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I think his name is Kenny and he's from Windsor originally.  If that's him, he's been around a long time but with various names.  I have not met him though.  

Well....he just stood me up so I have nothing positive to say about this scammer.  He was checking into the hotel at the same time as our appointment and had another client.  He never texted me to let me know he was running late, had double booked, etc.  What he didn't know is that I was already in the hotel lobby and watched him check in, etc. He got caught and spent the next hour (after his client left) digging himself a deeper hole with continuous lies.    Do not trust this guy.  PM for details.  

2 hours ago, ButchAtl said:

I've been fortunate I guess in very rarely having experienced any behavior I would classify as annoying. 

But, the one handed rub while apparently texting with the other,  would probably be it.

Agree.   Masseurs checking their phones while they are supposed to be focused on the client is my biggest (and most common) complaint.  

I don't know of any Asian masseurs in the area currently.   Here are a few masseurs that seem to get the most positive reviews:

https://rentmasseur.com/LoganStone

https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/41269/

https://rentmasseur.com/shanetheway

If you are looking for something in particular, send me a PM and I'll give you some recommendations. 

Looks like he travels with https://rent.men/Hungarabic/#platinum.  They both have nearly identical profiles and even have the same misspelled words.  (ie. "erotic masage" ).

https://rent.men/ItsGoingToHurt/#platinum

Unfortunately this is fairly common and as you suspected, RM most likely won't do anything about it.

Overall a decent guy.  He is trained so can provide a true therapeutic massage if that is what you are looking for.  Probably not the best massage I've ever had, but not bad by any means either.  

5 hours ago, ThroatCummer said:

Private, constructive, authentic feedback is the best. It really helps 10x more than a review in which the reviewer is writing to the public and not the escort themselves. 

Take some time to think about your expectations for the sessions. Think about where it fell down and you were left feeling less than 100% satisfied. Consider your own mindset going into the session. Read it over and maybe re-write some of it once or twice before sending it directly to him in a private message. Sprinkle in some words about you maybe not being 100% upfront and forward with what you wanted, that this was your first time hiring (even if he knows, mention it twice more), and give him a solid three tips to improve his future escorting from your perspective of your time with him. Most importantly, come from a place where you want to develop him into the best escort he could be. 

If he's truly into this business for the right reasons and loves what he does, he will also love your feedback. He may not reply at all and that is okay. He may also reply and be a total dick. If that is the case, you have your answer about the session and that may actually warrant a negative review.

BUT. If he values your feedback and genuinely wants to improve, there's a chance you get a free or severely discounted repeat session out of it. In fact, I would argue a repeat session with him would also be so much better than you would be expecting. He would be offering that in order to improve his skills as an escort. That means he is, or will eventually be, an amazing escort.

People in general value good feedback and genuine concern for their development, no matter the industry. It's how you make actual connections in life. Authenticity, when delivered this way, isn't just a catchword people throw around these days. It's life-altering. 

Just my constructive feedback to you.

This may all sound good on paper but in reality (especially with this provider), I'm not sure my role as a client is to develop an escort's business model.  This is a luxury service industry.  At $300+ per hour, I expect some of the basics such as being able to communicate, perform, being polite, punctual, hygienic, etc.   The list goes on.  If he hasn't yet "developed" his skill set, he should be charging a lot less than $350/hour until he gets there.  I don't go to a restaurant, drop $350 on a terrible meal and then tell management I can't wait to come back to give them a second chance and teach them how to properly cook A5 wagyu. That is their job.  If I'm paying for 60 minutes I expect the session to last close to 60 minutes.   I have met this particular provider and had the same experience as several others in this thread. It was one of my worst experiences and I've had plenty.  

He just quoted me $600/hour minimum.  Wow.   I guess if he can get it......

Met him twice.  The first time was very good.  The second time a completely opposite experience.   He was really sick and kept coughing, hacking, etc.   He should not have been seeing clients in that condition and of course I got sick as well.   I wouldn't repeat again.  

https://www.seancody.com/model/344261/jason-emre

He's a nice guy and recently started filming for Sean Cody as well where he is called Jason something.  

Mark gives an excellent therapeutic massage.  He is trained and licensed.  He usually now travels with his partner and they seem to prefer tandem massages, but don't advertise as such.   I saw him a few times until I got tired of the preaching during the massage.   Last time I saw him he got into a rant on how I should try having sex with women (I have) and how he had sex with a trans woman a few years ago and it changed his life, etc.  During the first two sessions he got into a deep discussion about the need to calm my amygdala and then quizzes you during the next session to be sure you are "following his advice".   The actual massage is very therapeutic but I can do without the unnecessary commentary so I quit seeing him.   

On 2/22/2023 at 12:32 PM, Swmr said:

Prior to booking a massage, is it ever appropriate to ask a massage therapist if he is cut or uncut?  

