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Sequencing one after another for me is one every 3 days 🤣

I'm disappointed to learn this; I had higher hopes for this type of event, and if this is the norm, darn!

I've never used a masseuse (a female massage therapist). All of my experiences have been with masseurs.
I've had a lot of fun experiences over the years. I've talked many times on the forum about my favorite guy, who sadly retired completely. I have a new regular now who comes pretty close to being as much fun as the retired guy.
That said, another regular—someone I don't get to see very often—completely blew my mind on my last visit. Physically and personality-wise, he's exactly my type. We usually meet in the morning or early evening. He's a great masseur, likes showing off his body, and enjoys being touched. At one point during the massage, he even uses his whole body as part of the experience. Sessions usually start out therapeutic and gradually become more sensual, with lots of mutual touching, eventually leading to my happy ending. LOL.
We've never kissed before, although he's often teased me by rubbing his face against mine and coming damned close to it. I guess timing really is everything because this last session started at 11:30 PM, and he went way beyond anything we'd done previously. I knew it was going to be different when early on he placed my hand behind my back—a stretch he normally does—but positioned himself so that my hand was very deliberately exploring his ass. He never did this move before. He responded with loud moans of approval. Normally he's pretty quiet while working, but this time there was a lot more moaning, grunting, and sexy talk in response to what we were doing. When he started the usual face-to-face rubbing, he suddenly went straight into deep tongue kissing. We ended up kissing a lot. At one point he even told me he hadn't realized what a great kisser I was. Saying it in such away, implying we should have been kissing sooner. It was one of the most intensely erotic and sweaty experiences I've had in a long time, probably the sweatiest session I've ever had with a masseur. Lots of fondling, kissing, licking, sucking... maybe a little, "just the tip."
By the time we reached the HE, we were both drenched. Afterward, we chatted while I went to shower. When it was time to leave, sometime after 1 AM, he was still standing there with a towel around his waist, his muscular body covered in sweat. He gave me a hug and said he hoped I didn't mind, even though I was already dressed. I told him of course not. I've mentioned more than once that night that I liked his sweat covered body. Then he gave me a quick kiss on the lips, looked me right in the eyes, and started deep kissing me again. At some point his towel dropped to the floor.
I finally pulled back a little and told him, "You better stop, or you're going to get yourself in trouble." I was getting worked up all over again. He slapped my ass and replied, "You're the one who's going to be in trouble," before pulling me back in for another kiss. Eventually we managed to separate. He jokingly walked toward the door and said, "Oops, looks like my towel's on the floor." As he opened the door to let me out, he grabbed my head and kissed me deeply one more time, followed by a final peck on the lips before I walked out.
I don't know what got into him that night, but he seemed incredibly horny. Whether he'll be like that the next time I see him, who knows? Moral of the story: from now on, I'm only booking late-night appointments with him. LOL!

Lastly, please don't ask who he is. I'd rather not put him in an uncomfortable position or create expectations for other clients that may not be realistic. What happened between us was unique to that particular moment, and I'd like to respect his privacy as well as everyone's expectations.

Ya. I am always wary and usually stay away from these providers.  

I passed him on the street yesterday in DC during my lunch break. Saw him from across the street and was like, "who is that?!"  As he got closer I realized who he was. I must say he is absolutely stunning. Reached out to him last night, but he's leaving DC today. I already had plans last night or I most definitely would have made an appointment for a massage. 

I passed him on the street yesterday in DC during my lunch break. Saw him from across the street and was like, "who is that?!"  As he got closer I realized who he was. I must say he is absolutely stunning. Reached out to him last night, but he's leaving DC today. I already had plans last night or I most definitely would have made an appointment for a massage. 

I think this topic has run its course. We’ll agree to disagree, just like the long and boring specific tipping thread.
That said, unless you have been elected President of the International Brotherhood of Masseurs, the financial arrangements between a client and a willing, of age therapist is emphatically and without any doubt whatsoever, none of your business at all. You have a right to an opinion. But so do I and every other person on this planet. They generally mean squat. 
Everyone should do their own thing. Therapists can choose to see clients or not. They can offer extras for a stated price, or not. They can choose to not offer any extras at all! Or offer them just to people who appeal for o them. No big deal. It either works for the parties or it does not.

(I am certainly not including any potential human trafficking scenario in Bangkok in my opinion. That is a very different topic altogether. I’m talking about good old USA based grown men, most of whom could probably whip my ass! (Not in a sexual way))
Enjoy. 

I've said before, I'll say it again;  there should be a topic titled "masseur = male / masseuse = female" that is PINNED at the top of the Spa forum.
 
 

Bozo has had limited interactions with masseuses. However, at no time was there a hope it would lead to sex.
BTC
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I generally skip anyone with that response; same as guys who list themselves as straight. I actually find all the very clearly GAY guys listing themselves as "bisexual" to be annoying. 

FWIW any one who advertises their services to the gay male community and calls us that particular slur - in ANY CIRCUMSTANCE - should be known for their own words.
I’m surprised and disappointed with anyone defending this behavior.

I appreciate the feedback regarding my brief exchange with this provider, but I would point out that simply replying with “Thanks… but I’ll pass for now” offers him no meaningful feedback as to why I chose not to hire him. I mentioned the $300 figure because that is, in fact, generally what I offer for this type of service.
Constructive feedback is especially important for someone like this gentleman, who I suspect may be relatively new to the business (both of his reviews are less than two months old) and may have unrealistic expectations about what most clients  -- at least in my experience — are actually willing to pay for the requested service, which typically is not in the $600–700+ range he appears to expect.
That said, the pricing issue is secondary. The primary reason I chose to share information about this particular provider was to alert our “company of men” to what appears to be his clear disdain for gay men, as evidenced by his repeated use (twice) of a term I consider highly demeaning -- made all the more concerning given the context in which he chose to use it in responding to me.

I get an error message when I click on some profiles. 

I get an error message when I click on some profiles. 

He looks like an avatar.

London, United Kingdom May 25 - May 26 Los Angeles, CA May 26 - May 27 San Jose, CA May 27 - May 28 San Francisco, CA May 28 - May 29 Paris, France May 29 - May 30 Toronto, Canada May 30 - May 31 "Don't take my current location into consideration, I travel everywhere all the time"   fake pictures, phony and silly travel schedule (which he even admits is not to be taken seriously!).......yeah, this'll work....

While I understand that providers want to present themselves in the best light and may use filters and some editing, this guy has clearly gone to extremes. He doesn't even look real.
 

He was my biggest surprise of 2024. Nice guy, even better looking in person, and a nice experience. Have seen him twice. Once at my place in DC, and once in NYC. Crossed signals/ bad communication caused a 3rd appointment not to happen. 

Thanks for sharing, didn’t know this…will take him off my list.

Internalized homophobia is such a curse. How else to explain admiring a piece of shit like Kirk?
The name “Seb Royce,” btw, comes from the TV show “The Blacklist,” in which the character is a corrupt ex-FBI agent and criminal.

I completely agree. 👍 

Nice guy and build but he's extreme MAGA and attends the Charlie Kirk functions at Turning Point USA. That's enough for me who supports a group that hates Gay Men.
I prefer my "Gay for Pay" dollars go to someone who isn't in that category. 

It's just another word bro. No one's forcing you to use it, relax 🤣