Simon Suraci

Some might, but I've never ask for pics for the simple reason is a lot of men lien privacy and discretion, which I completely understand 

I dunno, as a client with a new guy I usually provide basic stats (height, weight, body type) and a headshot, usually after the appointment is made.  I do this because if roles were reversed, I think I'd want some idea of who was showing up at my door.  And as @DWnyc indicates above, if anything about me makes a provider not want to see me, I'd rather save the fee to spend elsewhere.
(I hasten to add that my perspective is from a position of privilege.  Nobody is going to reject me because my ancestry is mostly Irish.  Men of color, with disabilities or other special considerations have a completely different experience of bias, and I acknowledge that.)
I absolutely don't expect comments or compliments on my appearance, that's not why I send it.  However, I take the comments from providers above to heart, and may have to rethink my policy if it comes off creepy or needy on my part.

@Simon Suraci, the clue that I was speaking hyperbolically was “my cynicism.” 😜 

My cynicism says this is the case 9:10 times…
 

Nope - I will accurately describe myself but will not provide a photo. Since I know what the provider looks like I’ve never had a problem meeting them in a public place 

Absolutely reasonable for public meets and buzzing a client in. HOWEVER, I do think hiring a provider is different than a hookup app. That being said, I would expect more than "pic?" I assume a seasoned, professional provider would say what they mean, and mean what they say. I would envision something like "I will have to view you on the building sec cam and buzz you in, so I need at least a face pic if you want an incall."

If a provider can’t or won’t give me their usual service and leave me unsatisfied because of that, I’d rather not waste my money on them and better to clear that up before an appointment is made. 
I’d just they rather state their criteria in their profiles. But of course they know that will make them look like a holes and they would lose business from a much broader segment than they are singling out. 
If they require photos for their security or any other issues, let them state that too and apply it universally. And see where it gets them in terms of inbound inquiries. 

It happened to me once and rung alarm bells. This was a provider I contacted through RM in Munich last year. All his photos were 3-5 years old and he refused to send anything more recent, just said "I still look like this". Then, once we'd agreed a time he asked for a photo (he was coming to me, so no security cam etc. reason). When I said no, he launched into a massive homophobic rant.
Bullet dodged...

Let’s add the other factor even though this is uncomfortable for some to address: provider prejudice (“preference”) based on race, age, weight etc. 
One giveaway on if motives are innocent (eg security) vs something less pleasant is: when is the picture requested? Is it after everything has been agreed including price and time and just an admin detaiL? Or is it prior to deciding price or even if the appointment will happen at all? 
The client is hiring based primarily on appearance so will typically want to see what the provider looks like. Does the provider need to know what the client looks like in order to provide service? we have seen divergent views whenever this topic has come up before. Every provider can do as they wish,  but if it’s a business (rather than monetizing a hookup that could happen anyway) and providers want professional respect, they should not discriminate so not require a photo, which I suspect is behind 90%+ of requests. 
Thankfully, the vast majority of providers don’t have this requirement (which reiterates that even the nonoffensive drivers aren’t felt by the industry as a whole). 

I've had a few ask for a photo. Most of the time I just say I'm not comfortable with that and they are okay with it. A few times it was a deal breaker and so I didn't pursue. 
Be careful there are a lot of scammers out there. 

The odd time I will send a photo of my face to a provider unsolicited but only after we have established a date for our meeting and engaged in a fairly extensive exchange of info about ourselves. Sometimes this will be after they send me more revealing pictures of themselves where these haven't been included in their RM ad.
Without exception these meetings have gone well and sometimes led to further encounters. Sometimes the provider has followed up about getting together again in the future. I've never had a negative repercussion but I suppose there could be a first time.

The prior replies I accord with. It really should not be necessary. I never ask for pictures and prefer not to receive a pic of the client. I agree with @Simon Suraci in that it usually implies they want me to comment, or offer them a free session because they’re so hot. That’s never going to happen. Most of the times a prospective client sends a pic unsolicited then they never go on to book a session. 
Find a guy who doesn’t ask you for a pic. Chances are he’s doing the job because he enjoys it regardless of the clients looks etc rather than effectively monetising his sex life. That kind of sex worker isn’t likely to be much good. 

You never need to provide a photo. A provider asking for one is indicative that they are new to the business, possibly unprofessional, or straight up want to monetize their sex life by picking and choosing whoever they would otherwise be willing to sleep with and charging.
When a client offers a photo unsolicited, I get a little wary because it becomes an invitation to comment on it, like the client is expecting me to affirm how attractive they are (even when they are very unattractive). Attractive clients are particularly problematic because they expect me to fall all over myself trying to make them happy, or expect me to offer them discounts or free services. It puts me in an awkward position because I either have to say nothing or lie to them, whether they be attractive or unattractive. I prefer to avoid the whole asking for validation component. I’m going to see the client regardless of how they look, so it’s really unnecessary.

