UncutDad

Do any of these spas or hamams offer older men or really masculine men?  The guys that stand on the street are just way too young for my taste.

Not sure who wrote it, but the "Karens are out in force" comment made me laugh.
1.) We're really still using the term Massage Parlor?  Is Mae West running them? You'll have to Google that name Gen XYZ or whatever you are.
2.) To Pubic_Assistance, I'm older and your comments don't indicate anything to me except ignorance.  And guess what? I have below zero interest in young guys. It's like eating green cantaloupe. It will be fascinating to see how you are dressing and behaving should you be lucky enough to get to be a "fetish" or "old food" of being older.  
3.) To answer the original poster's questions.  There are older massage men out there. Two of them that immediately come to mind are Rob_CMT who used to live in NYC.  And Hud who used to live in Chicago. They are on RMasseur and MasseurFinder when they work. Both are traveling massage men now, and I can say with confidence that as far as massage goes, there is no young guy or even slightly older than 40 guys that can come close to their massage styles...they are mind blowing massage men.  If there are better older massage guys than these two, i'd like to know about them.  Seriously, please forward their names to me.  Older men are not a fetish, and they (we) can be very hot.
4.)To the original poster.  Ignore the haters.  I am grateful to be recognized as a Daddy in the community and I turn down young guys with regularity...again, "green cantaloupe".  I get more offers for hooking up now than I did when I was in my 20s, 30's and 40's
5.) Ok, i need to get ready for bed...can someone help me with my casket-bed?  I'm so old. Lol
 

It's really a distinction without a difference when you liken older MT's as old food and 
 
I suppose you can call it "just paying attention".  But when you refer to a group of people as "old food" or are repulsed by "old men touching you" you just reveal a vapid mind.  You're free to disrespect all the groups that you want. If that's what makes you feel valid in life, judge on, man.   

Yea, that's your folly.  You seem to think you have the definitive answer for everyone.  You've seemingly impressed yourself with what you think is "correct" and decided that's the end of the topic.  Discounting anyone else that doesn't align with your POV.  Thankfully, no one sees you the way you see yourself...well maybe your cats do.

It's really a distinction without a difference when you liken older MT's as old food and 
 
I suppose you can call it "just paying attention".  But when you refer to a group of people as "old food" or are repulsed by "old men touching you" you just reveal a vapid mind.  You're free to disrespect all the groups that you want. If that's what makes you feel valid in life, judge on, man.   

It's really a distinction without a difference when you liken older MT's as old food and 
 
I suppose you can call it "just paying attention".  But when you refer to a group of people as "old food" or are repulsed by "old men touching you" you just reveal a vapid mind.  You're free to disrespect all the groups that you want. If that's what makes you feel valid in life, judge on, man.   

Yea, that's your folly.  You seem to think you have the definitive answer for everyone.  You've seemingly impressed yourself with what you think is "correct" and decided that's the end of the topic.  Discounting anyone else that doesn't align with your POV.  Thankfully, no one sees you the way you see yourself...well maybe your cats do.

It's really a distinction without a difference when you liken older MT's as old food and 
 
I suppose you can call it "just paying attention".  But when you refer to a group of people as "old food" or are repulsed by "old men touching you" you just reveal a vapid mind.  You're free to disrespect all the groups that you want. If that's what makes you feel valid in life, judge on, man.   

It's really a distinction without a difference when you liken older MT's as old food and 
 
I suppose you can call it "just paying attention".  But when you refer to a group of people as "old food" or are repulsed by "old men touching you" you just reveal a vapid mind.  You're free to disrespect all the groups that you want. If that's what makes you feel valid in life, judge on, man.   

Yea, that's your folly.  You seem to think you have the definitive answer for everyone.  You've seemingly impressed yourself with what you think is "correct" and decided that's the end of the topic.  Discounting anyone else that doesn't align with your POV.  Thankfully, no one sees you the way you see yourself...well maybe your cats do.

