Dave

I owned a walk in medical center back 25 years ago before they appeared on every corner. In looking for part time physicians to man to office, I always tried to find good looking young men. Prior to opening my office, my sister had mentioned to me that she went into a medical facility a bit further away from her home than the nearest one, because the doctor was very good looking. My teenage niece chimed in that she also liked going there because of that. Now they did say that he was friendly and competent but admitted the older doctor at the nearby facility was also competent and friendly. So they made the extra trip just because the doctor was good looking.
With my business it became clear that there were clients coming in to see a specific doctor and that they would wait to come in just to be seen by that particular doctor. There were definitely recommendations made based on the good looks of the doctor.
I admit to using a particular gym with a particularly good looking clientele or desk personnel. I will drive a bit to go to a gas station with hot looking attendants (NJ is one of the few states that still requires gas station attendants) and I get lunch from a restaurant that has hot deliverymen.
People go out of their way to interact with people they find attractive. It is like taking the scenic route through life.

Not an original idea. Let me show a much, much better precedent:
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You should have made this a poll:

Yes

No

Depends on what he charges.

I LOVE YOU, TRISTAN BALDWIN!
honestly, you are a shining star in this industry. between your work/life balance, publicly discussing your weak points as well as your strengths, not taking shit from people when it's flung your way, having a sense of humor - and a brain, and just being an all-around-nice guy... dude, I really do wish more 'scorts were like you.
 
and you, Big-n-Tall: good fukkin' job for keeping an eagle eye out, on youngboldone! you wrote, "Aren’t you the guy who made a post trying to pit @Dave and @tristanbaldwin against each other and not only caught flack from a lot of people on the board... even prompted both escorts to respond? TB went as far as to dispute your scheduling claims."
 
just finished my ny to chicago overland tour, and arrived back in bali last night. I had a great time with the ladies and gents who hired me along the way (some of you are readers here!). seriously, every single appointment was great... and that doesn't always happen for escorts within a 4 week period. anyway... rock on, TB and BnT - just wanted to commend you both!
 
xxx,
Dave
 

I LOVE YOU, TRISTAN BALDWIN!
honestly, you are a shining star in this industry. between your work/life balance, publicly discussing your weak points as well as your strengths, not taking shit from people when it's flung your way, having a sense of humor - and a brain, and just being an all-around-nice guy... dude, I really do wish more 'scorts were like you.
 
and you, Big-n-Tall: good fukkin' job for keeping an eagle eye out, on youngboldone! you wrote, "Aren’t you the guy who made a post trying to pit @Dave and @tristanbaldwin against each other and not only caught flack from a lot of people on the board... even prompted both escorts to respond? TB went as far as to dispute your scheduling claims."
 
just finished my ny to chicago overland tour, and arrived back in bali last night. I had a great time with the ladies and gents who hired me along the way (some of you are readers here!). seriously, every single appointment was great... and that doesn't always happen for escorts within a 4 week period. anyway... rock on, TB and BnT - just wanted to commend you both!
 
xxx,
Dave
 

I LOVE YOU, TRISTAN BALDWIN!
honestly, you are a shining star in this industry. between your work/life balance, publicly discussing your weak points as well as your strengths, not taking shit from people when it's flung your way, having a sense of humor - and a brain, and just being an all-around-nice guy... dude, I really do wish more 'scorts were like you.
 
and you, Big-n-Tall: good fukkin' job for keeping an eagle eye out, on youngboldone! you wrote, "Aren’t you the guy who made a post trying to pit @Dave and @tristanbaldwin against each other and not only caught flack from a lot of people on the board... even prompted both escorts to respond? TB went as far as to dispute your scheduling claims."
 
just finished my ny to chicago overland tour, and arrived back in bali last night. I had a great time with the ladies and gents who hired me along the way (some of you are readers here!). seriously, every single appointment was great... and that doesn't always happen for escorts within a 4 week period. anyway... rock on, TB and BnT - just wanted to commend you both!
 
xxx,
Dave
 

I LOVE YOU, TRISTAN BALDWIN!
honestly, you are a shining star in this industry. between your work/life balance, publicly discussing your weak points as well as your strengths, not taking shit from people when it's flung your way, having a sense of humor - and a brain, and just being an all-around-nice guy... dude, I really do wish more 'scorts were like you.
 