It can’t be 9/10, otherwise you would not have so many providers working for so long or so many positive discussions of providers here.
The whole pic exchange scenario is common among new and inexperienced providers, and among those who don’t last long. Your experience may be tainted by all the constant new faces who disappear as quickly as they showed up.
Good, reputable providers know how to handle themselves professionally. When you choose a reputable provider, either by info from the forums, a recommendation, or other source, you’re way less likely to get someone behaving unprofessionally.

It can’t be 9/10, otherwise you would not have so many providers working for so long or so many positive discussions of providers here.
The whole pic exchange scenario is common among new and inexperienced providers, and among those who don’t last long. Your experience may be tainted by all the constant new faces who disappear as quickly as they showed up.
Good, reputable providers know how to handle themselves professionally. When you choose a reputable provider, either by info from the forums, a recommendation, or other source, you’re way less likely to get someone behaving unprofessionally.

It can’t be 9/10, otherwise you would not have so many providers working for so long or so many positive discussions of providers here.
The whole pic exchange scenario is common among new and inexperienced providers, and among those who don’t last long. Your experience may be tainted by all the constant new faces who disappear as quickly as they showed up.
Good, reputable providers know how to handle themselves professionally. When you choose a reputable provider, either by info from the forums, a recommendation, or other source, you’re way less likely to get someone behaving unprofessionally.

That can be arranged 😊 I’m in Dallas through July 2023, then off to San Diego starting August 2023.

You never need to provide a photo. A provider asking for one is indicative that they are new to the business, possibly unprofessional, or straight up want to monetize their sex life by picking and choosing whoever they would otherwise be willing to sleep with and charging.
When a client offers a photo unsolicited, I get a little wary because it becomes an invitation to comment on it, like the client is expecting me to affirm how attractive they are (even when they are very unattractive). Attractive clients are particularly problematic because they expect me to fall all over myself trying to make them happy, or expect me to offer them discounts or free services. It puts me in an awkward position because I either have to say nothing or lie to them, whether they be attractive or unattractive. I prefer to avoid the whole asking for validation component. I’m going to see the client regardless of how they look, so it’s really unnecessary.

You never need to provide a photo. A provider asking for one is indicative that they are new to the business, possibly unprofessional, or straight up want to monetize their sex life by picking and choosing whoever they would otherwise be willing to sleep with and charging.
When a client offers a photo unsolicited, I get a little wary because it becomes an invitation to comment on it, like the client is expecting me to affirm how attractive they are (even when they are very unattractive). Attractive clients are particularly problematic because they expect me to fall all over myself trying to make them happy, or expect me to offer them discounts or free services. It puts me in an awkward position because I either have to say nothing or lie to them, whether they be attractive or unattractive. I prefer to avoid the whole asking for validation component. I’m going to see the client regardless of how they look, so it’s really unnecessary.

You never need to provide a photo. A provider asking for one is indicative that they are new to the business, possibly unprofessional, or straight up want to monetize their sex life by picking and choosing whoever they would otherwise be willing to sleep with and charging.
When a client offers a photo unsolicited, I get a little wary because it becomes an invitation to comment on it, like the client is expecting me to affirm how attractive they are (even when they are very unattractive). Attractive clients are particularly problematic because they expect me to fall all over myself trying to make them happy, or expect me to offer them discounts or free services. It puts me in an awkward position because I either have to say nothing or lie to them, whether they be attractive or unattractive. I prefer to avoid the whole asking for validation component. I’m going to see the client regardless of how they look, so it’s really unnecessary.

It's unusual but not necessarily unheard of.  At the end of the day, if you don't feel comfortable with sharing it, don't.  
I've seen a couple people ask, but not require it.  (And I've seen more providers than I care to admit!)  Remember...  at the end of the day, the person on the other side doesn't know what to expect either.  Most seasoned/professional providers won't bother asking and just go with the flow.  Some newer and/or younger providers are of the Grinder era where swapping photos is a common thing.  Some might even be trying to turn their sex life into a revenue stream.

Thanks for the info Simon

I’ve seen Marc at his place in Dallas. Nice guy, attractive. His pics make his body look kind of weird and shorter than he actually is, can’t put my finger on why, but he looks better in person.
As for the massage, he gives a more slow, sensual style massage. Very enjoyable. I won’t repeat since I prefer a more deep tissue sports style massage, but I can recommend him for a good long, unrushed sensual massage session. For extras, PM me. 
His apartment is ok, nothing special, pretty basic.
He does photography on the side.

For any  Black American masseurs or providers reading this, take it from me: do not charge less than white providers are charging. If you are in a territory where most of the hiring demographics  are racists, (which if they would try to pay you less because you are melanated, then they very much are) you aren’t going to book much in that location to make it worthwhile anyway no matter how much you lower your rates, so it’s a bad business decision to lower your rates. You are better off moving to a territory where men hire hot men regardless of race. ALSO, there is an abundance of men who will pay you top dollar BECAUSE you are hot AND Black! Those are the clients you want! Work smarter not harder! I have never accepted less than I deserved, and neither should you. Do not sell yourself short (pun intended) 
This is my last contribution to this forum but I wanted to leave this behind.