It's really a distinction without a difference when you liken older MT's as old food and 
 
I suppose you can call it "just paying attention".  But when you refer to a group of people as "old food" or are repulsed by "old men touching you" you just reveal a vapid mind.  You're free to disrespect all the groups that you want. If that's what makes you feel valid in life, judge on, man.   

Yea, that's your folly.  You seem to think you have the definitive answer for everyone.  You've seemingly impressed yourself with what you think is "correct" and decided that's the end of the topic.  Discounting anyone else that doesn't align with your POV.  Thankfully, no one sees you the way you see yourself...well maybe your cats do.

Not sure who wrote it, but the "Karens are out in force" comment made me laugh.
1.) We're really still using the term Massage Parlor?  Is Mae West running them? You'll have to Google that name Gen XYZ or whatever you are.
2.) To Pubic_Assistance, I'm older and your comments don't indicate anything to me except ignorance.  And guess what? I have below zero interest in young guys. It's like eating green cantaloupe. It will be fascinating to see how you are dressing and behaving should you be lucky enough to get to be a "fetish" or "old food" of being older.  
3.) To answer the original poster's questions.  There are older massage men out there. Two of them that immediately come to mind are Rob_CMT who used to live in NYC.  And Hud who used to live in Chicago. They are on RMasseur and MasseurFinder when they work. Both are traveling massage men now, and I can say with confidence that as far as massage goes, there is no young guy or even slightly older than 40 guys that can come close to their massage styles...they are mind blowing massage men.  If there are better older massage guys than these two, i'd like to know about them.  Seriously, please forward their names to me.  Older men are not a fetish, and they (we) can be very hot.
4.)To the original poster.  Ignore the haters.  I am grateful to be recognized as a Daddy in the community and I turn down young guys with regularity...again, "green cantaloupe".  I get more offers for hooking up now than I did when I was in my 20s, 30's and 40's
5.) Ok, i need to get ready for bed...can someone help me with my casket-bed?  I'm so old. Lol
 

Not sure who wrote it, but the "Karens are out in force" comment made me laugh.
1.) We're really still using the term Massage Parlor?  Is Mae West running them? You'll have to Google that name Gen XYZ or whatever you are.
2.) To Pubic_Assistance, I'm older and your comments don't indicate anything to me except ignorance.  And guess what? I have below zero interest in young guys. It's like eating green cantaloupe. It will be fascinating to see how you are dressing and behaving should you be lucky enough to get to be a "fetish" or "old food" of being older.  
3.) To answer the original poster's questions.  There are older massage men out there. Two of them that immediately come to mind are Rob_CMT who used to live in NYC.  And Hud who used to live in Chicago. They are on RMasseur and MasseurFinder when they work. Both are traveling massage men now, and I can say with confidence that as far as massage goes, there is no young guy or even slightly older than 40 guys that can come close to their massage styles...they are mind blowing massage men.  If there are better older massage guys than these two, i'd like to know about them.  Seriously, please forward their names to me.  Older men are not a fetish, and they (we) can be very hot.
4.)To the original poster.  Ignore the haters.  I am grateful to be recognized as a Daddy in the community and I turn down young guys with regularity...again, "green cantaloupe".  I get more offers for hooking up now than I did when I was in my 20s, 30's and 40's
5.) Ok, i need to get ready for bed...can someone help me with my casket-bed?  I'm so old. Lol
 

