KinkyNEguy

I can understand why some men would prefer to not have bachelorette parties at traditionally gay bar strip shows.  My experience with that, though limited, has been that the women are young, drunk, loud and generally a nuisance.  Also, the straight and bi strippers tend to play to that crowd, when there is more money for them elsewhere.  So while inclusion has its benefits, exclusivity does too.  Exclusivity not exclusion in general.  

Spot on !
I abhor the behavior of today's attention-seeking LGBTQXYZ123 crowd.
I was perfectly happy to be accepted as "normal" and NOT "queer". For many, many years my friends accept me for who I am and nobody bats an eyelash about my bisexuality. I travel frequently and its the same in many places. NOBODY cares because I behave like eveyone else, and when someone discovers my sexuality as part of the conversation . .its NEVER met with any kind of disdain. 
20-somethings cant stand to blend in. They all NEED to feel EXPOSED 24/7. The Gender Queer crowd thrive on acting like freaks, so someone calls them a freak and then they have something to feel offended about. 
 

That certainly doesn't happen in places where incest is normal like Appalachia and the Bible belt! 

I am grateful to have learned something useful today.  To be culturally sensitive to the Day Laborers I hire who are willing to top me but do not want an equal partnership, I will from now on try to remember to say "Exploit me, Daddy" as each of them pounds my ass.  🥳
This way, as the bottom, it will be clear for the record that I am the one who is exploited, if that makes him feel better.  It's important to make him feel macho and I'm control, especially if I am interested in hiring him again.  😍

...or for people like me, there will be a raging hard-on just thinking about going back for another dose of that naughty. 

One of the patrons at the Candle Bar, upper west side, NYC was known as 'Pissy Boy'.  He would lay down naked on the floor of the men's room and ask to be pissed on.  All over. I was always glad to oblige.  Each time I was done, I would disdainfully throw a few dollar bills on this wet body and say 'good boy, pissy'
After a while, the floor got to be a real mess.  It was sort of fun.

I’ve actually had a few providers who enjoyed drinking my piss. I’d drink a lot of pineapple juice and pure cranberry juice beforehand. One actually took two full urinations down his throat. I try to be accommodating!

Once was enough. No regrets, but no need to repeat.

"Your very rude".  You cud have told him two lurn too spell propurley.

You dodged a bullet.
There is definitley something "off" about this person's constant demands to move to a different platform. 
In my experience when a young man wants to switch to a private communication its to discuss pay4play in a space where he cant be identified and found later if your experiences are problematic .  

That’s an odd approach to business.  Sounds like a red flag to a volatile personality.  

So very 2025: A robber baron becomes the police, judge, and jury to determine guilt.

DAMMIT... Can't you objectify me because of my muscularity and height like everyone else?
Being sexy for being outspoken and smart is just exhausting. 

“Crowded with hood people” sounds like it’s just a euphemism for there were too many Black people present for your comfort level at what you expected to be an almost exclusively white gathering — which many Pride celebrations are.

I am not sure why, but you are suddenly becoming sexier to my eyes.
 

gee, this guy really upset you.....
 

Hopefully some of you guys now feel brave enough to put some of the negative reviews back up…and I don’t just mean from this thread, but from past ones over the years he’s been running this same playbook.  I know escorts can sometimes be intimidating but it’s really helpful to keep others from falling for the same scam. This guy is nothing but BS and hot air, and I’ve had multiple members message me that he’s been running the same game for years.  CANCELLED 

Well, I will give him that he’s been very effective at controlling his negative reviews given how many years he’s been an escort and even seeing a few from this thread disappear.    Clearly either the politeness or the aggression is working for him.

