Ryan North Chicago WTF?

[briefboyb1]

Ok guys I need some help here. Check out this exchange and tell me where I went wrong. He asked for my number and responded with this below a few hours ago. WTF is up with this guy? I just sent hm an email to fond out his availability a dan talk about things that would make the sessions work for me. I thought he appreciate knowing that. Instead all I got in response was name calling and insults. He asked for my number and then responded this way. Is this typical?

 

 

Like any minimally decent client, you should be able to message every thing that needs to be said!

 

2 hours ago

RyanNorth

 

What part of i dont fucking want to call you, do you not understand. Jesus fucking christ. Why would asking me to call you, make it better? God you must be dumb

 

RyanNorth

Bob. I dont feel like calling you. For the third time. Lets just cancel. Ok. You had your chance and youve fucked up twice

 

Today, 07:22 I gave him my number

briefboyb

 

Today, 01:35

RyanNorth

 

Ok what number can i call you? Ill give you a shot.

 

 

Today, 01:02

RyanNorth

 

Dont want things on bad terms then get to the point, dont waste my time. Too late now

 

 

Today, 01:00

RyanNorth

 

Bob. You requesting me to go out of my way and call you and deal with all these questions is what pissed me off in the first place! So why the hell would calling you make it better. Youre taking my time. Its rude. It shouldnt be complicated.

 

 

Aug 01, 05:55

briefboyb

 

Ryan, is there a time when I can call you to try to work out this misunderstanding? I was very much looking forward to meeting you and I don't either want to miss that chance while I'm in Chicago or end this on bad terms. Thanks.

 

 

Jul 30, 18:24

briefboyb

 

I apologize for that. Was hoping to help not complicate things.

 

Jul 30, 17:38

RyanNorth

 

Bob I dont feel like calling you (number listed on my ad btw!) and you're making things more complicated than it should. not interested now. youre demanding more of my time and yes its rude and frustrating.

 

Ryan:

Are we going to be able to talk before I arrive on Friday? I have questions about when you may be available and when my work schedule will allow us meeting.

I also wanted to ask about one of my fetishes- guys in underwear. I love guys in white boxer briefs and short white socks. I hope I can undress you down to those before we go further. I'm glad your profile page mentions kissing as I like that as we ll as body contact. So, I'm still a bit nervous about bottoming for the first time but I think from your initial resonse you understand that and I feel comfortable letting you take the reins.

So we can chat this way or maybe you can give me a number and time when I could reach you. Thanks.

 

 

 

 

Jul 25, 08:52

RyanNorth

 

Great. Looking forward to it

 

 

Jul 24, 17:49

briefboyb

 

Sounds good to me. I’ll be back in touch closer to my arrival. I’ll be at the Marriott on Michigan Ave

 

 

 

Jul 24, 17:21

RyanNorth

 

Im a dominant top and that sounds doable. My rate is xxx for an hour, xxx for two, xxx for three, xxxx for overnight

 

 

Jul 24, 06:26

briefboyb

 

Coming to Chicago on 8/3 to 8/7 and looking to bottom for the first time! even though I'm in my 60s. I'm looking for a young dominant top to use me, although gently helping me get it done. Staying in a downtown hotel on Michigan Ave. What are your rates and availability?

[+ Tarte Gogo]

What did you write to him between this:

 

RyanNorth

Bob. I dont feel like calling you. For the third time. Lets just cancel. Ok. You had your chance and youve fucked up twice

and this:

2 hours ago

RyanNorth

What part of i dont fucking want to call you, do you not understand. Jesus fucking christ. Why would asking me to call you, make it better? God you must be dumb

?

If nothing, then I suspect drugs? Bipolar? I dunno. I'd drop it and find someone else.

 

More generally many escorts just want 2 or 3 text messages and that is it. So that is what I do. I put all the information in one text. Then confirm the date, time, and location in the second text and stop texting them unless they ask a question.

[wooly]

It sounds like this is someone to avoid.

[Stormy]

There are some escorts who prefer not to talk on the phone at all. I just skip over them because I'd rather chat just to see if we are compatible before spending that much money.

 

Just sounds to me like you and Ryan North are not compatible at all. Be happy you didn't waste your money on a person that does not respect you

[+ tassojunior]

That's more than I spoke with my ex-partner.