Not sure who wrote it, but the "Karens are out in force" comment made me laugh.
1.) We're really still using the term Massage Parlor?  Is Mae West running them? You'll have to Google that name Gen XYZ or whatever you are.
2.) To Pubic_Assistance, I'm older and your comments don't indicate anything to me except ignorance.  And guess what? I have below zero interest in young guys. It's like eating green cantaloupe. It will be fascinating to see how you are dressing and behaving should you be lucky enough to get to be a "fetish" or "old food" of being older.  
3.) To answer the original poster's questions.  There are older massage men out there. Two of them that immediately come to mind are Rob_CMT who used to live in NYC.  And Hud who used to live in Chicago. They are on RMasseur and MasseurFinder when they work. Both are traveling massage men now, and I can say with confidence that as far as massage goes, there is no young guy or even slightly older than 40 guys that can come close to their massage styles...they are mind blowing massage men.  If there are better older massage guys than these two, i'd like to know about them.  Seriously, please forward their names to me.  Older men are not a fetish, and they (we) can be very hot.
4.)To the original poster.  Ignore the haters.  I am grateful to be recognized as a Daddy in the community and I turn down young guys with regularity...again, "green cantaloupe".  I get more offers for hooking up now than I did when I was in my 20s, 30's and 40's
5.) Ok, i need to get ready for bed...can someone help me with my casket-bed?  I'm so old. Lol
 

Not sure who wrote it, but the "Karens are out in force" comment made me laugh.
1.) We're really still using the term Massage Parlor?  Is Mae West running them? You'll have to Google that name Gen XYZ or whatever you are.
2.) To Pubic_Assistance, I'm older and your comments don't indicate anything to me except ignorance.  And guess what? I have below zero interest in young guys. It's like eating green cantaloupe. It will be fascinating to see how you are dressing and behaving should you be lucky enough to get to be a "fetish" or "old food" of being older.  
3.) To answer the original poster's questions.  There are older massage men out there. Two of them that immediately come to mind are Rob_CMT who used to live in NYC.  And Hud who used to live in Chicago. They are on RMasseur and MasseurFinder when they work. Both are traveling massage men now, and I can say with confidence that as far as massage goes, there is no young guy or even slightly older than 40 guys that can come close to their massage styles...they are mind blowing massage men.  If there are better older massage guys than these two, i'd like to know about them.  Seriously, please forward their names to me.  Older men are not a fetish, and they (we) can be very hot.
4.)To the original poster.  Ignore the haters.  I am grateful to be recognized as a Daddy in the community and I turn down young guys with regularity...again, "green cantaloupe".  I get more offers for hooking up now than I did when I was in my 20s, 30's and 40's
5.) Ok, i need to get ready for bed...can someone help me with my casket-bed?  I'm so old. Lol
 

Not sure who wrote it, but the "Karens are out in force" comment made me laugh.
1.) We're really still using the term Massage Parlor?  Is Mae West running them? You'll have to Google that name Gen XYZ or whatever you are.
2.) To Pubic_Assistance, I'm older and your comments don't indicate anything to me except ignorance.  And guess what? I have below zero interest in young guys. It's like eating green cantaloupe. It will be fascinating to see how you are dressing and behaving should you be lucky enough to get to be a "fetish" or "old food" of being older.  
3.) To answer the original poster's questions.  There are older massage men out there. Two of them that immediately come to mind are Rob_CMT who used to live in NYC.  And Hud who used to live in Chicago. They are on RMasseur and MasseurFinder when they work. Both are traveling massage men now, and I can say with confidence that as far as massage goes, there is no young guy or even slightly older than 40 guys that can come close to their massage styles...they are mind blowing massage men.  If there are better older massage guys than these two, i'd like to know about them.  Seriously, please forward their names to me.  Older men are not a fetish, and they (we) can be very hot.
4.)To the original poster.  Ignore the haters.  I am grateful to be recognized as a Daddy in the community and I turn down young guys with regularity...again, "green cantaloupe".  I get more offers for hooking up now than I did when I was in my 20s, 30's and 40's
5.) Ok, i need to get ready for bed...can someone help me with my casket-bed?  I'm so old. Lol
 

