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46 minutes ago, Jose Anmo said:

1. the provider blocked you on social media i.e. Grindr, Scruff etc... 
2. the provider ignored you on social media 

Not a chance.   I agree with the others....time to move on.    

Good question.  I don't know why either, but he has been around for years so wouldn't make too much of it.  

16 hours ago, Hotaru said:

In the website rentmasseur you can find them by Holisticos 

I have met Holisticos and he does offer other services.   Nice guy so feel free to ask him.   

Yeah, he's been around for while now.  I haven't met him but have heard only positive things.  Let us know how it goes. 

On 1/2/2023 at 5:27 AM, Skip said:

You don't get eggs that look like him at Aldi...you sound more than a value shopper, just plain cheap. As I have said time and time again this sport is not for pensioners. $350 is a regular rate in most places. Now whether he is your type or lives up to his promises, different subject, but $350 is on the low side of regular rate in most areas. 

$350 is on the low side?  Maybe on the coasts, but in the heartland that is actually on the high end.  

2 hours ago, handiacefailure said:

Sent him a message on Rentmen before looking at this thread.   He said he would be in Detroit in his ad and now he has totally different cities listed with no review.   He responded and said to check him out on onlyfans.   

 

He shows Detroit dates again in his profile but that's likely BS too.   Most/all of the Turkish masseurs just use the platform to push you to their OF site as others have mentioned.  I can't count how many times I've reported them to RM but they do nothing so I gave up.   

54 minutes ago, jessmapex said:

I have a cautionary tell on this topic.

I started hiring in my late twenties/early 30s. Almost 20 yrs ago. I had several close gay friends - a few were especially close and remained close until a year or so ago. I was always honest with them and told them about my lifestyle which I summarized as my gay friends were my family and my romantic needs were outsourced to external vendors i.e escorts.

A couple of these friends also knew descriptions of some of the guys I met and about my good and bad experiences. 

My general thinking was as I was honest and upfront about my choices, it should be ok. One friend expressed minor concerns and others being very progressive were non-judgemental. This lifestyle choice never seemed to come between our friendships. These friendships were my primary support structure.

Fast forward twenty years later, as the pandemic and related stresses rolled in, and as the political polarization grew, one of the progressive friends who could not hold a job down and over the years grew somewhat jealous of my modest success (basic ability to have a good paying job for all these years) had a fall out with me after getting drunk. The words that came out of his mouth were eye-opening. He said you might be successful, but you pay for s*x. "You are a pedophile that you go after young guys" ( I have never been with anyone under 23 - but I do admit my preference is for escorts between 25-35 ). He called me all sorts of names. The alcohol and built in jealousy brought out how he really felt about what I thought was an honest and upfront lifestyle that I personally have no qualms about as long as there is mutual consent and no exploitation. Another close friend, who departed a year before this one due to political differences (he was tea-party supporter and later a Trumpster and I am somewhat left of the center) which he grew especially sensitive about in the polarized pandemic years, also mentioned about me 'hiring hookers' as one of my bad traits in our final argument.

So 20-21 years ..after being very close friends - almost equivalent of a family - I realized that friends, no matter how progressive, harbored negative feelings toward my ability to hire the best looking guys to have some fun. Those came out eventually despite them telling me it was cool with them through the years.

So, my advice is do not overshare. Gay friendships fall apart, friends are not family. They will use this against you when they no longer want to be your friends. 

With this experience, I now have become very introvert. 

 

 

I was going to say just the opposite.  In my experience, families fall apart and tend to be more judgmental.  My chosen family (friends) is always there for me.  

4 hours ago, Alwayscuriose said:

Me with him couple weeks ago, excellent massage, and he asks all the appropriate questions, super nice and sexy guy, available on some weekends he values his regulars/base clients. 

You just joined the site 4 hours ago but you know that this provider values his regulars and when he is available?  Hmmm

On 12/16/2021 at 4:01 PM, DDad4ynger said:

Says he went to U of M so probably not a traveler. I will be in Detroit for the Christmas season would love to know if anybody’s met with him. Pretty sexy guy.

I've met him.   He definitely did not go to UM.   The University of Michigan also has never offered a BA degree called "Medical Therapy" as he claims to have. https://admissions.umich.edu/academics-majors .  His profile shows he is 27 but started college in 2009 which would make him at least 32 now.   Other profiles he uses state he graduated with a MD from the University of Baghdad in 2009 which would put him closer to 42.  Its all BS, but that probably doesn't matter.  If you like a small muscle guy, he may be right for you.    (He is nowhere near 5'10"  as in his RM ad)

The info you guys sent me worked.  I contacted RM, sent them the back up and they deleted the ad within about 10 minutes.   Good to see.  