If the plan is for the massage therapist to be naked or other activities may take place, then I would say it is fine to ask.  

I would definitely not recommend Cuban_boy.   He changes his name continuously, is very rude and overpriced.  He wants $300 for a JO session and if you ask about oral, he'll go off on you-no pun intended.  He has always advertised on the massage site but is now advertising on the escort site as well.  Just be sure you don't ask him about what services he offers (other than massage) because he will be very "offended".   https://rent.men/CUBAN_BOY

Bump.  I don't know any locals who have met him but do know he seems to change his profile location continuously, but all within the metro area.        

6 hours ago, BenjaminNicholas said:

... And the casual racism

The use of the term "illegal/undocumented" is now considered racist?  Wow....I live in a "progressive" city full of immigrants and have yet to hear that one.  I'm getting old I guess.    

22 hours ago, Quartz said:

I pulled the trigger and booked him back in December. He was as hot as he looked in photos, amazing muscles to feel, and have an extraordinarily tight ass.

However, my experience was a little negative but that could just be me. He didn’t get hard the entire time, even while I was sucking him off for a bit, which makes me feel unattractive or that he wasn’t into me, which eventually made me lose my own boner. His kisses were just ok and weren’t passionate.

When I eventually climaxed, I wanted to cuddle post-orgasm but he had gotten up immediately to wash up.

I didn’t specifically mention I wanted a BFE, so maybe that’s my fault. It was also my first time hiring a provider so I didn’t know what to expect or knew what I want.

YMMV and you might have a good time. He was an excellent conversationalist in person though and very friendly. I should’ve asked that we chat for a bit early on in the session before we got right down to business, but in a way, that would feel like I’m dictating the entire session blow by blow.

Same experience as mine.   He is from Detroit but moves back/forth to NYC.   Nice enough guy but my experience was extremely rushed.  I think I was in/out of his apartment in about 30 minutes max and he was practically pushing me out the door as I was getting dressed.   

On 2/13/2023 at 9:12 AM, ButchAtl said:

I've mentioned this before in other situations here, but I think its worth including in the thread as well... Location!!!

I am not referring for an actual street address here, but at least an area or street nearby.  This is an even more important piece of information when hiring in a city with a large geographical area.  Depending on drive times to some areas of my city can be a definite factor in a hiring decision.  And, sometimes  when you ask in an initial inquiry,  often times they forget to answer that part of a question.

RentMasseur has an "Map me" option that can be helpful, but all too often the masseur just defaults to the city map showing the a generic downtown area.

 

I couldn't agree more.   In any large metropolitan area, the drive time can be 1-2 hours so I always ask the provider for the general area (city, suburb, east side, west side, etc) where they are staying to get an idea about timing.   More often than not they don't answer or state they will provide that once I've booked.   

I met him in early 2022.  He was just OK and I wouldn't repeat.  A lot of attitude in a little guy but he did (eventually) provide the agreed upon service.  Feel free to PM if you want further details.  

Not at all.  There are plenty of guys who don't get into anal.  

On 11/13/2019 at 7:47 PM, Westsideguy said:

https://rentmasseur.com/Eliuguzman

 

Anyone have experience with Eliu?

I met him a couple of years ago when he was using a different name (he's changed it many times) and it was not a good experience.   A lot of promises before you meet but the actual session was a joke.   One of the worse I've met.  

I've heard the same about this guy, but never actually met him.  The pics are not of him but he is actually better looking than the pics. 

40 minutes ago, pubic_assistance said:

The thread is about choosing your sexuality.

Numerous people have shared their journey. Others have made it clear there was no "journey".

I would appreciate if we can avoid making this an argument. It's (mostly) a discussion about sexual fluidity and decisions, not about predetermined destiny. 

Share your opinion, Share your journey.

 

 

The issue is the word "choice".  Think of the millions of people who have been harmed, discriminated against and even killed because others said sexual orientation is a choice.  Choice means you had an alternative and that simply isn't the case for most gay men-at least none that I know.  When I see a naked woman, I don't get hard.  It's not a choice.  There is simply no attraction.  For some others such as bisexuals, maybe they are attracted to both.  Who knows?  Who cares?  The bottom line is, this talk of "choice" has caused irreparable harm to so many.  Think conversion therapy as an example.  The discussion about nature vs. nurture is a different matter.  

7 hours ago, newdad said:

Ok. So this means that going beyond a hand-job is at the discretion of the masseur.

Is blowjob common when hiring a masseur for an erotic or sensual massage?

I'm not sure about common but definitely not rare either for an erotic massage.  I had a masseur sit on my cock last week with no prior notice or discussion.  He said that was just part of his erotic massage and included in the rate.  Some of my best experiences were with providers from the massage site and not the escort site.