In 3 years !

 

That's maybe an hour of texting.

Edited August 4, 2018 by tassojunior

[+ azdr0710]

As said, there are some providers who absolutely don't want to talk on the phone. I've had a couple or three tell me that and I've put up with it and the meets worked out. With others, I've asked to switch over to email (easier for me to tap out a note on a real keyboard) and some say yes, others no. When I feel I need to make a voice check and ask several questions, I ask for a phone call.

 

The anger escalation with this guy, though, is alarming. If you've included all the communication you had here for us, he should be avoided.

[snogaholic]

I've really had it with providers who can't or won't speak on the phone, claiming always that it "wastes time" whereas a successful and to-the-point chat does the exact opposite. If they can't down tools for 5 minutes to chat to a client about how he may soon be spending several hundred dollars in this person's company, then that's the end of that communique - in my view anyway.

[Jostar]

Sadly I seen RyanNorth before he had a bad attitude with me I try to make the best of the moment I spend with him but he kept making hard for me with his wild mood swings. It like he had pms. Briefboyb1 you lucky you didn't see him

[snogaholic]

he looks astonishingly unfriendly in his profile -- am surprised anyone would pursue a meet, given his online presence.

[BabyBoomer]

https://rentmen.eu/RyanNorth

 

~Boomer~

[jonnychgo]

I booked an appt with him a couple of years ago. I had to cancel the night before as I got very sick. He sent me texts just as abusive as the ones listed in the OP's thread. I always wondered why he got such good reviews from people on here.

[Stormy]

Ok guys I need some help here. Check out this exchange and tell me where I went wrong. He asked for my number and responded with this below a few hours ago. WTF is up with this guy? I just sent hm an email to fond out his availability a dan talk about things that would make the sessions work for me. I thought he appreciate knowing that. Instead all I got in response was name calling and insults. He asked for my number and then responded this way. Is this typical?

 

 

Like any minimally decent client, you should be able to message every thing that needs to be said!

 

2 hours ago

RyanNorth

 

What part of i dont fucking want to call you, do you not understand. Jesus fucking christ. Why would asking me to call you, make it better? God you must be dumb

 

RyanNorth

Bob. I dont feel like calling you. For the third time. Lets just cancel. Ok. You had your chance and youve fucked up twice

 

Today, 07:22 I gave him my number

briefboyb

 

Today, 01:35

RyanNorth

 

Ok what number can i call you? Ill give you a shot.

 

 

Today, 01:02

RyanNorth

 

Dont want things on bad terms then get to the point, dont waste my time. Too late now

 

 

Today, 01:00

RyanNorth

 

Bob. You requesting me to go out of my way and call you and deal with all these questions is what pissed me off in the first place! So why the hell would calling you make it better. Youre taking my time. Its rude. It shouldnt be complicated.

 

 

Aug 01, 05:55

briefboyb

 

Ryan, is there a time when I can call you to try to work out this misunderstanding? I was very much looking forward to meeting you and I don't either want to miss that chance while I'm in Chicago or end this on bad terms. Thanks.

 

 

Jul 30, 18:24

briefboyb

 

I apologize for that. Was hoping to help not complicate things.

 

Jul 30, 17:38

RyanNorth

 

Bob I dont feel like calling you (number listed on my ad btw!) and you're making things more complicated than it should. not interested now. youre demanding more of my time and yes its rude and frustrating.

 

Ryan:

Are we going to be able to talk before I arrive on Friday? I have questions about when you may be available and when my work schedule will allow us meeting.

I also wanted to ask about one of my fetishes- guys in underwear. I love guys in white boxer briefs and short white socks. I hope I can undress you down to those before we go further. I'm glad your profile page mentions kissing as I like that as we ll as body contact. So, I'm still a bit nervous about bottoming for the first time but I think from your initial resonse you understand that and I feel comfortable letting you take the reins.

So we can chat this way or maybe you can give me a number and time when I could reach you. Thanks.