and you, Big-n-Tall: good fukkin' job for keeping an eagle eye out, on youngboldone! you wrote, "Aren’t you the guy who made a post trying to pit @Dave and @tristanbaldwin against each other and not only caught flack from a lot of people on the board... even prompted both escorts to respond? TB went as far as to dispute your scheduling claims."
 
just finished my ny to chicago overland tour, and arrived back in bali last night. I had a great time with the ladies and gents who hired me along the way (some of you are readers here!). seriously, every single appointment was great... and that doesn't always happen for escorts within a 4 week period. anyway... rock on, TB and BnT - just wanted to commend you both!
 
xxx,
Dave
 

I LOVE YOU, TRISTAN BALDWIN!
honestly, you are a shining star in this industry. between your work/life balance, publicly discussing your weak points as well as your strengths, not taking shit from people when it's flung your way, having a sense of humor - and a brain, and just being an all-around-nice guy... dude, I really do wish more 'scorts were like you.
 
and you, Big-n-Tall: good fukkin' job for keeping an eagle eye out, on youngboldone! you wrote, "Aren’t you the guy who made a post trying to pit @Dave and @tristanbaldwin against each other and not only caught flack from a lot of people on the board... even prompted both escorts to respond? TB went as far as to dispute your scheduling claims."
 
just finished my ny to chicago overland tour, and arrived back in bali last night. I had a great time with the ladies and gents who hired me along the way (some of you are readers here!). seriously, every single appointment was great... and that doesn't always happen for escorts within a 4 week period. anyway... rock on, TB and BnT - just wanted to commend you both!
 
xxx,
Dave
 

I LOVE YOU, TRISTAN BALDWIN!
honestly, you are a shining star in this industry. between your work/life balance, publicly discussing your weak points as well as your strengths, not taking shit from people when it's flung your way, having a sense of humor - and a brain, and just being an all-around-nice guy... dude, I really do wish more 'scorts were like you.
 
and you, Big-n-Tall: good fukkin' job for keeping an eagle eye out, on youngboldone! you wrote, "Aren’t you the guy who made a post trying to pit @Dave and @tristanbaldwin against each other and not only caught flack from a lot of people on the board... even prompted both escorts to respond? TB went as far as to dispute your scheduling claims."
 
just finished my ny to chicago overland tour, and arrived back in bali last night. I had a great time with the ladies and gents who hired me along the way (some of you are readers here!). seriously, every single appointment was great... and that doesn't always happen for escorts within a 4 week period. anyway... rock on, TB and BnT - just wanted to commend you both!
 
xxx,
Dave
 

Anne Frank, a nun, and a hooker are up in an attic...
 
sorry. tasteless.
but since I did play Otto Frank in The Diary of Anne Frank a few years ago, and had audiences streaming tears at the end of the play... perhaps inserting a little humor here is ok? I mean, I just learned my daughter's been writing smut. I could use a little comic relief...
 
sorry. tasteless, again.

hahaha! best advice I've heard in a while.
 
 
nynakedtop, I'm sorry that happened to you.
 

hahaha! best advice I've heard in a while.
 
 
nynakedtop, I'm sorry that happened to you.
 

gosh - what a strange feeling I have.
 
I went to pay for my m4rn ad today - something I've actually grappled with doing more than a few times over the years. and realized - it's gone. I kind of feel like the house fell on the wicked witch of the west. man, those people running it were really difficult to deal with! as an escort, dealing with them ranged from poor communication, to heaps of attitude, to their refusing to publish ads - as well as refusing to tell us why (that was shit they pulled 6 and 8 years ago). their advertising prices were too high, and they refused to let us share parts about ourselves that would make it easy for the end user (people interested in hiring) to make decisions. at various times over the years, we couldn't list our rates, our interests (I mean even words like "vanilla" were banned), our naked photos, our contact details, and of course, our websites. to add to all that, if an escort ceased advertising with them, they would not remove his ad. instead, the guy's ad stayed up... people would reach out to contact him with the "contact me" button, but m4rn held the messages, until that escort paid up again! result was that good people who reached out to an escort (many no doubt already having a high emotional challenge in doing so, for various reasons) got no reply from said escort. it would have seemed that the escort was blowing the potential client off!
this fukkin' killed me. obviously not all clients are so fragile in their shopping, but I've had a fair number of men and women with low self esteem. when they contacted me, they were ready for me to tell them I didn't want to see them. I'm proud to say I never actually felt like that at the outset, with anyone... but I know this shit can be hard for some. my point is that what men4rentnow did was a true disservice to the industry.
 