A traveling escort has been advertising in my city since mid-May. His travel schedule was Washington, DC all of last week, then Boston MA for this past week (Memorial Day - June 1) then my city from June 2 - 6. Then back to his hometown (I think in NYC). I had my eye on him as he checked all the boxes. I inquired about him here, but no responses. One nice member was kind enough and  PM'd me to let me know what a great guy he was and highly recommended (and I appreciate the PM, as I trust this member). So I put him on my 'yes list' for this upcoming week.
I did check his ad each day this week to see if there were any changes - perhaps he was cutting Boston short and coming to Providence early, but no - the schedule stayed the same. He did post new photos and he looked sexier than ever. 
So this afternoon I text him (his last day in Boston) and send him a nice message - I see you're coming to Providence this week, and I'm interested in booking an appointment tomorrow night. What is the rate for an hour ?  Where will you be staying ? (I also let him know if he needs hotel suggestions, I can provide hotels near the highway to make it easy for clients, and with plenty of free parking). 
He responds politely - thanks for reaching out, yes, tomorrow night will work for him, he's $359 for an hour, check the list he attached for what he offers, and a separate message thanking me to help him with hotels, because he's never been to Providence before, as this is his first time.  It would be a big help if I can send him the recommendations tomorrow morning, so he can book something before leaving Boston. 
I respond, yes I will - and politely remind him he didn't send the 'list' he mentioned in his response. 
A few minutes later he responds that he's not coming to Providence, he was here all this past week, and he just arrived in Boston. HUH ? But he comes to Providence all the time (No, he doesn't) so we can meet next time. HUH ?
I let him know he wasn't advertising in Providence all this past week - so he must've had no clients. He was advertising he was in Boston. I let him know his ad is still up for Providence, and it says he'll be here tomorrow. I also reminded him he first said he's never been in this city before, then he's telling me he travels here all the time. I let him know it's a confusing way to do business. 
He responds about thirty minutes later - 'Sorry, my bad. Change of plans! See you next time. '  About two hours later he changes the travel schedule on his ad - now saying he'll be going somewhere else this week.
I've written him off for the future - I can't deal with idiots. I work too hard for my $359 (what a strange price) and rather give it to someone who's willing to earn it. Still, I'm wondering if someone else is traveling with him, and they were the one who grabbed his phone and responded the first time around ?  Something weird going on there - I believe I dodged a bullet. 

You guys.
Leave this lad tf alone. By that I mean, sure, accommodate his unambiguous and circumscribed ask if you will, that consists of his modest little paper cash register for donations that you might supply while being circumspect about his context. He has wordsmithed his signage narrative just enough to legitimize requesting $ but falls short of asking to be rescued. He is not asking to be the face of any societal problem. 
1 in 100 Canadian men are diagnosed with schizophrenia and the majority can “present” well. A higher proportion than 100% of general population have some form of illness within the realm of psychosis.
If a cluster of men, however numbered, were to descend on him and convey knowledge of his background and he is mentally vulnerable his response may be no less predisposed to a triggered effect of paranoia than it might be coloured with appreciation of the crowdsourcing implicit in the well-intentioned story entered here.
As has been suggested there is no lack of professional resources including street outreach services in the downtown Toronto district. I fail to understand assumptions you might have about the degree to which he is genuinely disenfranchised relative to the collective unhoused genpop, or what it is some of you think you can offer to make his connectivity to resources stick if indeed his plight is blockage to assistance access that you imagine you can transcend on his behalf.
Good to be alert to the reality of those less fortunate. Perhaps a donation to Covenant House would satisfy the call to altruism.

Clients worrying about their Mr. Number record is kinda silly. Do you need to be liked by everyone so much that you care what some inconsequential person you’ve never met wrote about you based on a disjointed text message exchange? “It’s on my PERMANENT RECORD 😫”

Avoid! 🚩🚩🚩

I know age has been questioned repeatedly in this thread, but a RM member for nearly 8 years and uses "24" as an age?  He started at 16?!  Makes you doubtful, and then you find the RM pics uploaded in 2024 were posted to IG in 2021.

Same reason everyone’s obsessed with Luigi Mangione. Our empathy isn’t always about the pain—it’s about the packaging.

Let's not kid ourselves. 
Why is such sympathy, kindness and generosity bestowed on this particular Toronto lad and not the elderly, unattractive, suffering woman sitting just down the block?