with a really sweet and very handsome pornstar escort. We had one beach vacation and one in the mountains. Easy conversation, wonderful hugging, good sex, and it was nice having such a hunk to take to dinner. We did a lot of adventure/sports activities. Created a lot of wonderful memories. Planning my next trip with him.

I contacted him and by the third text I knew he was a “no go”.
He is a nasty narcissistic punk

I'd love that time with you. An escort and I went ice skating in Altoona, PA once. He was much better than me.

I had a similar thing happen in a non-escort situation recently. I contacted a guy online, we had very similar interests and got into some very hot talk about some roleplay fantasies we'd explore together. This was on a Friday night, and he even emailed me early the next morning to continue the conversation.
 
Then at one point that day, the conversation just stopped. Cold. I emailed him a few times over the next few days - no response. I was actually rather upset because our conversation had been very intense and it really felt like we were majorly clicking.
 
I let it go.
 
Then recently - it had been about 2 months since the initial conversation - he emails me out of the blue. Claiming he had family issues to deal with, and was very sorry that he had been out of touch. (As far as I know he's a gay male in his mid 20's - no marriage or anything like that - so this wouldn't be a "dodging the wife" kind of thing. I figured it was an illness/death or something - understandable. He didn't elaborate, I didn't pry.)
 
I told him I had been bummed he had disappeared, but was glad he wrote back. We started up talking again, picking up where we had left off with barely a hitch.
 
After that night (it's been about 2 weeks now), haven't heard from him since. Same M.O. - he just stopped emailing - no heads up to say he might not hear from me, etc - just nothing. Again, I checked in once or twice - nothing.
 
I fell for it, whatever it was.
 
When he emails me again in another few months, no doubt, I won't be responding back this time. It's a shame, because the talk was incredibly hot - and very specific and detailed in terms of what we both liked. And he did seem to make it clear that he wanted to meet - that this wasn't just talk. But I guess ultimately it was.
 
In this day and age, I don't think there are many situations (even "family issues" etc) where one can't simply send even a very quick email, or txt, or whatever, to say "sorry, really busy, will be back in touch soon, just wanted you to know I'm still interested" or whatever. So I have to think that this "family issues" thing was just a flimsy excuse, and that he's either intentionally playing me, or that he's just in it for the fantasy talk until he gets off, or whatever. A real shame. But I have to let it go.

I don't recall ever passing out. But as I only had the snorkel in my mouth, not taped or secured, of I did pass out, I think it would have just come out.
 
Thanks for your reply.

What about auto asphyxiation? When I was younger, I haven't done it in 15 years, I actually bought a snorkel with a mouthpice, clipped my nose with a swimmers diving nose clip, attached the end of the snorkel to a bag. Then I'd jack off.
 
It's not choking, I know. But what to call it?
 
And typing out those words was a little embarrassing.

I also tried to set up something with Hunter. I won't be contacting him again. Too difficult to work with.

The message you quoted:

 
is from 2015!!! You and I PM'd almost a year later. In fact, I think your PM was in response to that then-old post. Thanks to your PM I didn't hire him.

I have met him twice. He is Samoa nationality. Not quite the model face. He is more beefy and has a roid gut. He does like to kiss, he got a real thick uncut cock and loves to be rimmed. He will only cum for you if you are the last client for the day. Not meeting him anymore. He didn’t really turn me on the last time we met.

The dog goes to bed first, I sleep on whatever real estate is left over.

And he provides "an insitabile experience."
 
I'm torn between unsuitable or insatiable.

And he provides "an insitabile experience."
 
I'm torn between unsuitable or insatiable.

Taco Bell.

Put "sugar daddy" on your photo and you'll get lots of responses - some interesting some not. Hooked with slightly thuggish white dude with wife and baby. Now he wants to hook me up with his brother, also wife and baby. Not everyone's taste but ok for me.

For me, the most troubling part of Derek Atlas's response was "I have won the affection of thousands of miserable in my time"--not only because of the absence of a noun but because of the attitude conveyed by the adjective.

No, I don't think he's dangerous at all. He seems a little dim. Not dumb. Just dim. But dangerous? No.

That actually sounds about right. He would just brush it off and plow ahead.

@dixietony
Yes he had the balls to contact me a week later and asked to meet again...AND ASKED FOR MORE $$$$
 
I blocked his stupid ass!!!! Would never ever consider hiring him!!!!

Sorry Alexslaveboy. Did he ever contact you again? I stopped doing business with him regarding videos. He started getting slower and slower about making them.

SCAMMER!!!!!! tried to meet him back in May
Asked for uber money to get from Philly to Jersey against my better judgment I sent $120 and he never showed up at the meeting point
Sat there for 2 hours
ONCE A SCAMMER ALWAYS A SCAMMER

No, I don't think he's dangerous at all. He seems a little dim. Not dumb. Just dim. But dangerous? No.