now, how does an escort advertise himself, when there's only a few platforms that are truly well known? y'all can see where I'm going with this... to me, advertising on m4rn didn't really seem like a choice. we chose to suck it up (no pun there) and deal with a bunch of dickheads who (rumor had it) were straight, and judging frrom their behavior, excessively money-focused.
 
ultimately, I'm glad they're gone. I'm not glad about how another golden age of freer sexual pursuits seems to be historically marked - much like the demise of 42nd street... or the closing chapter on gay cruising in the 1970s... or the end of a certain kind of porn lifestyle in the 1980s. or the key parties of the 1950s... wait, did those things ever really exist?
 
anyway. Mocha, I like your take on this... it's rather evolutionary, which isn't really an angle I'd have pegged you for in the past. well, one thing is true - all things do change.
 
short term, I'm challenged a bit, because I was planning on using the wicked witch to advertise my upcoming USA tour. I doubt it'll hurt me much, but I feel for my brothers who relied on m4rn for a signifcant portion of their income. god, when will this industry get decriminalized??? it would help workers and hirers alike in so many ways... and financially, it would help the nation, too. but there's just too much "morality" still in play.
 
as I write this, the sun's going down over the rice field, and I'm tapping this out on my laptop on my hanging bamboo-and-glass table. many of you know I travel all over the world for clients... but did you know you can also come see me here in bali? let's spend some time together, and let me show you this amazing island... and some other things, too
 
 

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gosh - what a strange feeling I have.
 
I went to pay for my m4rn ad today - something I've actually grappled with doing more than a few times over the years. and realized - it's gone. I kind of feel like the house fell on the wicked witch of the west. man, those people running it were really difficult to deal with! as an escort, dealing with them ranged from poor communication, to heaps of attitude, to their refusing to publish ads - as well as refusing to tell us why (that was shit they pulled 6 and 8 years ago). their advertising prices were too high, and they refused to let us share parts about ourselves that would make it easy for the end user (people interested in hiring) to make decisions. at various times over the years, we couldn't list our rates, our interests (I mean even words like "vanilla" were banned), our naked photos, our contact details, and of course, our websites. to add to all that, if an escort ceased advertising with them, they would not remove his ad. instead, the guy's ad stayed up... people would reach out to contact him with the "contact me" button, but m4rn held the messages, until that escort paid up again! result was that good people who reached out to an escort (many no doubt already having a high emotional challenge in doing so, for various reasons) got no reply from said escort. it would have seemed that the escort was blowing the potential client off!
this fukkin' killed me. obviously not all clients are so fragile in their shopping, but I've had a fair number of men and women with low self esteem. when they contacted me, they were ready for me to tell them I didn't want to see them. I'm proud to say I never actually felt like that at the outset, with anyone... but I know this shit can be hard for some. my point is that what men4rentnow did was a true disservice to the industry.
 
now, how does an escort advertise himself, when there's only a few platforms that are truly well known? y'all can see where I'm going with this... to me, advertising on m4rn didn't really seem like a choice. we chose to suck it up (no pun there) and deal with a bunch of dickheads who (rumor had it) were straight, and judging frrom their behavior, excessively money-focused.
 
ultimately, I'm glad they're gone. I'm not glad about how another golden age of freer sexual pursuits seems to be historically marked - much like the demise of 42nd street... or the closing chapter on gay cruising in the 1970s... or the end of a certain kind of porn lifestyle in the 1980s. or the key parties of the 1950s... wait, did those things ever really exist?
 
anyway. Mocha, I like your take on this... it's rather evolutionary, which isn't really an angle I'd have pegged you for in the past. well, one thing is true - all things do change.
 