Not sure who wrote it, but the "Karens are out in force" comment made me laugh.
1.) We're really still using the term Massage Parlor?  Is Mae West running them? You'll have to Google that name Gen XYZ or whatever you are.
2.) To Pubic_Assistance, I'm older and your comments don't indicate anything to me except ignorance.  And guess what? I have below zero interest in young guys. It's like eating green cantaloupe. It will be fascinating to see how you are dressing and behaving should you be lucky enough to get to be a "fetish" or "old food" of being older.  
3.) To answer the original poster's questions.  There are older massage men out there. Two of them that immediately come to mind are Rob_CMT who used to live in NYC.  And Hud who used to live in Chicago. They are on RMasseur and MasseurFinder when they work. Both are traveling massage men now, and I can say with confidence that as far as massage goes, there is no young guy or even slightly older than 40 guys that can come close to their massage styles...they are mind blowing massage men.  If there are better older massage guys than these two, i'd like to know about them.  Seriously, please forward their names to me.  Older men are not a fetish, and they (we) can be very hot.
4.)To the original poster.  Ignore the haters.  I am grateful to be recognized as a Daddy in the community and I turn down young guys with regularity...again, "green cantaloupe".  I get more offers for hooking up now than I did when I was in my 20s, 30's and 40's
5.) Ok, i need to get ready for bed...can someone help me with my casket-bed?  I'm so old. Lol
 

Not sure who wrote it, but the "Karens are out in force" comment made me laugh.
1.) We're really still using the term Massage Parlor?  Is Mae West running them? You'll have to Google that name Gen XYZ or whatever you are.
2.) To Pubic_Assistance, I'm older and your comments don't indicate anything to me except ignorance.  And guess what? I have below zero interest in young guys. It's like eating green cantaloupe. It will be fascinating to see how you are dressing and behaving should you be lucky enough to get to be a "fetish" or "old food" of being older.  
3.) To answer the original poster's questions.  There are older massage men out there. Two of them that immediately come to mind are Rob_CMT who used to live in NYC.  And Hud who used to live in Chicago. They are on RMasseur and MasseurFinder when they work. Both are traveling massage men now, and I can say with confidence that as far as massage goes, there is no young guy or even slightly older than 40 guys that can come close to their massage styles...they are mind blowing massage men.  If there are better older massage guys than these two, i'd like to know about them.  Seriously, please forward their names to me.  Older men are not a fetish, and they (we) can be very hot.
4.)To the original poster.  Ignore the haters.  I am grateful to be recognized as a Daddy in the community and I turn down young guys with regularity...again, "green cantaloupe".  I get more offers for hooking up now than I did when I was in my 20s, 30's and 40's
5.) Ok, i need to get ready for bed...can someone help me with my casket-bed?  I'm so old. Lol
 

Not sure who wrote it, but the "Karens are out in force" comment made me laugh.
1.) We're really still using the term Massage Parlor?  Is Mae West running them? You'll have to Google that name Gen XYZ or whatever you are.
2.) To Pubic_Assistance, I'm older and your comments don't indicate anything to me except ignorance.  And guess what? I have below zero interest in young guys. It's like eating green cantaloupe. It will be fascinating to see how you are dressing and behaving should you be lucky enough to get to be a "fetish" or "old food" of being older.  
3.) To answer the original poster's questions.  There are older massage men out there. Two of them that immediately come to mind are Rob_CMT who used to live in NYC.  And Hud who used to live in Chicago. They are on RMasseur and MasseurFinder when they work. Both are traveling massage men now, and I can say with confidence that as far as massage goes, there is no young guy or even slightly older than 40 guys that can come close to their massage styles...they are mind blowing massage men.  If there are better older massage guys than these two, i'd like to know about them.  Seriously, please forward their names to me.  Older men are not a fetish, and they (we) can be very hot.
4.)To the original poster.  Ignore the haters.  I am grateful to be recognized as a Daddy in the community and I turn down young guys with regularity...again, "green cantaloupe".  I get more offers for hooking up now than I did when I was in my 20s, 30's and 40's
5.) Ok, i need to get ready for bed...can someone help me with my casket-bed?  I'm so old. Lol
 