I knew you guys would have the dirt on this guy.   Thanks again! 

18 minutes ago, BabyBoomer said:

The ads are fake. I remember that phone number from a recently deleted ad.

~Boomer~

Thanks!  That's what I figured as well. 

This guy just popped up on RM but a quick number search shows a profile on hot.com as well.  The pics on both sites look similar but I'm not sure they are the same guy.  One has tats and the nose looks somewhat different as well.  I know there are a bunch of photo experts on this site so thought I would ask for your opinions.  Thanks

https://hot.com/us/ny/new-york-city/gay-escorts/gallery/1-347-997-5157/m-hwm[

https://rent.men/GuyRayy

It's all too common unfortunately. I don't care about which languages they speak either, but I always wonder why some guys lie about that since its such an easy one to check.  You can easily lie about your age, but lying about a language is a lot more difficult to pull off.  I met a guy a couple of weeks ago who was supposedly fluent in German.  We met, I switched to German at some point and turns out he doesn't speak a word.  He realized he had been caught and made for an overall uneasiness to the conversation after that.     

Can anyone provide any insight on this masseur?  He just showed up in Detroit and don't remember seeing him before-although he looks familiar for some reason.  He seems to have all good reviews but figured I would ask the experts on this site for the truth.  Thanks.  

https://rentmasseur.com/BradenLauderdale

My session with Robertdjr was rushed and way overpriced with very little sensual/erotic elements so I can't recommend him either. 

If a masseur shows both sensual and erotic options in their profile, I think it is their responsibility to explain the differences-especially when asked.  I always inquire now but more often than not, the answer is very vague.  I had one masseur tell me he provides "erotic massage" and once we met, was surprised he does not allow MT or HE.  He said "erotic" to him meant I got to see him naked.  From that point forward, I've been very detailed in all communications.   

I would be hesitant as well.  His schedule always shows 2 days max in any one city.  At the end of November, he was supposedly visiting 9 cities in 11 days and they were all over North America.  His current schedule is similar.  Seems highly unlikely to me.  When I contacted him last month, his only response was "text".  Too many red flags for me so I stopped contacting him.  

He has yet another new profile name.  https://rent.men/IVEGANMANXX

$250 for a 60 min massage?  (and it really is just a massage).  Not a chance. 

He plays too many games for me.  He was supposed to arrive in Detroit on Oct 26th.  We started texting nearly a week before his arrival.  He kept changing his dates and said he wasn't yet setting up appointments.  What he likely didn't realize is that we have a group of guys here who talk and share info so we all knew he was in fact setting up appointments and was already advising the hotel name, etc.  He texted me again once he was here and said I could now meet him because another client had cancelled.  I politely declined.  He was giving different stories to every guy that contacted him and caught in a bunch of lies.  Don't these providers realize many of the clients talk to each other and figure out the BS?  Guys like this don't need my money.  

1 hour ago, poolboy48220 said:

Bumping again - I haven't seen his ad in years, maybe he'd moved away or gone inactive for a while?  His last review (all five stars) is from 20202.  He's in Detroit this month.  

Agreed.  He used to have his ad up in the Detroit market for years but it's been at least three years since I've seen his ad.   I'm assuming he's a local who has moved away but back home for the holidays.  I don't know anyone who has actually met him.  

6 hours ago, Rudynate said:

He says he has a doctorate in the medical field.  That might be an MD, but it could be a PharmD,    A doctor of physical therapy, a PhD in nursing, all kinds of things.  He  also says he’s getting a second doctorate- not necessarily a PhD.  There are lots and lots of professional doctorates that are not PhDs. Whatever it is, I find driven men very sexy, especially when they can squirt a lot of loads.

Sure . Could be, but I'm going by the texts he sent me stating he is a Harvard educated MD and getting his second doctorate from there as well.    His words not mine.  

On the flip side, there is also an escort who claims to be getting his second PhD in addition to the MD he already has from Harvard...but still prefers to escort to make a living.    He even has a new profile name to go along with his new doctorate...this time likely from Cambridge.  https://rentmen.eu/DoctorXxX/   

I mainly just want an escort to be honest and able to hold a basic conversation.  It's usually hard to have an intellectual conversation when your mouth is full.  

I met him a couple of years ago.  Really nice guy.  Very personable, polite, etc   I thought the massage was mediocre and was mainly just rubbing oil all over your body multiple times.   Not sure I would hire him again but I enjoyed meeting him.  

Here is his RM profile:  https://rent.men/CamiloD