short term, I'm challenged a bit, because I was planning on using the wicked witch to advertise my upcoming USA tour. I doubt it'll hurt me much, but I feel for my brothers who relied on m4rn for a signifcant portion of their income. god, when will this industry get decriminalized??? it would help workers and hirers alike in so many ways... and financially, it would help the nation, too. but there's just too much "morality" still in play.
 
as I write this, the sun's going down over the rice field, and I'm tapping this out on my laptop on my hanging bamboo-and-glass table. many of you know I travel all over the world for clients... but did you know you can also come see me here in bali? let's spend some time together, and let me show you this amazing island... and some other things, too
 
 

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Hello Forum Readers.
 
I’m about to embark on a tour of some of the Southeastern USA states. This is not something I do often, as I’m now based in Bali. To prevent any misunderstandings, I’d like to clarify details about me traveling, and clients booking appointments.
 
If you want to book me in a location where I already have travel arranged, you can pick any length for a session you’d like.
 
On the other hand, if you want me to divert my trip and come to a location that’s a couple hours or more away (in travel time), I’d be happy to do so... however, I have to consider the financial feasibility of it all. One of my shorter appointment sessions would probably not be enough for me to justify the trip. On the other hand, a longer appointment (like 6 hours, an overnight, or 24 hours) or even two shorter appointments (like two 3-hour appointments) is something I could likely arrange.
 
Now, if you can’t free up that length of time in your schedule; if you don’t want to pay my rates for a longer appointment; or if we haven’t met before and you have trepidations about spending a longer amount of time with someone you don’t yet know... then those length appointments wouldn’t be an option for you. I totally understand, and I would never pressure you into booking them.
 
I hope that me being direct and clear from the start - whether you get this info from reading this, via one-on-one written communication, or through a phone conversation - will prevent any misunderstandings.
 
Thanks for your understanding.
Dave

Hello Forum Readers.
 
I’m about to embark on a tour of some of the Southeastern USA states. This is not something I do often, as I’m now based in Bali. To prevent any misunderstandings, I’d like to clarify details about me traveling, and clients booking appointments.
 
If you want to book me in a location where I already have travel arranged, you can pick any length for a session you’d like.
 
On the other hand, if you want me to divert my trip and come to a location that’s a couple hours or more away (in travel time), I’d be happy to do so... however, I have to consider the financial feasibility of it all. One of my shorter appointment sessions would probably not be enough for me to justify the trip. On the other hand, a longer appointment (like 6 hours, an overnight, or 24 hours) or even two shorter appointments (like two 3-hour appointments) is something I could likely arrange.
 
Now, if you can’t free up that length of time in your schedule; if you don’t want to pay my rates for a longer appointment; or if we haven’t met before and you have trepidations about spending a longer amount of time with someone you don’t yet know... then those length appointments wouldn’t be an option for you. I totally understand, and I would never pressure you into booking them.
 
I hope that me being direct and clear from the start - whether you get this info from reading this, via one-on-one written communication, or through a phone conversation - will prevent any misunderstandings.
 
Thanks for your understanding.
Dave

These are all great!
 
A year ago, if you had told me some of the things that clients say I'd think there was no way anyone could be so crude. Since then I've had some idle chit-chat with some of my 'new friends' and the things they hear floor me... I can't imagine a situation in which I have so little feeling for someone with whom I want to be intimate that I could say or do things that insensitive. I think you have to have a pretty thick skin and allot of emotional resilience to go thru that and still deliver consistently excellent experiences.

Goofus and Gallant are both on the phone, shopping for escorts they find on Rentboy (by the way, they’re both in their boxers, although Goofus’ pair hasn't been changed in a week and has a brown streak in one section. and it smells.)

Goofus: "Hey, man, I saw your ad on rentboy. How much you charge?"
Gallant: "Hi, how’s it going? We don’t know each other, but I wanted to ask you a few questions about your services. Is this a good time to talk?"
 
Goofus: “If I hire you, will you eat my ass?”
Gallant: “Do you ever enjoy rimming?”
 
Goofus: “How big’s your fuckin’ cock, man?”
Gallant: “Can you describe yourself please?”
 