 

 

 

 

Jul 25, 08:52

RyanNorth

 

Great. Looking forward to it

 

 

Jul 24, 17:49

briefboyb

 

Sounds good to me. I’ll be back in touch closer to my arrival. I’ll be at the Marriott on Michigan Ave

 

 

 

Jul 24, 17:21

RyanNorth

 

Im a dominant top and that sounds doable. My rate is xxx for an hour, xxx for two, xxx for three, xxxx for overnight

 

 

Jul 24, 06:26

briefboyb

 

Coming to Chicago on 8/3 to 8/7 and looking to bottom for the first time! even though I'm in my 60s. I'm looking for a young dominant top to use me, although gently helping me get it done. Staying in a downtown hotel on Michigan Ave. What are your rates and availability?

 

 

This is who I saw on my trip to Chicago last year. He's cute kind and a patient top.

 

https://rentmen.eu/Alexanderxx

[mkenneth99]

I have seen several escorts here in Chicago who will not take phone calls. One of my regular hires is Alex Ward and he makes it clear in his ad and on text that he will never answer phone calls for any reason. It has never been a problem for me.

[spider]

Why did you keep trying to correspond after his message on the 30th? I’d have cut my losses at that point.

[+ glutes]

he looks astonishingly unfriendly in his profile -- am surprised anyone would pursue a meet, given his online presence.

 

Looks like he just got out of a psych facility.

[instudiocity]

Millennials don’t talk on the phone. Some will text the bejesus out of you, but they just won’t talk.

[rvwnsd]

Millennials don’t talk on the phone. Some will text the bejesus out of you, but they just won’t talk.

I'm far from being a Millennial (turning 54 in ten days) and absolutely despise talking on the phone. Would rather text and email. However, I would never even think of treating you the way the escort did. After the first rude text I would have been done. Or, to parrot the way the escort communicates:

"After the fucking first rude fucking text I would have been FUCKING DONE!! FUCKING DONE!!!"

 

Sometimes, you have to tailor the message to your audience.

[snogaholic]

yes, this fear of speech is more and more common -- I assume it's because it can't be controlled -- conversation really is a dead, not a dying, art.

[+ newatthis]

I've had my eye on Ryan North for the many years he's had an ad up, but never got around to calling. I thank everyone who posted here -- you've helped me to avoid a big mistake (although if he'd treated me the way he treated the OP, I wouldn't have made the mistake, I guess).

[JamesMorris]

I contacted him and by the third text I knew he was a “no go”.

He is a nasty narcissistic punk

[HotWhiteThirties]

Mr. North does not sound like a stable person, though I am curious if any of the OPs texts have been omitted because the escalation seems out of no where. A couple others have commented the same thing, so I hope in fairness, the OP will elaborate on that question. (I’m not saying there were omissions, just the nature of the escalation is sudden - which if that’s the case - then it’s even more egregious.)

 

I know providers get annoying texts and it’s hard to decipher the time wasters and it puts them in a position of being defensive. At the same time, there are MANY successful providers who can professionally tolerate a few extra questions and understand the nervousness that engaging in this activity might create for a client. The mark of a true professional!!!

 

Regardless, the information on Mr. North is s helpful. Ain’t nobody got time for that kind of behavior! I wouldn’t have lasted as long as the OP! Just crazy!

[Aardvark]

I'd think there are things you wouldn't want in writing but maybe I'm just paranoid.

[briefboyb]

Mr. North does not sound like a stable person, though I am curious if any of the OPs texts have been omitted because the escalation seems out of no where. A couple others have commented the same thing, so I hope in fairness, the OP will elaborate on that question. (I’m not saying there were omissions, just the nature of the escalation is sudden - which if that’s the case - then it’s even more egregious.)

 

I know providers get annoying texts and it’s hard to decipher the time wasters and it puts them in a position of being defensive. At the same time, there are MANY successful providers who can professionally tolerate a few extra questions and understand the nervousness that engaging in this activity might create for a client. The mark of a true professional!!!

 

Regardless, the information on Mr. North is s helpful. Ain’t nobody got time for that kind of behavior! I wouldn’t have lasted as long as the OP! Just crazy!

Nothing has been left out of the thread I posted. I cut and pasted from the RM mail page.

[HotWhiteThirties]

Nothing has been left out of the thread I posted. I cut and pasted from the RM mail page.

 

Just wanted to be sure. It is unhinged sort of behavior. Glad you can avoid this guy and best wishes on finding someone to help you continue your journey.

[+ mature_guy]

I had a similar experience jonnychgo - flight delayed then cancelled so I couldn't get to Chicago. Emailed him and his responses were less than cordial