Your Man in Arlington

19 hours ago, nycman said:

"Looking for a sugar daddy …..Not looking for sex…"

I don’t think he understands the concept.

Should someone tell him that his sugar-daddy-to-be is looking for sex?

8 hours ago, Vegas_Millennial said:

Over the course of 15+ years and 100s of masseurs hired, I have had a 99.8% success rate of providers showing, and I never had a verbal conversation before hand.  I do research on these forums and I never pay up front.  Those two tips alone have served me well in having quality experiences when I hire.

Yes. I'm Gen X and the last thing I want to do is call a provider on the phone for a real-time conversation before or as part of scheduling an appointment and don't think I've every had a single no show. +1 on those two tips.

Looks like he's a former Corbin Fisher model, and there's a another thread on him here:

On 12/5/2023 at 5:32 AM, liubit said:

I got my 6th Pfizer covid shot (bivalent) yesterday. No adverse reaction, this time not even a sore arm. 

I got my 6th shot at the end of September. After having fairly strong reactions to shots 1 - 4, 5 was much better and this most recent was barely anything.

On 12/2/2023 at 8:17 PM, DrownedBoy said:

The guy who popped my cherry at 19 insisted on playing Lauper's "True Colors" when he deflowered me. He meant well, but it was so corny that I wanted to LMAO 😄

The guy who first seduced me into my first experience topping ("I need help with my computer") had Sade's Diamond Life playing when I showed up to his dorm room. I think this is an improvement from Cindi Lauper? 🤷‍♂️

I messaged him and was left in the seen zone. And, yes, I had figured out that none of the photos were remotely recent. 🤷‍♂️

5 hours ago, maninsoma said:

I read the concern to be more about the potential for blackmail, though, and it doesn't matter if the camera angle is bad or the client is the ugliest man in the world.  If the footage contains recognizable images, someone could attempt to use it to extort money from the client. 

I would worry about this more from a problematic "provider" than the AirBnB host.

4 hours ago, Luv2play said:

I would never rent an Airbnb for myself as I just prefer the convenience of good hotels and all the amenities they offer.

I have given AirBnB's a few chances, but they have never measured up on the QPR for me and have since given up them. Why do you need sheets that fit your bed or actual curtains over the windows in your five star rated "luxury" apartment? 🤷‍♂️

The reviewing process makes it almost impossible to leave an an honest review.

I can count the number of times I've produced pre-cum in my 50+ year life on two hands, and they always been masturbating or during a long massage. Maybe that's why I am practically obsessed with pre-cum, and a provider who has it shoots (ha!) straight (ha!) to the top of my list.

Never considered the inverse situation you present, though. I think I would mention it in my RM profile and again when confirming a meeting, if it's that noticeable.

On 8/13/2023 at 2:08 PM, TexasTop said:

Update: Yes, he was quite fun. Will hope to share more of my DNA with him next time I'm in DC.

Following up: Agree the above! Except, I fortunately live in the DMV. PMs are open.

3 hours ago, Firestarter said:

No matter what number I put in, at most, I only see a name. I don't see reviews.

Reviews/warnings will appear only if other providers (or people in general) have left notes.

I'm guessing most numbers will have no notes as they probably haven't made trouble for a provider?

See the above screen shot with the "21 user reports" line.

5 minutes ago, Wanderoz said:

he freaked out and said by when I texted him about what erotic includes

Thanks for the update. Wonder why he advertises on RMass if he can't answer simple questions. 🤷‍♂️

16 hours ago, BobPS said:

A providers personal life is none of my business. I don’t ask my accountant, my insurance agent, my handyman etc. about their personal lives. When I worked, I would’ve been offended if one of my clients asked me about my personal life because it had absolutely nothing to do with the professional service I provided. If a provider chooses to share some of his personal life with me, that is certainly OK, but I don’t ask about it.

This is just how I look at it, too.

In conversations where I mentioned that I was married and my husband was in the loop about my activities, a couple of providers have shared that they were also in a committed relationship with partners who knew. For me, this was a positive signal about their own appropriate boundaries and expectations about our meeting.

Saw him earlier this year, PM me for more info.

And, now profile is disabled "Billy_mass is no longer available on RentMasseur."

8 hours ago, liubit said:

Is that a golem in the lake?

4 minutes ago, BonVivant said:

Ask for a face pic in the DM. You might receive one. 🤯

This is what I will be doing before my next trip to NYC and can commit to a meeting. It's always worked for me before. 👍

Still, doesn't seem like anyone's had an experience to report back on.

1 hour ago, Simon Suraci said:

Here is a link to some relevant info on RentMasseur defining therapeutic, sensual, and erotic massage.

Erotic Massage: "Close by spooning together and connecting your heart centers with love, compassion and gratitude. Help them to sit up and end with a Heart Salutation. Offer them water or juice to drink and a chocolate or piece of fruit to eat. You may want to share what this experience was like for you. How was it to give and/or receive in this way?"

I consider myself fairly crunchy but this was 😳.

On 11/18/2023 at 7:48 PM, froman209 said:

One of the bullet points on his profile is "Best Versatile Performer AWARD | 2020/2022/2023". 

This implies he does porn.  Anyone recognize him?  

Considering he is a "Rent.Men Exclusive," I think there is a good chance he gave himself those awards. (As far as I could find, he's never done porn.)

2 hours ago, Alexphilly said:

You are right I have that feeling like why am I blocking a potential client ? . Then sometimes a little frustration gets to me and it says block lol 😂 I’m quite sure I have lost a few potentials one never knows , which made me think if they are viewing my pix (“possibly”rubbing one out why not start a onlyfans also)  it would be difficult for me to manage a bunch of platforms guys have compensated me for custom videos and pix . So then again I may consider doing a onlyfans.

A couple of providers I've hired have OnlyFans accounts which I subscribed to before hiring as part of researching and deciding to go with them. For $10 or so, it's worth it before making a larger investment.

If you have the bandwidth for it, I think it could both be a way to make some money from guys who just want to rub one out and as marketing for your services.

3 hours ago, Alexphilly said:

Hi I haven’t been posting for awhile as for me if you are viewing me over 10 times and I reach out to you and no reply back I’m definitely blocking you because obviously that person is just rubbing one out to pictures, but that’s just me

Why elimate a potentially good customer based on an assumption?

I had looked at the profile of my current regular over the course of a year so, so many times before reaching out because I had just moved across the country, completely upended my life, and had to come to an agreement with my husband about our situation. When I told him how long I had waited to get in touch during the first time we got together and he told him what a great time I was having, he laughed it off with a "Why did you wait so long?" 🤷‍♂️

38 minutes ago, Luv2play said:

I am always checking out providers on RM just because I am curious when I see their reviews and want to look at their profiles. Doesn't mean I am interested in meeting them, most often because they either don't appeal to me when I read their profiles or because they are in remote markets.

This, plus I'm going through their reviews to see if it's a good match.

I don't like providers messaging me just because I viewed their profile, so I have the "do not track me" setting turned on. It's kind of like a store owner rushing out to sell me something just because I paused in front of their window for a minute.

19 hours ago, Thomas_Belgium said:

Yesterday, I found a "snowballing" video (Corbin Fisher: Jace snowballs Baker), according to CF one doesn't have to felch to snowball.

I usually think of snowballing on the context of oral/CIM.

Looks like he grew 2", his now lists his height as 6'7".

5 minutes ago, Luv2play said:

I don’t recall seeing an ad specifically worded like that. Can you cite a case on RM?

Looking back... it the wording in both of these is "special experience", so that might make a difference: travelxlboy and Adam_Maxwell.

My bad!