purplekow

I had minimal male to male contact as a teen, once I received a BJ and got paid and the other a drunken frot session with a friend. Two years after my wife died, when I was 50, I found that sex with women left me feeling empty and guilty. I decided to try having sex with a man. I started hiring very selectively and for the most part part for 15 years I hired frequently but only one or two escorts in a rotation. Lately, I have hired and used dating apps much more frequently. This is especially so since my move to Palm Springs. I feel great about my choices to do so and agree with the other posters who suggested that doing more earlier seems like it would have been prudent. I do not know exactly why I was reticent. At this time, though I see women on occasion, I am more active with men. As I age, I have found that women I have met are more interested in a long term situation while men are more casual and escorts, of course, generally are not looking for a long term relationship with their clients. I am friends with many of the men I have hired over the years even though I do not see them professionally any longer. Finances are not a major issue but they do lead me to be a bit conservative about my hiring.

Indications for the vaccine are up to age 46 at the discretion of the physician and the patient. Younger people are recommended to have it up until age 26 starting at age 12 or so.

I wonder if the people you are quoting are renting. My guess is no.

I have often been told my cock is a great sucking size. While some might take that to mean it is a nice way to say it is not choke a horse big, I chose to think that anything that gets someone to want to suck my cock is a positive.

As with non provider partners, I prefer that they get off but that concern does dissipate once I have come. That being the case, I ask if they want to come and tell them though I like it as a form of validation, it is not necessary. Sometimes escorts have asked me if I want them to come as they are hold themselves back. I am always a yes on that. But my ultimate philosophy about this is. We are all responsible for insuging we have the orgasm we want.

Out of the many I have hired, I have about ten escorts that I hired for a prolonged period of time. I was, essentially, a serial monogamous escort hirer. who occasionally strayed to others for variety. I am still in contact with all ten of these men to a greater or lesser extent. I consider then acquaintance at one end and friends at the other. It is as though I dated them and it did not work out but we remained friends. In fact, one of them just spent a week at my home on a trip from one coast to the other. That being said, I have never had sex with these men off the clock and once :I stopped hiring them, when we are together, there is not an attempt to get together sexually. So, even though at the time I was seeing them, I may have fantasized about being in love, these relationships evolved, as most sexual relationships do into less desire and more routine. None of them evolved into love. And though most of them remain in great shape and very sexy, I have never considered returning to our previous arrangement. One of them did stay at my home for a few days and made a point of walking around naked and at least a bit aroused, but while he looked great I had no desire to pay for sex with him and did not try to get there for free.

I firmly believe every complement I get even the ones which are factually false. Why not? It is either true or I would like it to be true and if I believe it, it is true for me at that time. No use feeling bad about yourself or denying what other people say in a complementary way.

By the way, how many cameo Chostbusters can you name. I got 8 but there are more than that.

Who do I call? Ghostbusters?

Renters, for the most part, are paying more per month and while if you include upkeep on the house, that may be more for the owner. However, rents go up and there are still maintenance cost for renters, such as painting and minor repairs. This is especially so if your landlord is absentee, a large corporation or just interested in draining whatever money can be gotten from the rental. Also an appropriate rental for a 22 year old single is not going to be appropriate for a 32 year married with a child, so the cost is likely to go up. While a family might outgrow a house, they will have the equity to move on after a sale. The ability to put money away will likely be more difficult for the renter as their rent goes up. I might add, that I own my home free and clear and so at this point, renting would be much more expensive than owning and the reason that I own is because I chose to do so when I was younger. Once the mortgage was paid, I was able to save and invest much more money than I would have if I was renting. As a landlord, I am glad they are people renting and if you believe this is the best way for you to live, I am grateful for the monthly payment that you make on my house.

There was a lot of information in the post reagrding life in Chicago. I do not recall seeing tax deductions for interest payments in there. The government does subsidize your mortgage to some extent by allowing you to take the interest as a tax deduction. For some, that applies to the state tax as well. There is also the benefit of a property tax deduction. Also prices of houses, at least for now keep going up as do rents. So what is true in 2025 may be different in 5 years. Houses may be more expensive and rents will have certainly increased. Again, if you can afford the rather small amount of the next months principal for the first 5 years, you will actually have paid off 10 years of the mortgage. At that time, refinancing the mortgage at the appropriate time may get you extra cash and a better rate and a lower payback period. In my situation, I took an adjustable 30 year mortgage, made double payments for the first three years and was able to refinance at a much better fixed rate for 15 years. My 30 year mortgage became a 20 year mortgage and I was again able to double pay my principal to cut the length of time to repayment down further. At 8 years, I sold that house, took the equity as a downpayment for two houses, one of which was a three family house which I rented at a profit and at a tax advantage. Bottom line, a long term mortgage can be leveraged against future earnings and tax breaks. Rent for my renters was money out of their pockets into my equity and my pocket. When I eventually sold the rental house, the renters had a place to live for the years they were there and I have several hundred thousand dollars. Granted there were expenses I took on for repairs and upkeep, but all told, starting out with an affordable long term mortgage allowed me to juggle my finances into a much more secure financial future.

I took a 30 year mortgage and paid it off in 15 by paying two payments at once by adding the next months principal to the usual mortgage payment. Year 2000 dollars bought a lot more than 2025 dollars do, so paying a mortgage on a house with today's prices might seem like and likely will be a bargain in 10 years. So, use the long term mortgage as a bridge to paying the loan off is less time. This is especially true if you expect your career to pay you more in the future. Those extra principal payments do get larger as time goes by so you need to account for that.

One of my favorite escorts, and the one that is the best sex partner, has an average sized cock but an huge amount of enthusiasm, skill, energy and endurance. Granted, I do not bottom. so size it not an issue in that regard, but even if I did, he has the reputation of being energizer bunny like in this regard and there are videos to prove it. I am always stunned by big muscle guys like Vin Marco and Apollo Phoenix who have great bodies and large endowments, but while they have been great for me, there is something to be said for all types of enthusiastic men.

I am glad it worked out for you and him. Perhaps a valuable lesson has been learned in that you definitely seem to have been much more invested than he. For future encounters, the first time you do not get what you were expecting, tell him. If it happens a second time, remind him. If it happens a third time, stop hiring him and tell him good bye at that meeting.

It is considerate of you to want the escorts you are financing to have a good time, but really it is there job to make sure that you do. You need to be clear what you need and what they need should be secondary to that. Not to say that they cannot have fun, but it should only be at your willingness. So, in the threesomes I have arranged, most were with partners and they were told that my expectation was that at least one of them should be paying attention to me unless I indicate that I am all for being the odd man out for a bit. I once had a three way with a couple whom I hired several times. One was always the top for anal though he gave excellent head and the other always the bottom. I enjoyed watching them go at it as I am not into bottoming. One time, the last time actually, the top asked me to top him. He told me he did not usually bottom during paid encounters but he wanted to see how that would work out. He apparently did not inform his partner that this was going to happen and when the top suddenly threw his legs in the air and groaned for me to fuck him, I obliged, to the consternation of the the bottom who watched for a bit and then asked if he was needed in a way that was not conducive to my continuing to fuck his partner. After that encounter, which did continue with my switching to fucking the bottom, I never did hire them again. I wanted to hire the top as a single, but I did not want to cause any difficulty. The top said he would need to clear it with his partner if I was going to fuck him. So even the best laid plans can go awry.