JD is back on R.Masseur and was on Masseurfinder.  I've hired JD twice.  Both times were just kind of oK and they totally emphasized more of an escort experience so i cannot say what his massage was like.  Once he arrived at my place he asked if it was ok that he didn't bring the table.  I agreed though it was a different approach to what he was advertising (massage)
Once inside, we started messing around (no massage).  He tried to upsell me both times and i told him "what are you upselling me, you don't eve  have a table"  I told him he was free to go if he wasn't comfortable doing what I wanted since due to him the situation had changed.  So we got through it.  I tried him twice because I wanted to see how far he would go in a second round.  I'll just say that he did what we agree to but there was no primal urges.  He was attractive back then
Fast forward to today and I'm looking at his photos,   He's older. His face has filled out and his hair is longer in a like a 1970s "Love Boat|" way.  He's had more professional photos taken, but they're not good.  I can tell he's not happy with his pics as well because he's editing them with without his face in some and he's showing older body pics. His looks now might be for some guys.  But he looks different from the 8 years ago when i first met him.  He's a nice enough guy, but I think there are better choices.  I'm cool with escorts, erotic massage and therapeutic massage guys depending on what I'm in the mood for.  But upselling during a session is just a turn off for me.  I find it to be the mark of someone that is truly not a Pro.

I hired HBI earlier this year.  He came to my hotel and provided everything we agreed to and I paid him.  The only issue I had was that he was very slow to leave and I had a commitment that I had to get to.  He was taking forever to get dressed and kept looking at his phone. I literally told him, "dude we gotta go NOW".  I might hire him again to see how it would be for a second time.

I see Vlad every time I travel to NYC.  He only does Outcall massage on the bed.  It's not bad for a bed massage.  There is a bit of a language issue, so be sure you ask for what you want via text, as he relies on a translation app. It can also be tricky/last minute sometimes to get him as he has a day job, though I don't believe it pays that well. Vlad is a very sweet guy. I always tip him.  

I've hired JakeDaddy a couple of years ago.  His place at that time was very close to mine.  FLJock's comment about elastic hands was my experience also. I think I read some reviews that stated the massage was good.  It wasn't good for me. I have two basic criteria.  I want a firm pressure massage and if you can't do that well, I will quickly go for the HE.  He didn't do either very well.  His place was a cluttered, he was not set up for the appt. and he had a yappy dog that he kept having to control. Does that sound relaxing to you?  It wasn't for me.
I then tried to hire him in August of 23 for just an erotic session.  He was staying in a hotel and indicated last minute that he had his dog with him, so i declined.  Again he was staying within blocks of where i live and he offered to do an Outcall at the end of the evening since I was three blocks away, but even for that he totally flaked. I know that he did not know who I was from any or our texts, so I had a buddy contact him right after he canceled on me and amazingly he was available.  Jake is an upseller which I was ok with.  But I don't know why such unprofessional behavior.  He's clearly just in it for the money and he doesn't really care about what a client wants. My summation is the more money you offer, the more attentive he is.  

I've seen Tito.  He is a straight guy that doesn't provide anything extra.  I'm not a fan of straight guys that do this.  He doesn't seem to massage women, so he's just using his looks to get gay men on his table.  His massage is abrasive. He's the kind of masseur that will be causing pain in an area of your body and not letting up while telling you he knows better than you do.  If you're hurting me, I know better as to what is good.
He had a new sauna that he invited me to try out with him.  What I wasn't told was that it was 30 extra.  He did strip down and sit with me inside, but there was absolutely NO erotic component.  He is uncut and has a perfect body.  But to lead me to that point was beyond frustrating.  I would have paid whatever he wanted to go further.  But it just did not happen.  He is trying to be an actor and he has a girlfriend.  Also, he is definitely eastern European.  We talked about it.  I cannot remember the country he mentioned.  But I know it was one of the Slavic ones. 
If you like being frustrated by straight guys, then he may be the guy for you.  Not for me though.