Your Man in Arlington

3 hours ago, musclestuduws said:

It seems the ad is gone.

Ad still appears for me under link above: https://www.mintboys.com/male-escorts/new-york-city/6255b303c2c4dac79e8c752d

6 hours ago, marylander1940 said:

Is he 25? 

I wouldn't age him at 25, but he could have had a rough life?

4 hours ago, Wanderoz said:

Ad doesn't read like English is his first language, as several of the sentences just don't work.

Definitely not native English speaker, and he could do better using whatever translation app he's chosen. Bugra is Turkish name, so likely Turkish?

1 hour ago, ShortCutie7 said:

I wouldn’t even click on his profile just by virtue of his use of “youngboy” in his username.

Spoiler alert: he's not a "youngboy," more like a fully-bearded muscle cub.

He can "can model for your model?" And, not that NYC is running sting ops, but his profile text sounds the most like a sting bait I think I've ever read.

5 hours ago, DrownedBoy said:

I'm significantly younger and skinnier than most clients (or at least the clients who hire my regulars).

Nobody has ever offered me a discount for that reason alone.

I've always been young looking for my age, and while not skinny, I'm in not-horrible shape.

And, while I've often been told: I'm handsome, have soft skin, a nice ass, a hot cock/hole, or smell good, I've never been offered a discount... ever.

Which is perfect for me. I don't want a discount, I feel it would make everything weirder than it already is?

8 hours ago, Cliff said:

Whenever I see a provider state “Negative” instead of “Negative on PReP,” that’s a clear indication to me that while he may have tested negative at some point in his life, he is not on PReP. I also assume, just to be somewhat sensible and realistic about it, that all providers may be positive and not necessarily honest about it, and I base my actions and behavior on the most clear headed thinking I can muster. My two cents. 

I would agree about not taking anyone's listing at face value re: negative/PReP/positive. But, the very few providers I've met who have listed "Negative" rather than "Negative on PReP" on RM have actually proffered to be on PReP during further conversation, but just not wanting to publish that as such, FWIW. (I know for a fact I'm on PReP, taking that horse pill each morning, which is the most important part of the equation.)

20 minutes ago, marylander1940 said:

Was he interactive?

IMO, yes. He was on the "professional" side, but I do look for kissing, affection, etc... If anyone wants more details, feel free to PM.

Depending on how deep the reference is meant, quite a controversial choice for a profile handle!

In my initial contact, I let a provider know that they can learn more about me from my profile, which contains my up-to-date stats, what I'm into, and a little descriptive text about that. If it's by text message, if requested by the provider, I'll include a link to my profile.

I've found that all (or most all) providers view this in the course of arranging a meeting. And, when I just don't hear back from a provider, I'm guess there's a good chance that something in my profile wasn't a match for them. Better to find out sooner rather than later!

13 hours ago, BOZO T CLOWN said:

He's uncut 😑.
Russian? Eastern European?

He's born and raised American, and afaict genuinely part Native American as described in his profile.

I think he used to advertise as Vfit_afp (especially based on the OnlyFans link in his profile). There's past a thread here:

As of now, "Profile expired."

Images lead back to a German onlyfans/twitter profile, so could just be lifted from there? Or, he could have set up a profile just to direct inquiries to his OF page? No indication on his Twitter that he's in the US, though. 🤷‍♂️

Update: Found his Instagram, and all three images could easily have been lifted from that.

23 hours ago, Your Man in Arlington said:

Left me in the seen zone a couple of weeks ago.

To clarify: I sent him a serious inquiry and after reading it (the double-check "seen") he never replied.

Left me in the seen zone a couple of weeks ago.

10 minutes ago, Km411 said:

I’m a big fan of your looks, as stated earlier on this thread. But commenting on people’s physiques is kind of the point of this site.

It can be one aspect of this site, but I also think there is a big difference between something along the lines of "not for me" vs "below average."

On 2/21/2024 at 9:13 PM, steve10025 said:

I've seen him several times. He is super nice, exactly as advertised, friendly prompt straightforward only I didn't know he was into so much kink lol! highly recommended.

Agree with the above. Also, a total stallion.

I can confirm that he looks like his current pics. And, while I wouldn't say he's 21, he certainly doesn't look like he's reached his 30's yet, either. Very attractive guy, IMO.

1 hour ago, KensingtonHomo said:

He's not an escort. He wants a sugar daddy. 

I had that impression, but thought that's what seeking.com was for. 🤷‍♂️

Not to mention the misfire into the wrong thread:

I was able to connect with Sawyer while we were both in NYC, and I had a superlative experience with him. He is everything you see in his profile and I would highly recommend him if that's what you're looking for.

If you have *specific questions*, I'm happy to try and answer them by DM. But, since his profile is accurate, I don't have anything to add on the general "what was it like" level.

7 hours ago, Silver Spring said:

Who is Andrew?

🙄 See:

Messaged him, but was left in the seen zone. His profile text does imply he's looking for one single "individual"... so there's that.

1 hour ago, The Big Guy said:

Given the number of providers I have been with that spent much of the appointment looking at the phone, I have a hard time believing they cannot answer in a 3 or 4 hour time period.  

I have fortunately only really experienced this with one provider (others have checked their phone in limited way after playtime), but I hear of this complaint often. I hope it remains the exception for me. ☝️

3 minutes ago, lanyc said:

Question: How do you hire someone based on those nondescript, generic pictures? I can't tell anything about him. I mean, I like the use of the Oxford comma as much as the next guy but... I can't base a hire on impressive punctuation. 

I found his profile text interesting enough (brain research and kissing), that after an initial introductory contact, I asked for photos that showed his face and he was more than happy to provide them. He turned out to be a very good looking guy IMO.

So, yes, I will reach out to a faceless profile if the text is engaging enough and then request face photos once it's established we're both serious.