Goofus: “No, I can’t give out my number... I’m calling you from a hotel phone 'cause I’m married; I gotta have discretion.” CLICK.
Gallant: “Yes, I know I’m calling you from a restricted number, sorry. However, you sound great. Let me give you my cell number. If you'd like, you can call me back now. I’d love to set up an appointment, stud!”
 
Goofus calls HotCollegeJockNYC from his home in Indianapolis, and books a session an hour from now in the Plaza.
Gallant doesn't set up bogus appointments. And although not an escort, he’s an active supporter of his local SWOP chapter.
 
Goofus pulls his boxers off, and has one hand lubed up with his penis in it. His other hand holds the phone, as he calls a rentboy to ask for a detailed description as to how the rentboy would trample on Goofus’ dick.
Gallant wants to ejaculate like any healthy red-blooded American boy, but knows better than to bother hookers for this. Gallant respects escorts’ time. He phones a sex chat line, pays his $4.99 per minute, and 15 minutes later Gallant's in the shower washing up.

LOL - this is the best one yet! And, by the way, both are extremely common for escorts to hear.

Goofus and Gallant are both on the phone, shopping for escorts they find on Rentboy (by the way, they’re both in their boxers, although Goofus’ pair hasn't been changed in a week and has a brown streak in one section. and it smells.)

Goofus: "Hey, man, I saw your ad on rentboy. How much you charge?"
Gallant: "Hi, how’s it going? We don’t know each other, but I wanted to ask you a few questions about your services. Is this a good time to talk?"
 
Goofus: “If I hire you, will you eat my ass?”
Gallant: “Do you ever enjoy rimming?”
 
Goofus: “How big’s your fuckin’ cock, man?”
Gallant: “Can you describe yourself please?”
 
Goofus: “No, I can’t give out my number... I’m calling you from a hotel phone 'cause I’m married; I gotta have discretion.” CLICK.
Gallant: “Yes, I know I’m calling you from a restricted number, sorry. However, you sound great. Let me give you my cell number. If you'd like, you can call me back now. I’d love to set up an appointment, stud!”
 
Goofus calls HotCollegeJockNYC from his home in Indianapolis, and books a session an hour from now in the Plaza.
Gallant doesn't set up bogus appointments. And although not an escort, he’s an active supporter of his local SWOP chapter.
 
Goofus pulls his boxers off, and has one hand lubed up with his penis in it. His other hand holds the phone, as he calls a rentboy to ask for a detailed description as to how the rentboy would trample on Goofus’ dick.
Gallant wants to ejaculate like any healthy red-blooded American boy, but knows better than to bother hookers for this. Gallant respects escorts’ time. He phones a sex chat line, pays his $4.99 per minute, and 15 minutes later Gallant's in the shower washing up.

Good luck with this event, guys. I won't be attending it (I'll be in Bali then) but if any of you who are organizing this have any questions, perhaps I can help - as a longtime DC resident - and a former organizer (and DEMO host, hahaha) of the DR DC weekend - for several years. Just hit me up.
Dave

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That's not the way the game is played. If there aren't enough seats, the airline should keep raising the promised rewards for moving to another flight, until they are high enough to get passengers to choose to accept them. And by all means, you don't take someone off a flight who is already seated. This is reprehensible. Sell your United Airlines stock immediately. This company has no idea what they're doing.

I don't read or speak Spanish, but from watching the video, I don't think it was created to curb normal, everyday innocuous "manspreading" at all. Rather, what I got from the video was the "men only seat" was intended to let a man know what it would feel like to be subjected to male genitalia pressed up against them (just only one form of sexual harassment women have experienced on the subway).

I really hope you mean you're tired of women being sexually harassed. I can't speak for them, but I think they're tired of this shit too.

Thanks, Tristan. I'm just as impressed with you. Finding an escort who's centered and balanced is already a rare thing. Everything you bring to the table ... well, that's just icing on the cock. Cake.
 
Still waiting to have that first threesome with you... wonder if someone's gonna hire us together in 2017! At the very least, I bet we could put on a good show for him
 
Thanks funguy and UconnFlyer for the above, too!