TorontoDrew

I was with a guy about 20 or so years ago. He still advertises with the same pictures. I haven't hired him again.

I think if I was going to hire for a travel companion it would have to be someone like @BenjaminNicholas. Someone a bit older, more worldly and still has an amazing body. I would want a provider who likes going to museums and art galleries and not clubs. I also want one with a great body that I can worship before getting wounded into the mattress. This is likely a niche market.

If a provider responds to me on Grindr I automatically assume I'm being catfished.

I love to eat ass. Too much hair can be a problem but I like a furry ass.

I have a provider in Toronto who fucks me in the common areas of a bathhouse. It gives me the satisfaction of being watched and the safety of not getting into trouble for it. https://rent.men/MarkBlueXXX I have also met a couple of providers where we didn't close the curtains so the neighbors could watch. Not on the ground floor though.

Too many negatives for me. I'd try someone else.

I use a texting app in the secure folder of my phone. Same as RM. There are no notifications for anyone to see. I also have separate Twitter and Instagram accounts in the secure area.

Lol. I meant provider reccomendations

It's hard not to fall at least a little bit for someone who provides a truly intimate experience. Trev, Toprated_MASCDOM, was great at it. He always greeted me with a hug and a kiss. We talked for a while where we shared a bit about our lives. Then we'd go to the bedroom where he took command and made me feel desirable again as we locked eyes as he topped me. I always left walking on air. Two things always kept me from falling for him. First - I paid him a lot of money as I left, proving that this was a business transaction. Second - reading here how so many others had the same experience proved that I wasn't special. He did the same for many others. It's just business. Remember that.

Same for me in Toronto. I browsed the site the other day and didn't see anyone I would hire.

I have stopped tipping every time. Now it is only my regular or for an outstanding time. no more tipping for normal service. At $300 to $350 an hour it's already a lot of money. I'd be more inclined to tip for a multi hour session where the second hour is discounted.

Time to move on.

Any recommendations from your sexcation?

I've had a couple providers cancel last minute (after I've started prepping) and another two just ignore my initial message so not too bad. On the plus side I've turned a semi-regular to a regular and had good experiences with a couple new guys. Now if I can find another top for a threeway with Nick, 2025 will be a great year.

I rarely use it but just checked and couldn't connect.

I was chatting with a provider recently and he asked if I was into findom. I nearly laughed. Lost interest in the provider as well.

Travel destination is back to Toronto

I was supposed to meet him last year. I waited in the lobby of the hotel for a half hour unable to contact him. I left. He messaged me over three hours late saying he'd just woken up. He said his phone died so his alarm didn't go off. Our appointment was for noon. His apology was "sorry, I didn't get your message". Definitely No from me.

I have very fond memories of Heaven, especially the duo shower shows.

He had Toronto listed as his travel location so I chatted with him to arrange something. Then he disappeared off the Toronto grid. Guess he's after a bigger payday in NYC.

I prefer to see a clear full body picture. I understand why some don't provide a face picture.

I remember hiring out of the back of NOW magazine in Toronto. No pics but I seem to remember only meeting hot guys.

My experience with communicating with guys with ads like this is that they will provide escort services for those they consider attractive and massage for the ones they don't.

His butt was delicious 😋

https://rent.men/Peter_xxx I thought I'd give a new guy with no reviews a chance today. Our session was very easy to set up. Peter is a passionate kisser and took charge right away. He was dominant, without being rough, and was very verbal. He has nice sized equipment which fit everywhere quite nicely. He gave me a tasty treat at the end too. Peter did everything I asked.